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littleblueeyepet
| Hetero Female, 38, HalifaxNS, Canada
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FIRST- i am NOT here looking for bed partners. So if that's the only thing on your mind, keep moving. :P
i am in NS canada. If you are more than 3 hrs away from me, plz just stop reading now.
I am looking for a very special relationship.. to (eventually) be 'Taken in Hand'. I am in a Lifestyle where the most appealing thing is how deep the feelings can run, how limitless the trust becomes...it is about the level of commitment, love, trust and understanding a Lifestyle relationship offers.
i am not so much into all the whips and chains and sadist aspect a lot of this Lifestyle endorses or promotes... i much prefer the mental side where the true connections begin there, the true power struggle. And well, yes a Collar, i long to be wearing a Collar again, a deep symbol of Ownership.
Hoping to start out with a regular old-fashioned, no pressure friendship and see where it goes. So don't worry about the end of the 'date' first kiss, won't be one. Just wanna hang out and get to know each other first a bit. :) Just because you claim you are a Dom, that does NOT automatically entitle you to instant respect and things. All that is earned through time and action.
(dealbreaker list) STOP reading now if you are any of the following:
* a father or want to be one someday.
* a smoker (cigars/weed counts)
* heavy drinker/drink to get drunk
* drug user (weed counts..unless it is legitly medical)
* prefer city living
* like to be around a lot of people often
* have a dog/are getting a dog or do not like dogs.*
* are overweight (sorry, just not attracted to that)
* have anger/anxiety/depression issues
* prefer barbie doll types
* want more than one woman
* And, if you live more then 3 hours away from me/are in another country. (The site does not have province options for Canadian folk, apparently... but i am Nova Scotia, Canada) Sorry, done the long distance thing, just not wanting to do it again.
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ok, if you're still with me, great. :)
If any of the following applies to you, consider them added bonuses on your behalf. They are not all required, mind you, just strongly desirable to me.
* you enjoy the country/outdoors
* you take care of yourself. - you don't have to live at the gym, mind you. It's just nice to see a man who takes pride in how he looks. And i love me a man with a sexy pair of arms.
* you are under 35 but over 24.
* you have a british/irish/australian or similar accent. My gawd im yours. Seriously tho... love me a sexy accent.
* you don't like to give up when it comes to something you want.
* you believe in open communication.
* you keep your face smooth
* are Native American or Asian
* You DO truly want to get off this dang site.- ok --this one IS required. Mandatory.
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** I have a Service Dog who must travel everywhere with me. **
i put immense value on holding trust and respect, and try to always act accordingly. i am generally a quiet, shy sort of person (until I warm up to ya). i naturally try to please the one I am with, follow training and instruction well. i can be quirky, and geeky at times (love to watch video games being played, sometimes play them too! I even role-play in Elderscrolls Online!) with a quick wit and dry sarcastic sense of humor. I go out walking for at least an hour every day. Sometimes a walk can turn into a hike. Winter weather can be wonderful! i lead a very modest life, stay in painting or watching movies for the most part. i don’t typically like people, but know how to act when out in public. i am very adaptive, receptive, tactile (love to touch and be touched), thoughtful, very loyal and caring. i am sometimes prone to over-think things, can be very stubborn and emotional.
While i believe in retaining who i am, i still like to try and mold myself after the man i belong to; Take an interest in things he likes and try to incorporate that into me. i prefer doing things together, rather than apart, and hope to find a man who feels the same.
i am a country girl, i have an intense love for it. i am quite at home hiking, or camping, and likely would be the last person you’d hear complain about something. Unless it were ticks. Cannot STAND those. *Shudder* I love horror movies, and sci-fi/fantasy. Wanna challenge me to a Star Trek geek off? Bring it. No search parties have been sent out when I am on a movie/series marathon on Netflix...yet.
i seek a loving man. A non-over bearing type, for me a good man is someone who possesses the very qualities we would ascribe to a “good person”: kindness, consideration, politeness, empathy, sympathy. You should have a strong sense of ethics and honesty and be respectful of others regardless of their position in life. You should not be domineering, (using threats or by belittling another), instead you should know how to work on a more subtle level, influencing thoughts, desires, needs and hopes – and through the simple expedient of showing you care. I find a streak of possessiveness sexy in a man. And you should generally be comfortable being in charge/in control and sincerely enjoy taking care of someone.
