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If you don't feel like reading the below: Bi-sub female is looking for intelligent and creative Domme (or spectacular Dom) for online, phone, and real time play and training...

You know that feeling you get when you meet a goal, small as it may be? One of my goals was to lost 30lbs in three months. I did it (and I'm still going) and my reward for doing it is to post here and begin my search for like-minded friends - people to chat online with, people to e-mail with, people to talk on the phone with, and people to spend real life time together with if all the stars align and we both feel comfortable doing so.

I've never posted on a personals site before, so if I do something here that's totally un-ok, I trust someone will tell me, right? Just because I'm not a blonde, doesn't mean I can't be a complete airhead at times.

I am what I would consider a submissive, maybe a bottom. I'm not a slave by any stretch of the word, though, so for those of you looking for a mindless, senseless, thoughtless automaton slut robot, you need to go look elsewhere, ok? That's not me and it never will be me, regardless of the kind of "training" you will undoubtedly propose. I'm looking to integrate the BDSM world into my real life; I'm not looking for forget my real life... If that makes sense?

I enjoy relinquishing control to those whom I serve and trust, and I truly enjoy the serving part of things. I am a sexual submissive, which, to me, means that I enjoy relinquishing sexual control, but I have very little desire to do your dishes every day for the rest of my life. If you're looking for a house servant, I would suggest you look elsewhere as well.

Now, the interesting stuff...

I turn 25 tomorrow. I'm a bi-sexual female who would be considered BBW still, even though I've lost 10% of my body weight to date (yeah, I'm proud of that fact, can't you tell!?). I'm tall, proud, and very much a perfectionist. I consider myself intelligent and interesting, though I suppose that would only be true if you were interested in the same things as me. I absolutely adore photography (I'm a freelance photographer), web design (yes, I freelance at that too), writing, crafting, horseback riding, reading, music, television and movies, kayaking, skinny-dipping, fantasizing, perfume, and animals.

I'm not nearly as boring as I'm coming across in this profile. That I promise!

Sexually, I am interested in casual play with the option for a longer-term more serious relationship. Since I have just started grad school, I've moved home to live with my parents which means that there needs to be some flexibility, some creativity, and a whole lot of invention to make anything really work. Damn parents, cramping my kink! Ideally, I would like to get to know you and begin training online via IM and e-mails. It allows me to understand how you work a little bit, and allows you to understand me a little bit, without the awkwardness of "The Meeting" *insert dum dum dum ominous music*...

You will have to be smart, fun, inventive and imaginative, and full of a zest for life as well as articulate and capable of communicating your ideas. In return, I offer my trust, my gratitude, my servitude, and my devotion and loyalty to your teachings.

I am looking to be trained and molded by a Domme (or hell, a really fantastic Dom might work too...) for use in real life, either for herself, by another person for herself over the cam, or for her to give to someone else. I'm flexible, like I said. The opportunity to relocate is always available, since I will be looking for a job come the summer, and my profession is needed the world 'round. I am interested in online, im, e-mail, skype, phone, and real life play, training, and sessions. One of my fantasies is to be trained to be a fantastic phone sex slut, though that is only one of MANY fantasies that my overactive imagination dreams up.

I am interested in bondage (I can't get enough of it, ever), following orders, light to moderate pain, forced masturbation, forced orgasms, orgasm control (something I am abysmally horrendous at), nipple play and/or torture, candle wax, ice cubes, toys, dildos, anal play (mmm, butt plugs!), clit stimulation (minty toothpaste, anyone?), punishment when I am bad, exhibitionism, and so.much.more. As you can see, I'm extraordinarily interested in a wide variety of things... About the only hard limits I have are scat, blood, permanent marking, kids (though slight age play as some interest to me), etc.

I have had some preliminary experience with real life and online play and I'm just looking for the right woman to take it further. Unfortunately, due to my job, I can't put a photo online here, but I do have some; feel free to ask or to instruct me to utilize my cam to prove that I am who I say I am...

Thanks for reading, everyone!
rabit
 
 Age: 27
 Louisville, Kentucky