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Male Dominant, 40, Brooklyn, New York
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Male Dominant, 32, Brooklyn, New York
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About brooklynpainsub6
Louisville sub with restless soul needs local Dom. You are the man who puts a gleam in my eyes. Well behaved sub with good sense of humor, sometimes bratty, hoping for a new start. My owner will be smart, strong, experienced and loving. He knows a sub's service is a precious gift. He will appreciate my playfulness and strength as much as he appreciates my choice to give him all. He is looking for his anchor, the one that supports him in good times, the one he reaches for during tough times. No matter how hectic his life is, understanding my need for communication, he makes time for me, assuring me i am safe, needed, wanted. He sees me as a sub, but also as his partner, his equal. He is my Dom, my hero, my home. I am the one he can't wait to get back to.
Thank you for your consideration. |
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Thank you. Thank you to all the Doms that contact me with the respect and courtesy I look for in a man. If I don't like the man, how can I serve the Dom?
Thank you for remembering we are women, looking for someone to feel safe and nurtured with. Thank you for remembering that we want to know who you are, how you will treat us. Thanks for remembering first impressions are hard to erase.
I have been asked and complimented about the fact that I use the word Sir from first contact with a Dom, even if he is not respectful. (of course that can change depending on continued conversation). it is about the person I am, how I feel about myself, the pride I have in being a sub, the person I want the Dom to see.
When you contact us, remember that being polite does not make you less of a Dom, does not take away your power. Instead, it makes you more of a man.
When you contact us, what is it you want us to see? What is it you want to attract? For those of you that don't know any better, keep that in mind when you contact us.
Respectfully,
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to the one that just blocked me because I told him no. I do hope you find your bliss and the maturity to understand that Doms can be respectful and still be in control. Subs are a gift. Until you understand that, the word no will continue to be the answer from any subs with any self worth. I wish you well. |
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Don't send me a picture of your cock.
1. I have a tool box, I don't need another tool.
2. If you think that is what is going to impress me, rethink calling yourself a Dom.
3. If you think that is what is going to impress a sub, know that sub is not synonymous for someone just looking for sex. Our talent is so much more, sex isn't even our primary desire.
4. Unless yours plays music or you can make the equivalent of a balloon animal out of it, i wont be impressed. |
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Thank you Vets. We love you. :) |
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Posting this safety info that i just became aware of. I have a previous neck injury and this is especially important for other subs that have past injuries.
Neck Snap:
Beware of?neck snap. Subs may experience this when struck with any type of strong blow on the back or buttocks, reflexively snap his or her can neck back. It is literally a form of?whiplash. This, in and of itself, can be a source of unintentional and highly undesirable injury, particularly if the submissive, has an already-weakened neck due to something like an old injury or arthritis. Dominants need to stay alert for this.Among other things, the sub may be too zoned out to notice or care about this during the scene itself, but it could reveal itself with awful effects the morning after. Please remember to inquire about joint weakness during your pre-scene negotiations. Perhaps, specifically ask about neck conditions. Stay alert for neck snap when spanking or whipping the submissive. If you notice it, do what you can to reduce or eliminate it. Possible methods for dealing with neck snap includes ordering the submissive to keep their neck still, having them lace their fingers behind their neck, and placing one of your own hands on the back of their neck or head while you spank or whip with the other. Experimentation and feedback will tell you which works more effectively. |
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living will form
I, ____________, being of sound mind and body, do not wish to be kept alive indefinitely by artificial means. Under no circumstances should my fate be put in the hands of pinhead partisan politicians who couldn't pass ninth-grade biology if their lives depended on it, or lawyers/doctors/hospitals interested in simply running up the bills.If a reasonable amount of time passes, and I fail to ask for
(Check appropriate items)
______a Martini ______a Margarita ____ a Scotch and soda______ a Bloody Mary ______a Gin and Tonic _______a Glass of Chardonnay______a Steak ______Lobster or crab legs ______the remote control______a bowl of ice cream ______the sports page______ Sex ______Chocolate
It should be presumed that I won't ever get any better. When such a determination is reached, I hereby instruct my appointed person and attending physicians to pull the plug, reel in the tubes, and call it a day. At this point, it is time to call the New Orleans Jazz Funeral Band to come and do their thing at my funeral, and ask all of my friends to raise their glasses to toast the good times we have had.
