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Hetero Male Dominant, 32,  Indianapolis, Indiana
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I am a hard working man that enjoys a variety of things in this world. I'm very open-minded. I have a wide taste in just about everything, and I don’t really like to limit myself. Two areas that I do focus on is Chinese culture and Psychology. I have always felt drawn to the Far East, ever since I was a child, that doesn't mean I only go after Asian women. I like being straight forward with people. I have always felt that others deserve honesty and it is insulting to lie.

I have always felt out of place in mainstream society until I found bondage/S&M. I can still remember the first time I was exposed to the culture, it was as if a whole other world was opened up to me; like life's dark and very intriguing little secret. I like being in charge and I'm looking for a submissive, however on a few occasions I like giving temporary power over to someone. I really enjoy the culture and miss having this it in my life.

I'm very compartmentalized, I enjoy the boundaries that I have set. While I share this aspect of my life with friends, many co-workers and people who are not close to me know nothing of this and I like it that way. This is something special to me that I don't believe society is even ready to accept, yet they secretly enjoy it.

During the day I work in HR and live law books. It is very tense and very detailed. Some people unwind with a drink, I like to unwind with a paddle. I have learned the more "straight laced" a person is in the open the more "extravagant" they are behind closed doors.

Email me, we can chat :)











 Dominant Male



 6' 1"






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Female

 Lives For:

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 Blindfolding you

 Bondage (Expert)


 Christianity (Expert)


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 Clubbing (Expert)

 Movies (Expert)

 Museums (Expert)




 Yoga (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)

 You wearing my collar


 Rear End Play

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 Intellectual Discourse




 Goth (Expert)

 Victorian Lifestyle

 Classical Music

 Electronica / EDM

 Industrial Music


 Opera Music


 Ice Hockey



 Amusement Parks (Expert)

 Bar Hopping

 Beachcombing (Beginner)

 Coffee Shops

 Fine Dining


 Volunteerism (Expert)



 Dancing (Beginner)

 Rollerblading (Beginner)

 Scuba Diving




 Body Worship

 Being Massaged


 Hair Pulling

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 Arcade Games




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 TV News

 Web Surfing

 Alternative Medicine (Beginner)

 Body Art













 1950s Lifestyle

 Vampirism (Expert)

 Alternative Music


 Blue Grass


 Eighties Music


 Hip Hop Music

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 Feng Shui (Beginner)


 Islam (Beginner)










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 Online Chatrooms

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 True Crime




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 Heavy Metal Music

 Nineties Music


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 Curious About:

 Going to the Opera


 Local BDSM Community

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 Masks (Wearing)

 Masks on Partner

 Mental Bondage


 Wax Play


 Soap Making


 Lifestyle BDSM




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 Modern Primitivism


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 Hard Limits:

 Gas Masks





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