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Obedientlydia
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GoddessAnn
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SaucySmile
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BadChan
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Hello,
The first thing you should know about me is that BDSM and sexuality are a huge part of my life. I work in the BDSM industry and I live with my submissive girlfriend. My family knows all about my proclivities and are supportive. I believe in being open and honest about the things that are important to me.
The second thing you should know is that I am the CEO of a BDSM website. Among my responsibilities are employee relations, accounting, web development, videography, photography, bondage assisting, executive assisting, as well as a miriade of other things. Much of my time at work as well as at home is spent on my computer dealing with all sorts of technical issues as well as administrative tasks. This leaves many of the more ordinary/every day chores undone.
My submissive is a working woman. She is stronger than she knows and works very hard. She is not the homemaker type and also does not have the time nor the motivation to do the "chores". She is bisexual and curious about learning to Top women. She is far from the jealous type and encourages my relationships with other women.
For the most part there are two levels to what we are looking for. On one level we are looking for female play partners. This can be anyone. We have very broad tastes with regards to age, race, size, shape, experience level, etc. If you have interest in us take your chances and send me a message. At the very least we can become friends.
The second level of our search is a little more serious and involved. As I have mentioned my submissive and I are both very busy people. We neither have the time nor the drive to do household chores. For that reason we are looking for a live in 24/7 slave. Some of the details of the relationship are very important to us, others are less important. The level of sexual involvement between us and our slave is up for negotiation for instance. While we would prefer someone who is a part of our relationship physically, mentally, and emotionally we understand that there are those who prefer a more distant dynamic. We can accommodate both possibilities. However, rules such as how our slave will spend her time are more strict. We require someone who is devoted to us and would enable our situations. When it comes to fulfilling your role we will be more demanding. Your duty as our slave would be to anticipate and fulfill our needs. If this idea intrigues you at all please ask for more details.
I want to make it clear that this slave position is not one we take lightly. We are well aware of the issues we face asking someone to join our household. For that reason we require in person meetings, phone conversations, as well as a brief trial period before we make any decisions.
One part of my personality is that I do not like to force people into dynamics that are unnatural to them. For instance my submissive as I mentioned is not the homemaker type. I love her very much as she is. I am not interested in forcing her into a role that she is just not in her nature. Fortunately polyamory allows us to add someone to our household who fulfills this role.
As a side note I also wanted to say that if I have added you to my friends list or only sent a short message it is because I didn't have the time to be more thorough, but I did see something I liked and I would like to talk to you further. If that offends you I am sorry. I do ask that if you would like more of a message please feel free to write me and we can get to know each other.
Above all else I am a very laid back person. I understand discipline and staying in control, but I am not above the idea of acceptance. I tend to be very understanding and willing to deal with arising situations. Through my job I not only have experience with an extremely broad range of BDSM activities, but I have also learned the value of hard work and intelligent work. If there is anything you would like to know about me, my relationships, my submissive, or anything else please feel free to ask.
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I am not a very good blogger. I rarely have the time or the focus to write something regularly, but there is a new urge in me to begin some sort of journal. For that reason I may start writing something on collarme and (Sorry to those who might end up reading both).
I think writing something might be a good way to get people to see me for who I am a little bit more. Though I am a very open person when people talk to me I think my "online presence" has yet to emerge. I hope this helps.
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Here are some misc. things about me that might be helpful to know:
I am a philosopher
I am a computer scientist
I am a huge dork
I am a vegetarian
I am a friend
I am a lover
I am a romantic (of the hopeless persuasion)
I like talking to people about all different kinds of things
I like listening and I have been told I do it well
I like cuddling
I like TV
I like movies
I like reading (I do this on and off)
I like Sci-fi (TV, movies, and books)
I like sexuality and I am not afraid of it
I have my jerk moments, but I keep them to a minimum
I do my best not to intentionally hurt anyone (unless they want it that way LOL)
I am intelligent, but not as intelligent as I would like to be
I have a college degree, two in fact, Compuer Science and Philosophy
I plan on going to grad school to get my PhD, Hopefully in CS and Philosophy
I am often random
I change my beard on a whim
I am a big fan of comedy
- George Carlin
- Robin Williams
- Carlos Mencia
- Ron White
- Lewis Black
I love to laugh
I do cry at sad movies (So sue me)
I am deeply passionate about somethings and incredibly lazy about others
I believe communication is key to so many things
I try to be as helpful as possible
I try not to judge people negatively, even if I don't agree with them
I don't drink, never have, never will
I don't do drugs, never have, never will
I don't smoke, never have, never will
I like being in control of myself as well as those who enjoy submitting their control to me
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