BastardWhipper

Male Submissive, 26, Hyderabad

Male Submissive, 25, Hyderabad

Male Switch, 39

Bemusement. I'm always amused with self proclaimed submissives/slaves who claim "I have no limits! Oh use me master! I want to take whatever you see fit to do to/with me!" Then the fine print is: "except no This or That or GOD NO not that Other Thing!" Hey - if you're mine, be it for an evening or for life, I'm taking you at your word. I expect even 'meat' and 'slut pigs' to have personal integrity. That's not to say I won't respects limits. As a Sensation Sadist, I want my 'gurls' more than merely compliant. I want them willing and earger. But any 'attitude' with those limits isn't worthy of consideration. Think about it.

I understand the economy sucks. I even understand that financial woes are a royal pain. For those of you looking to supplement your income with onlines services, I wish you luck. Just remember that there are a few of us whom are serious about real life, real time searches. Those of you looking to supplement your finances in these harsh times and whom show a modicum of politeness, I salute you. If I were a woman, I'd definitely be a pro Domme with a stable of paying bois and a giggling harem of after hours girls. Those of you who are rude and insulted because I have no interest in contributing to your needs, bugger.

I find it curious sometimes when I talk with people. It's as if they expect me to behave a certain way based on my profile and they can't seem to get past it when I don't talk in the manner which they've imagined. I think perhaps some commentary on my part might be in order. In some respects, I'm a traditionalist when it comes to "behaviour". I do believe that a Gentleman opens the door first when dining out. I expect grace and politeness on the part of whomever I'm with when we're out. A certain amount of elegance is always appreciated. I also expect intelligence and independent opinion on the part of whomever I'm with regardless of their station. This appears to be a real difficult concept for some slaves, submissives and would be slaves to wrap their minds around. The other concept some slaves and would be slaves seem to have difficulty with is I'm a Sadist. They don't get that I enjoy whipping/caning/pulling hair/slapping/humiliating or whatever simply for pleasure. I don't do these things to "punish". I do them because I really enjoy your reactions to them. I enjoy then for where they make you go. So slaves who are looking to be "punished" and "severely disciplined" are making a serious error when they attempt to agitate/provoke me into "punishing" them. I don't need provocation. I want to "punish" you regardless of your sins or behaviour. I even want to harshly "punish" you ... if that gets out of you the most intense reaction/release possible. Commit a sin? Tell my why it's such a bad thing you did and beg me to punish you. Trust, me. I'll will. This is why I can do such a broad range of activity to a slave from merely setting them on the floor by my side and gently sexually using them to severely caning them and screaming at them as to just what kind of slaves they are. My activity isn't in reaction to your transgressions. My activity is based on what will bring out in you the reactions I most love to see culminating with your forced and uncontrollable orgasms and/or release so intense that you are in a subspace daze for days. Commit sins against me, and I'll drop you as being completely worthless. Come to me and tell me that you are a 'bad' slave and beg me to punish you and I will. With great delight on my part. And as softly or harshly as the occasion demands. Again, come to me and impunge my honor or insult me, and you're out the door. Not whipped. Not caned. Not made to stand in the corner. Not anything but gone. Dismissal is the only true "punishment" possible with me. What does all the above mean? It means that I expect to be treated respectfully in conversation. It means that I expect a certain amount of courtesy. It means that I am courteous and Gentlemanly by nature. It means I don't do cyber or phone. I only to real time, real life. So it also means that I won't start calling you "cunt", "whore", "worthless piece of shit", or "slut" in emails. I expect respectful, intelligent conversation from slaves. If you can't do this or are offended by the concept, don't bother with me. You're either looking for what I refer to as a Doormat Master or you're looking for an abuser. What's a Doormat Master? A Doormat Master is a Dom who only wants you to open your mouth so he can stick his cock in it and for you to open your mouth for no other purpose. i.e. Do this. Do that. Keep quiet and otherwise don't bother me. Doormats are for walking on, not play. If you're that worthless, then you'll have to find something else to catch and hold my attention. I will not be an abuser. No matter how harshly I whip you. The bottom line is that I expect my slaves and submissives to offer me mental stimulation and excitement. Not offer just their bodies and sexual services. Being one of my slaves is a challenge which requires active effort on your part. If you're not up to the challenge, don't even bother writing back.

OMG! I had another amusing email today. Allow me to explain something. If you see something in my journal or profile that you find offensive and wish to write me, I have no problem with that. In fact, I'm perfectly willing to discuss what you find offensive and give you and honest and considered reply. What I find most amusing about these? emails are the fact that these people send them, and then block me immediately after they send them. If you want to take a position on something and let me know, I can respect that. Personal attacks accompanied by immediate blocking only go to prove my point that the people whom send these kinds of email are completely worthless for any purpose. If you are the kind of person to engage in this infantile behaviour. Really. You're wasting your effort. {laughs} All you do is make me happy I didn't initiate contact with you in the first place. I don't know. Maybe I should just provoke more. This last letter was incredibly revealing as regarding just what a waste of a person the writer was. I was soooo happy that I didn't initate contact. {grins} Hot damn though. This last letter was a doosey. It must have taken her over an hour to write it.

I had a totally amusing experience today and a very nice experience today. Both were unsolicited. I did not initiate contact. The amusing one first: I had looked at a persons profile. Read it all. Decided that I wasn't what she was looking for and moved on. Completely out of the blue she sends me this: "Size is unimportant and so is weight? Have fun with the 300 pounders." So I wrote a reply: "For what I'm interested in, size and weight do not indeed matter. And I've played with up to 400 pounds." When I hit the reply button, I found she had blocked me. ROFLMAOASTC!!! Such a lack of courage! Such a lack of personal integrity! Such a lack of anything worth while! I'm totally amused and totally pleased that I recognized she wasn't for me and I wasn't for her. {laughs more} No. I won't reveal who she is. Though it should be apparent that she seems totally dedicated to the "Body Beautiful" thing. Too bad. I thought she had a mind. The nice one: Sent me a long email appreciating my forthrightness and up front honesty in describing myself and what I wanted/did. As with the amusing one, I won't reveal who. It's ironic and funny to receive completely unsolicited emails of such opposite character.

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