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Hetero Male Dominant, 32,  Indianapolis, Indiana
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dabelche

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I am a hard working man that enjoys a variety of things in this world. I'm very open-minded. I have a wide taste in just about everything, and I don’t really like to limit myself. Two areas that I do focus on is Chinese culture and Psychology. I have always felt drawn to the Far East, ever since I was a child, that doesn't mean I only go after Asian women. I like being straight forward with people. I have always felt that others deserve honesty and it is insulting to lie.


I have always felt out of place in mainstream society until I found bondage/S&M. I can still remember the first time I was exposed to the culture, it was as if a whole other world was opened up to me; like life's dark and very intriguing little secret. I like being in charge and I'm looking for a submissive, however on a few occasions I like giving temporary power over to someone. I really enjoy the culture and miss having this it in my life.

I'm very compartmentalized, I enjoy the boundaries that I have set. While I share this aspect of my life with friends, many co-workers and people who are not close to me know nothing of this and I like it that way. This is something special to me that I don't believe society is even ready to accept, yet they secretly enjoy it.


During the day I work in HR and live law books. It is very tense and very detailed. Some people unwind with a drink, I like to unwind with a paddle. I have learned the more "straight laced" a person is in the open the more "extravagant" they are behind closed doors.


Email me, we can chat :)

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 dabelche

 Dominant Male

 Indianapolis 

 Indiana

 6' 1"

 32

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 01/13/08

 04/30/12

Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

 Lives For:

 Martial Arts (Expert)

 Tai-Chi

 Blindfolds

 Bondage (Expert)

 Cooking

 Christianity (Expert)

 Loves:

 Art Galleries (Expert)

 Clubbing (Expert)

 Movies (Expert)

 Museums (Expert)

 Travel

 Camping

 Walking

 Yoga (Expert)

 Anal Play

 Breast Play (Expert)

 Collars

 Corsets

 Orgasm Denial

 Role Playing

 Stockings

 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows

 Horror Movies

 Puzzle Games

 Art Collecting

 Gardening

 Painting

 Pottery

 History

 Intellectual Discourse

 Poetry

 Psychology

 Writing

 Goth Lifestyle (Expert)

 Victorianism

 Classical Music

 Electronica / EDM

 Industrial Music

 Jazz

 Opera Music

 Reggae

 Ice Hockey

 Swimming

 Likes:

 Amusement Parks (Expert)

 Bar Hopping

 Beachcombing (Beginner)

 Coffee Shops

 Fine Dining

 Raves

 Volunteerism (Expert)

 Aerobics

 Bicycling

 Dancing (Beginner)

 Rollerblading (Beginner)

 Scuba Diving

 Snorkeling

 Weightlifting

 Begging

 Body Worship

 Gags

 Hair Pulling

 Massage (Getting)

 Massage (Giving)

 Obedience Training

 Objectification

 Maid/Butler Service

 Outdoor Bondage

 Spanking

 Speech Restrictions

 Theatrical Scenes

 Uniforms

 Arcade Games

 Cartoons

 Chess

 Newspapers

 Science Fiction

 Simulation Games

 TV News

 Web Surfing

 Alternative Medicine (Beginner)

 Body Art

 Herbalism

 Investing

 Meditation

 Photography

 Sculpting

 Tattoos

 Astronomy

 Biology

 Chemistry

 Economics

 Nutrition

 Philosophy

 1950s Lifestyle

 Vampirism (Expert)

 Alternative Music

 Americana

 Blue Grass

 Blues

 Eighties Music

 Funk

 Hip Hop Music

 New Wave

 Punk Rock Music

 Rock Music

 Buddhism

 Catholicism

 Feng Shui (Beginner)

 Hinduism

 Islam (Beginner)

 Judaism

 Taoism

 Football

 Paintball

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 Shopping

 Hiking

 Cages

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Rubber Fetish

 Board Games

 Online Chatrooms

 Online RPGs

 Role Playing Games

 Sitcoms

 True Crime

 Mathematics

 Keto

 Veganism

 Folk Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Nineties Music

 Oldies

 Pop Music

 Seventies Music

 Curious About:

 Going to the Opera

 Climbing

 Local BDSM Community

 Housework Service

 Leashes

 Masks (On Partner)

 Masks (Wearing)

 Mental Bondage

 Munches

 Wax play

 Cybering

 Soap Making

 Gorean Lifestyle

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Operetta

 Dislikes:

 Gambling

 Musical Theater

 SCA

 Running

 Canes and Crops

 Corner Time

 Crossdressing

 Diapers

 Dilation

 Enemas

 Exhibitionism

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Fisting

 Foot Worship

 Humiliation

 Knife Play

 Needle Play

 Plastic Wrap

 Tickling

 TV Sports

 Swinging

 Country Music

 EMO Music

 New Age Music

 Show Tunes

 Scientology

 Hates:

 Chastity

 Watersports

 Hard Limits:

 Gas Masks

 Hoods

 Strap-Ons

 Cuckolding

 Polyamory

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