Barton

Who am I? I am a teacher, manager, engineer, rescuer, listener and martial artist.

What I am not - A user, abuser, collector or cheater.

Relationships - I tend to be very careful about who I bond with and tend to stay in those relationships for a long time. I have owned slaves offline. Currently I have a slave that lives with me. She has worn my collar for over 4 years. We spent a very long time getting to know each other before I made her mine. I am looking for another love, if everyone involved knows and accepts the situation. I am looking for a second and only a second, not a harem. I do not think a person only has enough love for one person. Jealousy can be an issue; but with communication, it can be overcome. I have a concept I call T.R.U.E. It stands for Trust, Respect, Understanding and Enjoyment. If all of these factors are not there for everyone involved, then the relationship does not go any farther. I do not get involved with women who are cheating on their mates. Nor do I do online only relationships.

BDSM Experience - I have read D/s fiction for over a two decades. I started learning online about 7 years ago. My first offline experiences started about 5 years ago. I have traveled from Dallas, TX to Atlanta, GA in my search for knowledge. I have played publicly in front of many major BDSM organizations and never had any complaints from the receiver or audience. There are about five regional BDSM groups of which I am a member and visit frequently. I try to attend BDSM classes on at least a monthly basis to improve my skills and knowledge. My BDSM library has over 100 books in it. I am reading from it constantly.

BDSM skills - My main love is M/s. It is truly what I look for in a relationship. Nevertheless, I also enjoy using BDSM techniques to enhance that relationship. I have had classes in and/or experience with the following: flogging, bondage (metal, leather and rope) fire play, mummification, knife play, wax play, spanking and, of course, kinky sex. I have an excellent collection of BDSM tools to allow me to safely and successfully apply my skills. I have spent five years and thousands of dollars putting it together.

I do have a personal web page with things I have written. Just ask and I will send you the link.