Signature : __________________________ Date : __________
P.S. I also hear that in Ireland they have a Nursing Home with a Pub. The patients are happier, and they have a lot more visitors. Some of them don't even need embalming when their time comes. |
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Respectful Doms? Some of you think the 2 words can't coexsist? I don't want to hear in your first emails to me about your cock or my pussy. I don't want to hear your stupid nicknames for body parts that i haven't heard since highschool. You haven't earned the right to call me whore, slut, cunt. A sub/slave is not one of those unless it is her choice, not yours. Don't make that assumption and we won't assume your are a jerk, dumbass, or troll. Respect works 2 ways. We are not less than you, we are your partners that choose to put your needs first. We are the gift you get to unwrap whenever you choose, by our choice. Treat us like you deserve us pkease. Make us want you, the Dom and the man. Otherwise, don't waste our time. |
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?Only a submissive can know the feelings of security, comfort and sense of being home afforded by kneeling at the feet of the One they choose to serve.?
~ For The Love of a Submissive, 2013 |
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THE ONE FLAW IN SUBMISSIVE WOMEN
-BORROWED WITH PERMISSION
By the time the Lord made submissive woman, he was into his sixth day of working overtime. An angel appeared and said, "Why are you spending so much time on this one?"
And the Lord answered, "Have you seen my spec sheet on her? She has to be completely washable, but not plastic, have over 200 movable parts, all replaceable and able to run on diet coke and leftovers, have a lap that can hold four children at one time, have a kiss that can cure anything from a scraped knee to a broken heart-and she will do everything with only two hands."
The angel was astounded at the requirements. "Only two hands!? No way! And that's just on the standard model? That's too much work for one day. Wait until tomorrow to finish."
"But I won't," the Lord protested. "I am so close to finishing this creation that is so close to my own heart. She already heals herself when she is sick AND can work 18 hour days."
The angel moved closer and touched the submissive woman. "But you have made her so soft, Lord."
"She is soft," the Lord agreed, "but I have also made her tough. You have no idea what she can endure or accomplish."
"Will she be able to think?", asked the angel.
The Lord replied, "Not only will she be able to think, she will be able to reason and negotiate."
The angel then noticed something, and reaching out, touched the submissive woman's cheek. "Oops, it looks like you have a leak in this model. I told you that you were trying to put too much into this one."
"That's not a leak," the Lord corrected, "that's a tear!"
"What's the tear for?" the angel asked.
The Lord said, "The tear is her way of expressing her joy, her sorrow, her pain, her disappointment, her love, her loneliness, her grief and her pride."
The angel was impressed. "You are a genius, Lord. You thought of everything! Submissive woman is truly amazing."
And she is!
Submissive women have strengths that amaze men.
They bear hardships and they carry burdens, but they hold happiness, love and joy.
They smile when they want to scream.
They sing when they want to cry.
They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous.
They fight for what they believe in.
They stand up to injustice.
They don't take "no" for an answer when they believe there is a better solution.
They go without so their family can have.
They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
They love unconditionally.
They cry when their children excel and cheer when their friends get awards.
They are happy when they hear about a birth or a wedding.
Their hearts break when a friend dies.
They grieve at the loss of a family member, yet they are strong when they think there is no strength left.
They know that a hug and a kiss can heal a broken heart.
Submissive women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.
They will drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you to show how much they care about you.
The heart of a submissive woman is what makes the world keep turning.
They bring joy, hope and love.
They have compassion and ideals.
They give moral support to their family and friends.
Submissive women have vital things to say and everything to give.
HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ONE FLAW IN SUBMISSIVE WOMEN, IT IS THAT THEY FORGET THEIR WORTH.
Inspired by the Original version (The One Flaw in Women) by: author unknown
Slightly modified by: QSD |
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Almost ready to start again. :) |
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Someone said the nicest thing today. We haven't known each other long, work together. He said the 1st time he met me, he knew i was a submissive. I have been questioning who i am. Now i know i am where i am suppose to be and doing it right. |
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Starting again. Wish me luck. :) |
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Someone asked how i would know i found the one. I found something that reflects the perfect answer for me.
Master: Slave,do you love me?
Slave: Of course, Master!
Master: Then I want you to shout it to the whole world as loud as you can.
Slave: (whispers in His ear) I love you.
Master: I thought I told you to shout it to the world?
Slave: Master, you are my world.
