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Male Dominant, 46, Brooklyn, New York
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Male Dominant, 49, marseille
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Male Switch, 26, Maribor
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About BastianDuVane
Still just another 'Dominant' Male lost in a sea of profiles for everyone to look over and overlook.
Much has changed about me since I wrote my original profile but as the saying goes, the more things change, the more they stay the same. I'm sure you know what you're looking for, and I know what I'm looking for, in fact I've found It. But that doesn't mean that I can't still have friends. In fact, I'm looking for more than just friends, but that will come later. You're not reading my profile to findout what I want, you're reading it to see if I'm what you're looking for. I'm not. You can stop reading now.
If, however, you should choose to continue you'll find out that I'm really just a shallow opportunist who is a terrible flirt. And by 'terrible flirt', I mean I suck at it. Seriously.
I am indeed a Dominant male, mostly heterosexual, and while my experience may be lacking, I've got enthusiasm behind me and sometimes that makes all the difference between staring longingly across a table at someone who can't make up their mind and having your clothes torn off in a fit of passion and rubbing your sweaty naked body against someone that looks like they're still wearing a sweater even though they took off their shirt. (*Shudder*)
Now, for the reasons you should leave:
If you can read this, give yourself a cookie.
1. I'm still poor. I bought a house so I'm even more poor. Especially since I got laid off from the job I was at due to corporate downsizing. On the up side, I'm about to start a new job in a few weeks (before my severance runs out) that will make me less poor. So if you want a Sugar Daddy, go elsewhere. But if you just want someone to call Daddy...
2. I'm still not in the best of shape. I have been hiking a bit and I'm trying to take the few pounds of excess weight off, but since I hit 30 my body's ability to lost weight has turned a minor struggle into the Battle of the Bulge. Something I'm sure that many are familiar with. It doesn't mean I'm not trying, it just means that it's going slower than expected..
3. I'm not incredibly experienced. Okay, so I've got a little butt belting under my belt, and I've learned the ropes a bit. I'm still not the Perfect Dom that many of these other guys (or girls, if that's what you're in to) are. At least I'm learning things the 'Right Way'. (Right Way being defined here as 'at a rate and in a method I am comfortable with'.)
4. I'm a bit old fashioned. I won't introduce myself and immediately start calling you a whore or a slut and telling you exactly what I'm going to do to your nubile, naked body. I'm not going to treat you like a doormat when I've just met you. I reserve that treatment for close friends and family members.
I do have a few things that are in my favor, however.
1. I have a sense of Humour. No, I won't use a joybuzzer on your nipples and no I won't make you kneel on a whoopie cushion, but I might make you snort water out your nose when you're drinking. What can I say, I'm a bit of a sadist and water out the nose hurts.
2. I'm still open minded. Yeah, that much hasn't changed at all. I still enjoy reading and have read things from SM101 and Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns to almost half of the Gor series and the Sleeping Beauty series. But my full repertoire of reading is much more vast than that. After all, man cannot live by BDSM alone. Nor can woman for that matter. It's nice to be a well rounded individual.
3. You want some new pictures of yourself. Yeah, I know you have a beautiful picture of yourself that you use on your profile and you took it yourself using your Camera-Phone! I am a bit of a shutterbug myself and I'll get into that a little later.
4. You like me. Really, you do! If you didn't, you wouldn't have read this far down the page. Whether you read my old profile or not, you read this one all the way down here. I mean, I'm not asking to be your Dominant. I don't want to steal you from your Dominant. In fact, I don't mind being friends with people from 18 to 40 as long as I have something in common with them. Some way I can relate to them.
And now for the info about photographs.
I am a hobbyist photographer and am looking for people to shoot. I say hobbyist photographer so that when some of the pictures turn out looking like ass, I have an excuse. I don't charge for my time, in fact I may just buy my models a meal and I don't do photo shoots in people's homes. Not even mine. All I ask in exchange for photos is credit for the pictures should they be posted anywhere online as well as permision to use the pictures for whatever purposes my little mind comes up with. Don't worry, I won't be selling them to any ad agencies.
As for my models, I much prefer to shoot with women that are smaller than me though I also shoot men. And I'm not nessecarily talking about height. There are some very attractive women around that are well over 6 feet. I know it sounds shallow (I did mention that I was shallow, didn't I?) but if you want pictures of you taken by me, you must be at least somewhat attractive and have the clothing you want to be wearing when shot. (Photographically.)
I have a Photobucket and a Flickr account available if you want to see some of my work.
Well, I hope you've enjoyed my little self-depreciating tirade-like rant here. If you have, let me know by telling me. Or you can just call me a twit and get it over with. Either way, I hope you at least have a smile on your face. Even if it is because someone under the desk is... Well, You know. |
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