BadBlack

"Discipline gives total freedom;

"It allows you to go beyond your limitations, to break through boundaries and reach the highest goal. The path to discipline will not only save a person's life, it will also give it meaning. How? By introducing her to deeper joys and deeper. longings, by creating a silence in which the whisper of the heart can be heard. Truly, discipline is the road to liberation."   --Gurumayi Chidvilasananda

A Slave’s Creed

I will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. I realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Master and I from having the best experience possible, but can lead to physical and emotional harm. I will not attempt to manipulate my Master. I will not push to make a scene go the way I feel it should. I will keep an open mind about trying things that I am not accustomed to or comfortable with and expanding my limits.

I will continue to grow as a slave and as a human being. I will accept the responsibility of discovering what pleases my Master, and will do my best to fulfill His wishes and desires.

I will be courteous and helpful to my fellow slaves, I will share my knowledge and experiences with others in the hope that they will learn from where I have been I will take the time to help those new to the scene start out on the correct path.

I will be responsive to my Master, I will not try to hide what my mind and body are feeling, so that I may assist Him in His responsibilities as my Authority, I know that Dominants are not telegraphists, and will not expect my Master to know thought or feelings which I do not share. I will never think myself a "better" slave because I choose to submit on a different level than another. I will not be boastful of experiences I have had as a slave. I know that my actions reflect upon my Master, and will do my best to help others see him in a positive way, I will not intentionally embarrass, lie or displease my Master.

Above all, I will wear my title of slave with honor.   I will never cause others to think that being slave means to be weak or subhuman. I will take pride in who and what I am, and will never show myself in a negative way.

A thought came to mind during a discussion with my slave. What I thought was many women enter the lifestyle seeking a thrill or something different, but few are willing to count the cost of surrender.

There are no classes of slave, all slaves are essentially the same. Time and pressure are what define the slave.  Becoming a slave is not measured by training alone... being well-trained is not always the mark of a good slave. A slave must have intangible such as aptitude, attitude and behavior consistent with the core values associated with being a slave. Strong slaves comprise a multitude of mannerisms inclusive of, but not limited to, being dynamic, intelligent, vibrant, spirited, sexy, and humble. They should be confident, possess a strong will, yet always understanding their place. They are respectful, honorable, dependable, focused and deferential to all Masters and Mistresses. 

Attitude is a corner stone associated with being a good slave. The issue with some  who allege slave status is a sense of the entitlement.  They pretend to be submissive, but usually have another agenda. They may be deferential to their masters, but when master isn’t looking they forget their place. They are respectful to *other masters* only when the interaction is being viewed, but they become insolent and say, "You can't talk to me that way when out of sight or ear shot of their Master!  Instead of politeness and referring another master to her Master, she attempts to handle matters herself thereby disrespecting the other master and her Master."  Correct Me if I'm, but I thought a slave was always respectful and deferential to any master and mistress.  A good slave always shows respect for others and never disrespects her master by disrespecting another.......

More to come..........

A true slave forgoes all rights, opinions, morals or taboos once owned. Mental slavery is far more powerful than physical slavery although they go hand in hand. Chains, bondage and a cage are all reinforcements and reminders of the slave's status. A slave should not list likes or dislikes as it has no right to them. 

Submission is not something that can be turned on/off... just like its opposite Domination. Submission causes one to crave an action, to desire something with an expected result. There is no true submissive that desires to give herself without expectancy of receiving something in return. Anyone who disputes not wanting something in return is a liar.

Feel free to email Me your thoughts............. Bad Black

WHEN I SAY I'M BROKE - I'M BROKE!
A little old lady answered a knock on the door one day,
to be confronted by a well-dressed young man carrying a vacuum cleaner.
'Good morning,' said the young man. 'If I could take a couple minutes of your time,
I would like to demonstrate the very latest in high-powered vacuum cleaners... "
"Go away!' said the old lady. ''I'm broke and haven't got any money!''
and she proceeded to close the door.
Quick as a flash, the young man wedged his foot in the door and pushed it wide open...
''Don't be too hasty!'' he said. ''Not until you have at least seen my demonstration.''
And with that, he emptied a bucket of horse manure onto her hallway carpet.
''Now, if this vacuum cleaner does not remove all traces of this horse manure
from your carpet, Madam, I will personally eat the remainder!''
The old lady stepped back and said, ''Well, let me go and get you a fork, cause they cut off my electricity this morning."