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Really? You are not all that. I exchanged 3 or 4 emails with you here and let you kniw how to reaxh me on yahoo. After 10 minutes of conversation, you want my phone number so we can talk about meeting you? I havent even decided if I really like you or you can meet my needs. Did you think, as a Dom, oy your needs count? Then you stomped your little feet with the responding fuck you when I told you I wasnt giving you my number at this point. Poor baby. Were your feelings hurt? Did you think just your looks would make me loose common sense because the conversation obviously wasn't enough? I have good teachers. I am careful. I am a good sub. I am a smart sub with good instincts. I pegged you as the jerk you are before you showed your colors.. Unball your fists little boy and grow up. |
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I have to start again. I thought I would be afraid, thought it would feel darker. Instead, I feel hopeful, maybe because I am more sure of myself. I have had really good Doms in my life and they have taught me how to be a really good sub. It is not just that though, it is the confidence they have helped me build, even in my insecurities, I hear their voices making me feel I am wonderful. I have learned and I have grown. I need to learn and I need to grow. I am hopeful that the one I am to serve is there, waiting, looking for me with just as much hope. He needs to share his experience as I need to soak up that experience. He is my home, I am the one he comes home to. I am looking forward to a new beginning. I am looking forward to you Sir. |
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I feel so restless today, like a wild cat pacing in her cage. My mind is racing, my body screaming. I need the release of serving, the release that giving away control and feeling pain gives me. But today, that is not an option, so the pressure builds. I pace, hoping that I will get too tired to continue to need. Soon sleep will set in, my body and my mind will be free, at least until I wake tomorrow. |
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My new rules...lol
Bratty slave contract -- found on internet.
1. Master is always right, except when He isn't. When He isn't the slave has the obligation to bring to Master's attention His incorrect perceptions and false notions.
2. The slave has the right to hide any of Master's toys she does not like. Master then has the right to use the toy on the slave if He only can find them.
3. The Master may be under the impression the slave has done something she should not have been doing. The slave may then point out that not only did she not do such a thing, but also is under strict obligation to tell Master who did it, and Master has to believe her.
4. The Master owns the slave totally and has all rights to her body and complete say over how she behaves. The slave has the right to respectfully and politely request things of her Master, over and over again if need be.
5. The slave is to please her Master with every deed and thought she has and is to bring to Master's attention that this does indeed please Him, even if He says it doesn't.
6. The slave has the right to sign this contract on Master's behalf, so as not to bother Him.
7. The slave has the right to add to and amend any of these points, upon consultation with Master, even if He is not present for the consultation.
8. Master has the right to use the "Just because I want to" reason for His actions at any time. The slave then has the right to try and talk Master out of it.
9. The Master is to remember that His slave is a sweet innocent angel at all times.
10. The slave has the right to remind Master that she is totally guileless and above reproach. Everything she does she is to do for Him and she can also remind Him of that fact.
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Really jerk? U start talking to someone, tell them to send u nude pics a d expext them to say yes? We r subs, not mindless drones. U r not that cute that we r blinded to common sense. Several have turned u down? What does that tell u jerk? It says we r smarter than u. Find a real Dom and get Dom and man lessons. And grow up. |
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There is a Dom, and i use the term loosely, that i honestly explained to that i was seeing someone. I had told him before that his attitude that was not compatible with who i was looking for. When he contacted me again, i told him the same thing. His responsw was i cant try to make a relationship work if i am still on collar. First, why is it his business as long as i am honest. And his condescending tone.....really? We r subs, not doormats to be treated by any stranger any way he likes. He confuses being a Dom with being someone that just has control issues. Wipe your feet somewhere else. It won't be here. |
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MY HATE/LOVE RELATIONSHIP WITH BEING A SUB
i hate having to walk away from the one i thought was "the one". I hate starting over. I hate the way my body craves the need to be bound, tortured, used. I hate the dependency to pain, to the one i serve, to needing him to need me. I hate the grip being a sub has on me, to my very core, leaving me unable to walk away. I hate the way it feels when i do not have a home/Sir to get the release my body and mind need so much.
I love when i find what i am looking for. I love the excitement in his voice, in his eyes when he knows i am about to turn over all control, trust him completely. I love the feel of the pain as my mind wants it to stop and continue at the same time. I love the fear of what will happen next, of not knowing when it will end, of the pain that takes my breath away and makes me cum again and again. I love the feel of his arms around me, telling me that i am a good girl and i am what he needs too.
I HATE/ LOVE BEING A SUB. I wouldnt trade it for anything. |
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