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BarterDomme

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Male Dominant, 43, Seattle, Washington
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About BarterDomme

Someone to play with while I am traveling:) I an unable to commit to LTR at this time but perhaps one day down the road. I am traveling for work so I am all over but mostly in UT for several months, even though it is not my home.
I am open to many things, love to learn and try new things. I am not into gross bodily fluids-feces/urine/blood. Hard limits are kids/animals/permanent markings/maiming/disfigurment. I am sure there may be more, I just have not found them all.
Love chastity :) if you want to know just ask, perhaps I might be into it, maybe not. Life is meant to be lived and explored! I have lived life with a "one bite no thank you rule" meaning, if you do not try it, how do you know you will not like it. Granted there are the obvious ones :) but I live by the quote "For those who fight for it, life has a flavor the sheltered will never know"
I do not care for long online only. Pictures of dicks and the like will automatically get you deleted.

"gentlemen" and I use the term loosely!  Please do not think if we meet, it goes straight to anything sexual. Anything is on MY terms and I alone initiate so stop with the whining about how great you are with this or that sexually. It will not matter on first meeting unless you are going to suck someone off in front of me because I tell you to!

Soon to be done with all the work travel/training!!  I cannot wait to have some actual downtime!!

Connection issue so if I do not answer, I will at a later date!

I can be anywhere (within reason) a few days a month with planning!  Note that it takes PLANNING!  If I come your way it is not sexual, it is simply a meet and greet, nothing more as one must get to know friends, playmates and more!

Take the time to travel if you can. Go dip your toes in the sand! Watch a sunset, sunrise! Do not wait until "next weekend" to do something fun because you will likely put it off until "maybe next weekend" and then life has passed you by!  Life is meant to be lived, so go DO IT!!  I am not ready to sit and watch life go by....


To the ones that admired...thank you.  To those that write...thank you and I will answer when I can.  Life is short and you must live it!  I really do!  I do not have much but I do not need much.  To be in the air to some random destination is simply AWESOME!  So when/if I have free time, I jump :)  I highly recommend it!  

 
The problem is with people seem to need so much. More things, bigger, better and the newest. They are never content or happy with what they have. I really am. I have a roof, my bills are paid, food on my table and do as I please. I do not need the latest and greatest, do not get me wrong, things are nice but they are just things. They cannot replace the smell of heather in the Highlands, the feel of the seas as I walk the shore in Lisbon and feel the sun on my face as I ride a gondola through Venice sipping wine.

Note- I am not seeking anything LTR now or anytime soon. 1-I do not have the time commitment it requires. 2- I am not ready. 3- I am a little self absorbd with my new work right now so I am hardly here! 

If you are seeking something more, I wish you well but I am not her right now. I am putting ME first and learning a new field and it is intense and time consuming. 

 


I will try to answer all emails when I log on but if I do not, I will the next time.  Due to work, I am here at best once a week. I am also not seeking a LTR at this time. Honestly with work and training commitments, even if I was ready for one, I could not committ the time it would take, so for right now just conversations and perhaps ---maybe a friend for play time now and a blue moon.

Update- Have been unable to access my account for quite some time!  That said, I am travelling for work and in UT for an extended period and welcome new friends, playmates, etc  

Note: The account was created in 2017 and I have come a long way since then, not necessarily looking for this exact thing. Changing the profile means not having access for who knows how long :(   So by all means reach out, ask questions. Who knows!

Tax professionals do apply!  LOL
I have been away for a while for various reasons.  Remember that thing you call life?  I have one :)    That said, do remember gentleman, I DO NOT SLEEP WITH THE HELP!


Well this bites, this is not letting read, reply or anything.  Anyone else have this damn issue?
Have been away for a while due to unforeseen circumstances some with work, the majority with family.  Life and death are the only ones we all answer to at one point in time or another.  Tying up loose ends but getting back to a "normal life and schedule" finally.   


Due to circumstances beyond my control I have been away for some time, I will respond to all emails but am unable to meet for a little while longer.  I will be here to answer emails but have to leave again for at least another three weeks.
I work, I have a life so I am not here but now and again. This site can be cantankerous at times and sometimes does not let me log in properly.  Patience is a virtue and all that.
To anyone who's been trying to contact me I have had trouble accessing this site for that I will apologize. I will be in touch and answer all emails
I'm going to be out of town for a week with work, starting Wed . I will be back online after this week. Meaning I will not be on this site for at least a week. ?So if your emails are not answered promptly and it bothers you, we are not a match. I have a life outside of this world!`
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