If you think you may be who i am looking for, please contact me. Again, i am not looking to jump into a romantic relationship right now. Right now i am seeking a friendship; someone to maybe do things with, hang out etc. NO SEX- sorry i've had too many guys msg me thinking i was here to sleep around or something stupid.
If at any time i feel things are not working out, i will openly communicate this and my reasons. i expect the same decency from you.
Also, i am not a juggler nor am i here to collect a bunch of names. Once i find someone i'm 'clicking' with, i take down my profile and explore getting to know that one person.
If I am of some interest to you, please take a moment to contact me. If you're curious or unsure about anything, communicate. Really, ask questions if you're not sure about anything. :) I -very- rarely contact a guy first, just so you know.
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10/5/2023 6:48:42 PM: Grey-Sexual submissive.
Da hell, right?
Sounds strange. i always thought i was.... broken. Not finding any enjoyment in sex. But it would please the guy, and in turn, i felt happy, a little bit. Although i ignored my own confliction.
i know i'm already odd here, i don't sound like anyone else i've seen. i know my heart though... So, i feel like i do belong, i guess?
Still learning about myself. Guess one never truly knows themselves. Always a work in progress.
9/18/2023 6:53:11 PM: Sometimes i feel badly, not replying to people who take the time to send me a message... (who have no picture of themselves included).
However, i don't ask anyone anything i'm not willing to do, or do do myself.
The fact they send me a message, likely expecting a reply, says they neither respect me as a person and or my simple wish to see their face, since they have seen mine.
Turn about and all that.
i may be a submissive, but i am not a door mat and certainly have standards and sense of self worth.
3/16/2022 10:44:06 AM: Sometimes physical things are not the heaviest things to remove. Told that just now to a friend who recently lost their mother, and was tasked with cleaning out the house.
Sometimes i say things so deep, that i make myself pause and think.
Last night, i was venting to one of the people in my RPG guild in ESO. He was saying how he just needed reminders about posting stuff on the site and whatnot. i told him i was done giving him reminders, and he asked why. That was when a dam i hadn't known was ready to break, burst. i told him, that if someone really wants to do something, they will do it. They will do whatever they must, to ensure it happens.
i reminded him that he has a wife, and a professional life, and he must be doing well enough to govern himself. i asked him, who looks after me, who gives me reminders to do things? i reminded him, how i have -no one-. i have sticky notes all over the place, a phone full of alarms and reminders, because my memory is crap... How is it fair, that i should have to hand-hold grown adults in the guild, to remind them and chase after them to look after their own characters. Told him i was done, time people sink or swim.
Of course, all that has ~nothing~ do to with the Lifestyle or genre on this site... Just another peek though, into my mundane life.
2/26/2022 1:57:14 PM: Love and Leashes
Quite a great movie on netflix right now. Unlike 50 Shades, i found it to be endearing, hilarious, and well written. Oh, and the asians... Mmmmm LOVE asians. Such a sexy race.
There were times i was laughing, literally, out loud.
i'm only sorry it wasn't a series; and that i don't have anything like that in my life yet.
12/25/2021 8:45:50 AM: Another Christmas 'alone'.
But you know what? i'm ok with that. It's become my new normal. i sincerely hope everyone out there who hasn't found the person they are looking for yet, the same contentment that i feel.
It's not that i don't want to find my Owner... i'm just not frantic and stressed out and beaten up over not having found Him yet. It'll make the time even more sweeter if i do.
Happy holidays to you all.. may you, and those you love all remain healthy this Christmas and into the new year.
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