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Pan Female Switch, 49,  South Carolina
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Im always asked how long Ive been in the lifestyle. Its been a long time, because I enjoyed doing things other people thought were weird when I was in college, but I didnt know about a lifestyle then. After divorcing a vanilla husband, I went back to having fun, which was 2006. Now, Im looking for friends, maybe more... I would gladly enter another LTR with the right person, but I know what I like and what I dont so I wont settle for less than I deserve. First and foremost, let me make this clear... if you are on this site living the lifestyle on the DL tell me immediately IF I decide to give you my attention because I will figure it out quickly. And if you are then be able to handle your home life around what I want from you.

I do laugh when I get an email and it says Im good-looking, blah blah blah... but there is no picture on their profile or attached. When I can see you, let me decide if youre good-looking or not.

For fun, I enjoy going to the movies, concerts or listening to live music, hanging out with friends, going to clubs to dance and riding motorcycles. If you want to know more, ask.

**Do NOT send me a chat request before ever sending an email. I will not accept it!!











 Female Switch

 South Carolina

 5' 10"

 165 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

Submissive Female

Sub / Slave Male

Switch Male




 Being Massaged

 Massage (Giving)



 Amusement Parks

 Bar Hopping


 Fine Dining





 Horseback Riding


 Breast Play




 Rear End Play

 Erotic touch

 Hair Pulling

 Mental Bondage


 Orgasm Control

 Oral Service

 Public Play





 Wax Play

 Comedy Shows



 Web Surfing




 Alternative Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Nineties Music

 Pop Music


 Rock Music




 Curious About:

 Electrical Play







 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales


 Fire Play

 Gas Masks

 Masks (Wearing)

 Masks on Partner

 Modern Primitivism

 Sensation Play

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Journal Entries:
4/2/2015 12:48:35 PM
You are always on my mind and when I say always that is an understatement. I wake up thinking about you, you're the last thing on my mind before sleeping. Always love getting you to speak Italian because it's such a sexy, smooth language. You have taken me places mentally that I thought would never happen. And I thank you from the bottom of my heart. Remember... I love you to the ends of the earth and back!

2/21/2015 2:10:31 AM
The last month has simply been amazing. So much has been experienced on a whole different level. A level I never thought I'd see or be a part of anytime soon. A realization has happened that 'logical' isn't always the best way to approach things. Do what feels right and stop pushing it away. The thoughts that happen when you hear his voice are amazing. Takes you to a place of excitement & anticipation. And then the ideas begin in full force. It feels great to be one with another. You know who you are...  thanks for everything you have done and I know you will do in the future. Ti Amo

1/13/2015 10:02:28 PM
Well, well, well where do I begin? Something has 'fallen' into my lap unexpectedly and it's a fabulous thing even though it scares the hell out of me. It's amazing when we least expect it the right one comes along and the mental connection happens before you even realize it. Yes, there is absolute chemistry.

I get excited when I see a new message from him, certain songs make me think of him and of course I wake up and go to sleep thinking of him. When I don't get to chat or voice chat with him the days aren't as bright. Yes, it's teaching me patience I thought I'd never possess.

Here's the simple explanation:
           You make me feel whole again, young again, alive again, fun again & definitely
            free to love again with my whole heart. The walls I had built for protection are
            falling to the floor.

When you say you love me my heart beats faster with excitement. However far away you may be at times, I will always love you. Yes, I will happily sail away with you.

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