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Female Submissive, 20, Miami, Florida
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About BotanicalMiss
Update: I am currently being served by a lovely lady and recently became engaged, as well. Not actively seeking anything or anyone else at this time.
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WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW:
(1) One line emails will be automatically deleted.
(2) Friends requests sent by people I don't know will be automatically deleted.
(3) I am NOT interested in online and/or cam sub/slaves.
(4) I am a smoker and a BBW. If either of those are a deal breaker for you, MOVE ON.
(5) If, after reading my profile, you believe we may be a match or even friend material, please feel free to contact me!
Ok, now that we have that out of the way....
I am a sensually sadistic, poly, bbw Domme, with a wide variety of interests. I practice quiet dominance; I am not loud, flashy, overbearing, or bitchy (most of the time). I am pretty easy going, but I know what I want and how I want it.Treat me the way you would want someone to treat your sister (assuming you like your sister), and we should get along fine. If, however, you piss me off, I won't like it and neither will you. Most of my kink preferences are already listed, so look to the left and you'll find them (rather amazing, right? lol). I will say, though, that I LOVE impact play. I just love my floggers, crops and canes, and I enjoy leaving marks.
What am I looking for? ... 2 things ...
But before we get to that... you MUST be single or in a verifiable open relationship. That means I will want to meet your spouse/significant other to be sure s/he knows what you are doing. I will NOT get involved with someone who is sneaking around. If the person you've made a commitment to can't trust you, neither can I. Now then... what I'm looking for...
(1) A man who identifies as a submissive with a backbone, or a switch with a heavy leaning to the submissive side. Have a life! Have interests that you can talk about (other than sports!), a sometimes twisted sense of humor, and a real desire to make me happy. You need to enjoy pain to some extent. I am a sensual SADIST. I want you to enjoy the pain I give and I want to take you further than you ever thought you could go. Be financially stable (no, I don't need you to shower me with "things", but at least be able to pay for lunch once in a while. I'm not rich and I don't expect you to be.) Be "out" enough that you can attend play parties with me! Last, but not least, BE LOCAL (within about 50 miles, unless you like to drive).
(2) A bisexual female sub/slave who is interested in serving a dominant couple. Again, you need to have some maso tendencies, a sense of humor, the ability to carry on an intelligent converstaion, a heartfelt desire to serve, and please be local. No online and/or cam subs.
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First and foremost, I am a person. I like to be treated like one. I am most attracted to someone who is a good companion and enjoys spending time together outside of the bedroom/kink arena. I do not want someone who has to be "led" in a conversation. Be someone who enjoys life and shares that enjoyment with me.
What lies in the garden of your mind? Beautifully scented blooms, patches of undergrowth hiding dark delights, bright colors, deep shadows, a new discovery around each bend of the twisted winding paths leading into the depths of your soul.
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When was the last time you released the unshed tears at the bottom of your soul? Let your tears break the surface, washing the shores of your heart. They bring with them emeralds, rubies, lost-treasure pearls from the depth of your being. |
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Fall is here. That snap in the air and brisk breezes. A cloudy drizzley day just perfect for curling up with a good book and a cup of tea. Heaven! |
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Calling all cabana boys!!! I'm looking for a male sub who would like to serve as a cabana boy for a ladies pool party on 7/16. You will NOT be serving in a sexual capacity!
The majority of us are BBW so if that does not suit you, please do not bother.
Duties will include making sure glasses and plates are refilled, fetching towels, applying sunscreen, etc. If you can give massages or perform any other "pampering" type of services, all the better!
If you are LOCAL and interested, drop me a line. I will need to meet you in person some time this week so I can determine if I feel you will be a good fit for what we want. You will be accompanying me to the party so make sure you are free for the entire day and evening on the 16th if you apply! |
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The weather is beginning to warm up and the whole world seems a little brighter for it. I'm considering exploring a bit of My own masochistic desires again if an experienced local Dom/Top can be found that I feel comfortable with. Sometimes you get an itch that just can't be scratched any other way. |
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Watching the snow, hacking away as another bout of bronchitis settles in and I can't get out to go to the doc. At least I have hot coffee, hot soup, and the kitties to cuddle. Ain't life grand? |
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I hope everyone has a wonderful Christmas! |
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I can't believe all the snow! I know we wanted a white Christmas, but about 4" that would stick around would do it... of course, that measurement is ONLY for snow! lol I hope everyone around the East Coast is staying inside where it's safe and warm. Stay safe, everyone! |
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I had a wonderful weekend with my sister and a great time at the Crucible on Friday evening with her and my wonderful pet. I love you both! |
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By mutual consent, subdemon and I are going our separate ways. The time we spent together was always enjoyable and exciting and he is a great guy. He will always remain fondly in my thoughts and carry my best wishes for happiness. |
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I had a very enjoyable afternoon yesterday with a great guy; funny, entertaining, submissive, and oh so happy to put a smile on my face. I am very much looking forward to seeing this particular "adventurer" again! |
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Happy birthday to me!!! I'm not sure exactly what the day will bring, but I've gotten hints that sound oh so yummy! |
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I had a wonderful experience this weekend with my first visit to a public dungeon. To those I met at the Inner Sanctum, thank you so much! You made my month! |
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Viewing My profile do NOT qualify you as a friend of Mine, nor does it make Me a friend of yours. Why on earth would I accept a "friends invitation" from someone I don't know and have probably never even spoken to??? Here's the answer... I wouldn't, and I won't. |
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I am happy to say that I have found a local male sub very much worth My time, effort, and attentions. I am very happily looking forward to exploring the path ahead of us together. |
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No, I am NOT interested in watching you on cam. I do NOT do online, I do NOT give a crap about your cam, and I do NOT care about how you want to please Me sexually. If YOU are not ready to meet and get to know Me as a person, and don't want to serve Me the way I want to be served, don't bother wasting My time.
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Can someone tell Me why people don't post their pics "because of privacy" etc? Think about it... if someone sees your pic here, what do you think they're doing here??? Unless you hold some kind of political office or you're trying to hide something from your spouse, and you've given him/her reason to go checking around after you (and I would suspect the latter), trust Me... you don't really have a reason to hide from those you seek to meet, do you? |
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I do NOT respond to chat invites. If you want to get to know Me, do as I have instructed in My profile and send an introductory email with a pic, especially if your profile is blank. What do you think profiles are for? I've taken the time and effort to fill out Mine; I expect the same of you. |
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I've emptied out My email box, so if you wanted to get in touch, you'll have to send a reminder of who you are. |
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Well, it looks like My boy has moved on. The time we had together was wonderful and I wish him all the best of luck and happiness in his life and journey. I once again begin the search. |
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Life changes at the drop of a hat... sometimes not in a great way, other times in wonderful ways. And sometimes both can come at you from different sides at the same time. People are not always what they appear to be when they first present themselves. One of these days I'll remember that, but it doesn't take long to figure out. |
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