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KinkyCouple507
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Things in my life are near constantly fluid, so I try to keep this thing updated regularly, however, I'm not on it as much as I used to be.
Currently seeking a serious, young (closer to my age than not) submissive or switch boy or girl. Must be confident in himself and his ability to serve a somewhat demanding Mistress. I'm a fetish model. I am currently looking for a non-romantic relationship with a submissive who will understand what it means to be open, honest, and knows how to communicate.
I am also completely out and involved in my local scene. If you wish to remain completely closeted (private play only), I am not the Mistress for you.
I have many varied interests in this lifestyle, so feel free to ask questions.
Yes, I'm a bi poly switch pagan geek Unicorn. I'm a bit wild, totally neurotic. I have a sweet little girl side, a brat side, a mean sadistic side, and a sensual side.
I'm a college student, I love talking theory and practice of the leather scene, and I always enjoy making friends. I am a scene educator and I also sell edgeplay toys.
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What I am looking for:
Someone who desires to serve a busy, active young woman by engaging in housework, occasional local travel, semi-public (scene events) and private play. I am not looking for someone to be my lifepartner; I have a boyfriend and we are sexually monogamous. However, if the only thing truly missing from your life is some Dominant companionship and the chance to be submissive, I'm your girl.
What I am not looking for:
Weak-willed people who associate submissive with doormats, people who enjoy topping from the bottom or who have fetishes over the desire to serve, anyone on the downlow who needs to lie and deceive their partner with their whereabouts (I will be honest with my partner, I expect you to be honest with yours should you have one.)
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For the record, when I say I'm "completely out" I mean, completely out. While I will work minimally with someone who isn't used to going out, whomever I choose as my partner MUST go out to events with me. I will NOT tolerate being stood up, or having you decline to go out with me because you are "afraid" of being out in public. I say I'm a demanding mistress not because I'm high maintenance necessarily, but because this is a requirement.
I want someone who is proud to be with me, proud to go out in public and serve me, and eventually to wear my collar. I realize it's not "hip" to be a "submissive male," but I'm not going to be your therapist to work our your issues with the greater of society. I've run across several men who only want to play in private, or will only go to certain smaller events. Do not waste my time.
If you are going to adopt a title, adopt it fully. I will not own someone who does not own themselves.
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Broke up with the mono/vanilla boy, uncollared the slave boy, but am still involved with my Daddy.
Currently looking for a submissive boy to get to know first, then build a lasting, real, romantic relationship with. Only serious admissions please. I've got enough casual play partners to build a small hamlet with.
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Well, it's been a while since I've updated here. Honestly, I'm mostly on now for various reasons. Mostly among them is I'm not searching anymore for ... anything. It's complicated, but what in life isn't?
I've recently acquired property, a boy I was seeing for a while. Eventually, we decided that a sexual relationship wasn't for us, but we fit the Owner/owned dynamic well. It's not exactly a 24/7 TPE relationship, but as we're both new to our roles, we're taking it as we go. I'm always looking for friends and mentors, as well as ideas for a college-setting relationship.
There's more to my dating life, but it's too complicated for a simple collarme journal entry. Events from our past often affect us more in the present than we like to admit, and in the future, more than we can know now. As always, if you really wanna know, ask! I reserve the right not to answer, however. :)
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Black Rose this year was absolutely amazing. Thanks to everyone I played with, cuddled with, and otherwise interacted with. All of you made it special, some of you made it more special. (You know who you are.)
One day when I find I have something exciting to say, I'll update this more. But for now, I'm just really enjoying traveling around, meeting people, and gathering new friends and play partners to my social circle. If I'm meant to find The One For Me, if there is one (or two or three...) then I'll find them on my journeys.
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I am currently suspending my search for a partner; I've come into a relationship that I was to nurture and see where it goes before adding anyone else to my life.
Feel free to email me, but I'm only looking for friends.
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I've been a bit busy pulling together some loose ends in my life, but I AM reading the emails I get, and will eventually respond. Please be patient. :)
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I think in this life, we all need a certain amount of leeway and time to be crazy with the people we love and trust.
And I don't mean, like, crazy drunk. I mean, I'm falling apart and need to ramble at you while you hold me and say nice things crazy. Sure, it may seem like common sense reading it here on the internet, but how many of you can really stop when your partner is falling apart, and put your own concerns aside to take care of them?
Think about it. Dominance doesn't mean you always get your way.
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Another day, another update.
I'm going on my second "blind" date from this site today. I know it's not technically blind, as we've talked for a while, but there's still something different about meeting in real life than saying the "right" words on the internets.
The first one wasn't so great, but we'll see how this one goes. Just a simple day at the beach with a nice submissive boy from around my area.
I am also still talking to my previous Owner, and we're trying to figure out where we stand once this summer is over, and his other submissive goes back to college. In case you're a dominant viewing my profile, and wondering why I haven't replied/swooned over you yet, it's because I'm being very cautious with who I see and attach myself to in that arena. Hopefully, you'll understand. :)
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Some things in this life are a bit more subtle than I think most of us are used to. I try to pick up on them, and appreciate them, but I'm a very Live Out Loud kind of girl.
