Someone with good hygiene is a must but otherwise looks aren't important to me. I do admit I love the idea of someone much older than me in control of me, bigger or shorter, it doesn't matter. I like assertiveness and drive in a man as I need to resist a little, to be vulnerable to someone with control over me. My kink evolved from watching a lot of film and TV with damsel in distress scenes; I was always turned on by the idea of being the helpless damsel. Some of these fantasies were realized when I was tied up in role play and tie up games when I was young. a couple of times against my will though no harm came to me. I occasionally dressed up to heighten the experience.
It's not about sex for me, in fact most of my experiences didn't involve sex; I have been tied up by straight guys who just wanted a role play partner for bondage. I enjoy being someone elses plaything. I don't need to be pleasured or need to pleasure someone else, only limits respected. Crossdressing is optional, it's really about submitting to control, collar or no collar.
Compliments are ok but otherwise please be normal when messaging. We don't need to share our life stories but do need to know enough about each other to see if we get along. If you want me to take you seriously include the words damsel in bondage in your message so I know you read this journal, thank you. |