barneyg

I'm a 28 year old from Glasgow, and I'm looking for a way into the scene. I'm intelligent and educated, have a good job, and a level head. I have respect for others and am very honest, sometimes to my detriment. I'm friendly, compassionate, extremely open minded, and have a love for trying new things. You can't know if you like something till you've tried it, right?

Below is some background on me that will hopefully explain what I hope to gain through being on here.

Ever since I can remember I have always had a love of the feeling of constriction. Being tied up, squashed etc. In my teens I started to realise a liking for mild pain - scratching, biting, spanking, occasional cutting. This wasn't because I was depressed or anything - far from it. I had a very happy childhood, I just happened to like the feeling. I even branded myself once. Most people would think that makes me fucked up but hopefully some people on here will understand.

Until recently I have not really met any other people who share these interests so any experimenting I have had to carry out pretty much on my own. For the past 11 years I have been in a relationship with with a beautiful girl, who unfortunately doesn't share these desires. Sometimes she'll try to get involved, but when someone's heart's not in it there is far less enjoyment. For the last 9 years or so that has been an open relationship, though there have only been a few situations where we have practiced this. It's not a case of knowing things are going on with someone else but "blocking it out" or whatever, we are both open, honest, and happy about the situation. We are always both fully aware of any involvements the other person may have.

Over this time I have increasingly felt that I would like to share this side of me with someone else, to explore my interests with someone like minded. I have looked around on the internet but have been too shy to actually go along to a munch or anything. Oh yeah I forgot to mention that, I'm very shy when meeting new people. Ggrrr! Recently I met someone who shares some of my tastes and was hopeful that we might be able to help each other out, but unfortunately another relationship came along for her so that's now out. It made me realise how much I wanted to explore though, which is why I'm now posting this ad.

I would like to find a female, roughly 18-38, who would like to get to know me as a friend and help me explore new things. I suspect I'd be more suited to someone who would like to take a dominant role, or someone like me who is just starting out on the road - we can travel together. I may be interested in couples, not sure, but I'm pretty sure not a single male.

To get an idea of things I like, have done, and would like to try, just ask and I'll send you a link to a checklist on another website (because it says no posting of links here).

I'm a very open person who is happy to talk about his life and thoughts.

Get in touch if you think we'd get on. Cheers.