BaldwinPet

Is it just me or has the lifestyle given way to a perverse, barely recognizable version. It seems more and more I see people who are all about humiliation, flings, and abuse. I thought this was about alternative relationships, relationships being the key word? A collar is the vanilla equivalent to a wedding ring, yet more people see it as a sign of property. A submissive is not meant to be abused, humiliated, and objectified. Yes, I know some like this, but that seems to me to be something different all together, not true lifestyle. A BDSM relationship involves mutual respect, caring mixed with kink. And to the so-called Doms I see so often...you may consider yourself a Dom, but you are NOT MY Dom. I will show you respect as long as you deserve it. I WILL NOT bow down to you and do anything you tell me to. You do not have that authority, even if I wasn't collared. Being in the lifestyle is a choice and I will not abusive asshole wannabes disrespect me or try to control me!

Sticks and stones may break my bones but naughty sex excites me, so roll me over, spank my ass, and show me that you like me!! ^.^ Okay, that's all I have to say during this moment of random boredness. :P