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Male Submissive, 27, Knoxville
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About barium

- He is established, confident, & homoflexible; has strong connections, both privately and professionally. Whilst he has a special - and natural - preference for genuine subs/slaves, he also loves wild to mild/vanilla, and is never likely to resort to gratuitous violence in an effort to prove superiority.


- As a Master, he has come to understand that submission and service come in many forms, apart from the simple and sometimes superficial fetishistic sexual interaction: the true inferior/sub/slave will understand this: he believes in TPE. As a result, he is not interested in what any slave wants done to it, or its list of wants, desires or fetishes, versus its simple need for ownership: whether it be sexual or housework, Master rules.


He is non-scene & responsive to instinct but governed by thought, understandings & philosophy. For 20+ years, he has lived in a polyamorous relationship, but the years of his real preparation have been almost exclusively internal vs. any overt sexual fetishism/bDsM (which never truly fired his imagination). Teasing out the issues... was a journey towards his personal truth, and one that in his younger days he'd have found distasteful... immoral... to own another human being... In his truth this was his own journey for self-knowledge, understanding: self-realization and acceptance: his own inevitability. This 'calling' is just as he thinks/imagines it must be for the true-born slave.


Recently and quite suddenly it seemed, & exactly at his moment of clarity, he was (characteristically) lucky to find his first slave. That relationship has now been dissolved with good feeling... The fucking universe does provide!!! Who knew?? ;-))


He has no interest in "attitude", "grandstanding" or "belly-aching" re: "time-wasting & no shows". And yes, in the past he has used copious upper case and diminutives to validate himself and his role; but that was just a phase, so it's okay ;-). He's made a myriad of mistakes, and that's the beauty of the thing - it's the learning.


Contact him? Sure: a pic and introduction and (if sub/slave) careful application to detail ensures a response. Preference for >35years.


He would also welcome contact with other Dominants/Masters - networking/issues/discussion etc.,


Cheers, Bar.
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