That said, I'm working on my patience in finding The One. It may be someone from my past, and I'm just waiting them to grow with me, to where I am, to accept acceptance. Or it may be someone in my future, who's waiting for me to fall into them by accident, and will sweep me away and treat me the way I deserve to be treated - with care, respect, and a strong hand.
I'm very strong willed, and reactive due to a very neurotic nature. But I'm also very loving, and adventurous. Even if it's not from this site specifically, it will be OK.
Everything happens for a reason.
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While I was talking to my previous Owner the other day, he mentioned that while he perused my updated profile, it was unlike another he'd read before. It's very open and honest, sometimes to a fault, just like me.
While what I have basically outlined is my end goal, I am not quite there yet to have a full on relationship with just anyone. I'm a pretty awesome chick (full of humility), and I really just want to slow down, and take my time finding The One. As my mom says - you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your Prince.
My last relationship ended after a wonderful two and a half years. But, we were in different places in our lives and still try to remain friends. I like the thought of being swept off my feet, but I'm also willing to wait to find That Someone, or Someone(s). I'm generally not into couples, but I'm also an optimist. What will be, will be.
Please do not be offended if I do not message you back; like most wild Unicorns, I get inundated with many messages.
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Another side note:
I do NOT want someone who is an introvert as a Dom. If you are the kind of person who often curls into themselves when things get rough, you will frustrate me. I need to be free to talk and discuss and analyze where we are in this world, together. I do NOT need to find someone who, after x amount of years together, falls apart on me and forgets what I mean to them, and refuses to talk about it.
I don't want mushy romance all the time, or anything like that, I just want to meet people who feed on life, who enjoy adventures, who have a lust for all that comes with living in today's world. Including their partner.
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Just for clarification... I want ONE Dom in my life, ONE Daddy to be my everything in that respect. Therefore, I will be MUCH more discerning with the Doms who message me, and much more critical. While I may play with other tops, I do NOT want anything more than casual with more than one. I am looking for a life partner, NOT someone who is looking for simply a good time.
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As busy as I am, I definitely miss having someone to curl next to at the end of the night. I mean, yes, on occasion I end my night with a companion, but it's not permanent, like I used to have. I miss having a warm body next to me that I am completely devoted to, and happy just to be near.
Of course, that person would have to be happy to have me back, and warmly ask me about my day. Even if we spent it completely apart, we can have that pillow talk and be happy for each other. I don't ever want to deny part of myself again for the sake of having a partner - the next person I fall in love with, or who I decide is worthy of my time, will be one who really loves and accepts me for the craziness I bring to the world, and understands that the things I do without them are not meant to personally hurt them; if anything, that time apart enhances the love and appreciation I feel when I am with them.
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I am currently having a BLAST discovering more things I am interested in at a weekend play party near Baltimore. It's been an incredible two days, and I still have one more. :)
Something I've noticed, is that any future willing Dom I may get involved with should definitely be open for me playing with other people, and then being there to comfort me afterwards. Compersion - as stupid of a word as it may be - is a big thing with me. I am more than happy to have my partner enjoy the company and pleasure of another, as long as I am allowed the same in return.
I expect Dominance, not control, in any future relationship where I am the submissive. I'm kind of strong willed, fyi :)
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Just a hint:
If you plan on courting me, please have your messages well thought out. I do not like vague descriptions such as "will you do some tasks for me?" or "i want to be your submissive because i like to serve." What are your interests, who are you, what skills do you have to offer? What are your experiences with this lifestyle? Etc. I'm looking for a (or multiple) partner(s), someone I can be best friends with and also romantically involved; not
some joe who thinks he knows how to give me what he assumes I want.
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I have moved out of the apartment with my Sir, and am not quite sure what that means. Please do not message me looking for a relationship - I will probably not respond.
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As of May 1, 2007 I am living with my Sir!
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Just a thought... If you're going to be a jerk and send a girl a message about how she shouldn't be on a site when she states she has a master, maybe you should grow a set, and not block her when she has the cajones to call you out on it, k?
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So, just for clarifications's sake, I will not be responding favorable to Doms who send me either one line emails saying, "Y hello Thar Sexy" or "i want U as my personal slave k?" because, as my profile states, I have a dom. I am only looking for submissives, switches, slaves or even the occaisional dom to talk to... as friends. If you want anything else from me, you are barking up the wrong tree. I don't mean to sound bitchy, but it's really just rude. People write profiles for a reason, and honestly, mine just isn't that long. I'll state it again for clarity, and then get out of your hair: I have a wonderful Dom. No, I am not interested in having you [generic dom] as a Master or trainer or anything. Have any questions? Feel free to direct them to my dom: ixlr8.
Thank Y/you, and have a nice day. :)
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