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*Edit* Currently in a relationship. Seeking only friendship.
Leaving the rest of the profile intact so that you can get to know me a little.
Ally
Greetings All. At this moment I am seeking only Dominant Men for play and exploration. I have a few years of experience (yes I realize that I am young to be able to say that) - but it's true. I have done lifestyle, play, and scenes. I enjoy situations where there is no hesitation from the Dom in asking, demanding, or commanding his desires. However - I will not and cannot submit to just any Dom who thinks that barking orders is an acceptable way to begin a relationship. Also - submissive women are people too. I do NOT enjoy dehumanization or excessive humiliation. I am exceptionally willful - and it takes a special quality of person to be able to Dom me effectively. The most important aspect of any D/s encounter for me is Respect, from and to both parties. I am not soft and yielding. I am willful and fiery - but nothing brings me greater pleasure than being able to give myself over to another person.
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Does your profile contain a spelling error in every word? Did you message me with shorthand "u r so cute" - I don't require you to be perfect. But please, if you message me make it a complete sentence free of obvious spelling and grammar errors. I am an English major. It's a huge turn off.
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I apologize to all of those that I have kept hanging. I have had quite a few real life events draw me away, and I should be back pretty regularly. Dealing with these issues has been a long and arduous process. I thank those of you who have enough patience to understand.
Ally
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Passion. I have passion for everything I do in my life, whether it is school, work, or play. I tend to live my life in third gear, and expect the same out of my partner. I had a profile on here a while back, and got frustrated with this the first time around. Now I am trying again, with a bit more hope. I want to try new things, and be creative and experimental, but I also find myself craving GOOD D/s action. I'm torn between looking for something more structured, or just searching for playmates. The problem comes in with the fact that I need to fully respect a person before submitting, if I do not - then I can't get the kind of interaction I am searching for.. This usually means getting to know and becoming attached to my Dom.. But I kind of just want to play... I'm so confused!!
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Now that I've got my complaining out of the way, I figured I should speak of myself in terms of the type of submissive I am, rather than my high standards of a dom. The things that I derive pleasure from in a D/s relationship are as follows: Learning another's needs to the point where commands and demands are all but obsolete. I like to have the situation be a challenging one - mentally first and physically second. (though I enjoy both!) I imagine a situation where I can read my dom so well that an encounter can progress with scarcely a word spoken. This means that I need to spend a great deal of time learning and studying my doms wants and needs. Mundane as well as sexual. The sexual aspect of a relationship is actually secondary to me, although I have a voracious sexual appetite.
More on this later!
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Alright, so I'm a submissive with a Will, an intellect, and an opinion.
So - please for the love of all things dark and beautiful, read my profile. Respect is one of the major items listed in it. One immediate way to gain a modicum of my respect is to bother with the basics of the English language. Remember, that a lot of the time first impressions are very difficult to over come - so if you message me with "Ur pretty, what r u in2?" What kind of resume does that present to me?
Seriously. My profile and all of my responses to individuals are composed of complete sentences and (mostly) free of spelling and grammar mistakes.
You want a moment of my time? A good impression, then take more than five letters to ask me how I'm doing!!
If you're looking for a pliable, soft, easy slave who will immediately submit to all of your demands, I am NOT for you.
I need someone respectable, erudite, capable of complete sentences and a spell check function. Also, a Dom with a VERY strong will who can stimulate me in every possible way. Socially, intellectually, physically, spiritually.
Are complete sentences, a bit of creativity, and more than one hundred fifty characters too much to ask? (telling me I'm pretty - flattering, but redundant.. You're already messaging me! It's alright to add a compliment in, but don't make it the entirety of your post to me .. be serious folks!)
Don't get me wrong.. I know my place next to my dom. I'm sure that many of you will find this a turn off. This whole mildly disdainful attitude toward about 60% of the men who message me.. But I have high standards.. When I give myself, I give myself with the same passion that I put into the most important things in my life.
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| Age: 22 |
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