I am a hard working man that enjoys a variety of things in this world. I'm very open-minded. I have a wide taste in just about everything, and I don’t really like to limit myself. Two areas that I do focus on is Chinese culture and Psychology. I have always felt drawn to the Far East, ever since I was a child, that doesn't mean I only go after Asian women.  I like being straight forward with people. I have always felt that others deserve honesty and it is insulting to lie. 

I have always felt out of place in mainstream society until I found bondage/S&M.  I can still remember the first time I was exposed to the culture, it was as if a whole other world was opened up to me; like life's dark and very intriguing little secret.  I like being in charge and I'm looking for a submissive, however on a few occasions I like giving temporary power over to someone. I really enjoy the culture and miss having this it in my life.

I'm very compartmentalized, I enjoy the boundaries that I have set.  While I share this aspect of my life with friends, many co-workers and people who are not close to me know nothing of this and I like it that way.  This is something special to me that I don't believe society is even ready to accept, yet they secretly enjoy it. 

During the day I work in HR and live law books.  It is very tense and very detailed.  Some people unwind with a drink, I like to unwind with a paddle.  I have learned the more "straight laced" a person is in the open the more "extravagant" they are behind closed doors.  

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