WELL IT HAPPENED!!!!! The move to Savannah has happened!!!
So what now? Well I'm working on me!
I had the gastric sleeve and it is still a work in process.
Now I entered this lifestyle almost 23 years ago as a submissive. While I have both experienced being a Switch and Dom I find that those roles do not fulfill an inner need. While I am most effective being dominant in my vanilla life and I suppose even in my Ds life I am always left needing more. More? What is more? I dont know but Im going to find it.
Let me put facts on the table. Im not a little girl in size and over the few years my body is going through alot of changes. I've slow down my weight loss to try and control the excess skin but with the amount of weight I'm losing there will be lots of excess skin. So after the weight loss will do the skin removal. So if you're looking for perfection I'm not your girl even if I wasn't having surgery I wouldn't be her and still won't be her.
I am looking for a relationship but there must be boundaries and negotiations.
1. You will never control my credit cards, bank accounts or what I spend. I have my own income and My own credit. That is not negotiable.
2. My daughters will never be part of our relationship. So there is no mother-daughter action here.
.3. I am not a slave. I have no slave tendencies. I have no interest in being a slave.
4. I am a baby girl therefore I'm looking for a DADDY not someone who has to fake it.
5. I'm not looking for a poly relationship. I will never be the second place to anything but your children and maybe your dog. I've been down that road and it didn't work.
6. I am a babygirl, you can call me that. Sweetheart honey bun etc you see the pattern? Don't call me cunt, pig or anything else degrading. I will delete and block.
I am not a piece of ass so if that's what you're seeking, I'm not that girl. I expect to go on real dates and I expect you to take the time to know and understand me. I'm a little old fashion in the sense I expect a man to open the door, walk on the side of traffic etc.
I'm not opposed to someone younger than me but I need you to have an older soul.