AwesomeDom

?There is no gift so great, no sacrifice so willingly given, no human offering so well received, no sight so beautiful, as the very moment when that sensual veil of submission and sublime surrender slowly descends across your face as you kneel before me, I gently lift your silken hair, slowly clasping a leather collar and leash around your long thin lovely neck, and help your mind soar in an out-of-body experience to that ultimate euphoric place, your very own, intense, and private "sub-space?.

This why I'm looking for a submissive companion/a devoted friend/a willing partner, or even a 24/7 life-mate, a special someone to explore all there is in a loving and caring D&S relationship.

Are you someone who has very private insatiable ?dark thoughts? and fantasies, and is looking for a man who not only understands your needs but strongly encourages and will turn your fantasies into our realities?

My ideal is being with someone who loves the sensation of wearing a thick black leather studded collar and leash, or being restrained or tied up, or light BDSM, or is into any kind of role-play such as Daddy/Daughter, Professor/Student, Master-Slave, or possibly open to group play, same-sex play, edge play, threesomes, etc. Hopefully, together we can safely experience the best of all alternative worlds out there.

I believe that a perfect Dom/Daddy should first be someone you can look up to (accomplished, intelligent, a leader, a real man); someone you can trust absolutely; someone safe/strong/and nice looking (yes, they should look the part and fulfill the role); someone who will respect you and your limits; someone who can take you to that "sub space"; and someone who will always comfort and reassure you afterwards.

Any Dom-Sub relationship should be based on mutual respect, absolute loyalty on both parts, complete discretion, a strong desire to please the other person (this should not be a one-way street, even though most D&S relationships out there are!), and finally, deep caring and even a form of true loving between a Dom and his Sub that can only come from the intense intimacy and the deeply private sharing of a real D&S relationship. After all, great D&S relationships are truly cerebral in their nature and intensely emotional (the perfect scenario usually leaves you in a flood of tears, in that spent sort of way), not just physical or sexual.

You've probably already realized that most guys on this site that claim to be Doms are actually macho-male latex-wearing dominant-wannabees; or else are just looking for easy sex; most of them are actually weak in their real everyday life and just playing at being a real man (often turns out they are actually subs themselves); "deadbeat Dads" and abusive ex-husbands; or many are scary bizarre weirdoes and losers in their real life; or more common, are uncaring insensitive/harsh/rough/cruel/groping pain and control freaks. As for me, I don?t play at being a man (an esential to being a real Dom), I live it everyday. After all, it takes a real man to be a real Dom.

I believe that no two people are alike in this lifestyle, even though most strict practitioners (sic) in this lifestyle will tell you and insist otherwise, that?s sick and so are they!

As for me, I'm a combination of Jack Nicholson (fun & mischievous bit-of-a-bad boy charm), Tony Soprano (no one messes with me, or you with me), Dr. House (same bad leg & deep thinker), all of us are from New Jersey and that means street smarts (& books too), masculine not macho (there is a strong difference! The former is based on confidence; the later is based on insecurity), a true gentleman, mature (give up, most guys never grow up), considered intelligent (not the same as educated), nice looking (6 ft, muscular build, outdoors rugged look, blue eyes, and well endowed just in case you're curious), ex-patriot hippie-liberal-radical (420 friendly, stands up to authority), and most of all, I?m my own person.

I have a very cool, upscale, and hi-tech European car shop, euro-modern facility, specializing in restoring, servicing, customizing of hi-performance European cars and engines. Recently finished my Literature degree on full scholarship/honors from Maryland U. (what a strange and wonderful trip that was!). My real passion is as an active writer/poet (published with two in the works).

At the very least, you'll get to meet a new, definitely different and unique, very open-minded (most claim they are, but not really), interesting, a true and loyal friend, and hopefully together, much more. Or better yet, maybe we'll find in each other the person we've both been looking for.

Your loving, caring, firm and gentle Dom/Daddy,

Marc

PS: I especially love and admire single Moms. I find them to be loving, courageous, very caring, dedicated, hard working, and appreciative of a good man. But they also need attention someone to attend to their own needs, someone to relieve thier everyday stress, someone who's understanding and supportive, someone to lend a helping hand, someone who's a dedicated partner and companion, someone's who's a friend first, and someone who's their personal lover. Besides, I miss the whole family connection thing.