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Hello....As of 12/09
I have a 'collard submissive"
and have that I found my sub and no longer searching.

Foe those who wish to read my profile
I am a man who is fascinated by human nature, by what people will and won't do. This is part of what makes me such a Very Sensual and Dominant Alpha Male
(In my minds eye)

Ideally, you like a taller man. I am 6ft, hazel eyed, rugged, and manly. What I desire and ultimately want is a friendship of TRUST to begin and see what fate will allow.This will be a friendship that needs to grow slowly, while we get to know and TRUST one another

I am seeking a woman who is happiest and most content in life when she has a man to guide and watch over her. I am seeking the type of woman that is focused and professional. I am seeking a woman naturally submissive, but face it these days it isn't always easy to find…at least not the 1st line in conversation. I am a, Dominant man who has confidence in who he is and his ability to lead with wisdom and common sense. A strong man that likes what he likes and has one thing missing in his life and is seeking for ONE woman to fulfill that desire. A man with a soft underbelly and a good heart that needs to love and BE loved in return .Who is firm, but fair and always loving.


In turn I also want a partner and friend. Everything we do reminds you that I am the Dominant one in the relationship. We might be heading out for a day-trip, but just before we leave, I give you that look, and you take off your jacket and wait. Standing close to you, facing you, I need only gently press your shoulders down and you come to your knees before me, quivering. You turn your face up to me. "May I," you say... the question goes unfinished, I simply say "yes”. And smile and kiss you softly, you, knowing what that means as I have taught you well. To us this is NOT about sex, It is about that true gift of SURRENDER.
I enjoy dining, movies and theater, sightseeing in the village, family times and quiet times at home.
I must admit that I do have my kinks as a sensual dominant man. For although I want that woman who works hard at her job and get things done and can be quite assertive, yet SHE IS the submissive woman in private. I desire a woman who wants a man who is very strong minded and who can take control once in the bedroom and know exactly how far to push the limits (once those were well established)

I am here. I know you exist too. Could it be that D/s is 'a' path into deeper consciousness? An extension of spiritual, aware, living?

I am also committed to putting in the time and effort to develop a successful D/s friendship/relationship. I hope you find my description of quiet power intriguing. I live and work in Manhattan. Again, I am committed to putting the time and effort into a relationship with the right woman.

Here is my deepest desire:

I want to find someone who is decent, employed and mentally stimulated by my persona who wants to meet, talk and see if there is even a hint of a spark. Greek Goddesses are not required...regular people are great! And then, I want to get to know this person for a while...make sure they are trustworthy, because you know that a woman can't ultimately give someone keys to her handcuffs if you don't fully trust them. And then I want to see what happens. And figure out what kind of sexual D/s relationship we want to forge together.

And, I want this to be one on one...because my health is way more important than crazy sex.

And I am not sure if I can find that on line, on CM..and I may be asking for too much.


What do you think?

10/8/2009 11:52:23 AM
Like hitting a high note
since you contacted me
what that means to me
just like that

Like the first time
with you
and I was a part of your life 
that could feel
the waywardness of emotion

I only listened
I only watched
As you sought to obey
How simple that is

You do not need to please
because you know
it's my collar you won
...
I am no longer lonely
I am no longer voiceless
I am no longer a stature

...
You
reflect the lovely, beautiful and inspiring attributes
of what a submissive woman is
to be known

...

Make certain,
you know how you affect me
for whatever that does for you
make certain,
if you need to rest in that security
that you rest
in my loyalty to you

...

I am not going to say what I am without you
but I will say
what I am because of you
Is that PERFECT DOMINANT

....

when looking on your state
that we can touch
what society has been called madness
or foolish
mystic, or miracle
with our own human hands
I am still amazed
how deep this goes through me
and how willingly I am
to let it be free enough to seduce me
should
well should...

....

I see you kneel
as I kiss your lips
and it is still profound
what I feel
When I inspect you
and it is still profound
after everything I know about you and you know about me

....


Never in my life will I regret
no matter what happens
no matter what comes in time
Never will I regret
our meeting
or our love

....

Come to me, my lover
let us rest in my warm yet strong embrace
as you surrender ALL to me


~Comments...I welcome them
10/6/2009 1:21:44 PM

Finger to lips
cheek to cheek
your thoughts to mine
I feel your sigh and know your emotion and desire for release
as you hear my deep commanding voice
such a soft warmth to the way you sigh when you reply to me

I like you as a person
this lust we fill will be more
but this can't be left out
the love of your submission will be the first thing to know
the sigh of your surrender tells me
we do this together and we may do it forever

its a soft burning yearning inside me giving me feelings like ive never felt
this inner wanton desire to control and this moment frozen in time.
Look into my eyes

let me feel our mutual affection more powerful than any man ever approached
look into my eyes knowingly
let me know you want me to lead us in love

We knew what we wanted
and where it would end
but where to start
the sweet magical caress of my hand at your neck
against my lips
my skin
and lower
so beautiful you are before me
i wish for my pleasure to be hers
and create her desire as she creates mine as my sub wife
the foundation of what was to come

As she knelt

I felt her tongue and felt the warm rain flooding me in an instant.
Her longing stiffened against my skin
she reached for me to realize we shared that
and with her other hand, her fingers cupped what was so full and warm.
Tingles shuddered through me
my soul to merge with hers.
know these feelings you flourish

To know what you have found

To know what you have wanted…………is not a fantasy

BUT REALITY

10/5/2009 8:37:47 AM

Possess me, you say,

For i belong to You.

 

my mind, my body, my spirit,

They are all Yours she confesses.

 

Wholly and completely,

Today and after today.

 

Posess me my Husband.

Use my body in anyway You desire.

 

Awaken my sex to Your needs.

 

Open it to serve You.

Possess me, my daddy.

Train my openings, my baby soft girl openings for Your pleasure.

 

i will obey without question.

 

Own my breasts, possess my nipples,

For they are Yours you confess to me.

 

Discipline my mouth, my lips, and my tongue.

Train them in Your service.  They are Yours to use as You desire.

 

Possess me, Daddy.

You are my fingers, my toys, my lover.

 

Allow me to masturbate to thoughts of You.  Probe me, explore me, invade me you sigh.

 

I Penetrate and molest my pussy.

 

Punish you as I must.

you will obey, you can take it.

 

Allow yourself to feel the sweetness of my spanking.  To embrace the passion of my fulfillment.

To wear my collar not as an outward act, BUT as a sigh of what is within.

 

Allow yourself to worship and adore me.

 

As your beloved,

I will Possess you , Possess you forever.

For YOU belong to ME

 

10/1/2009 12:17:58 PM

To the one I have chosen as my sub wife

In my life you will be that part,
You shine like a diamond
and soft like a pearl,
a scent of sweet essence
such a beautiful woman, sub lil girl
I look in your eyes
I can see in your heart,
I'm in your life
I will be a part,
And on this day and in this journal
we celebrate the life,
of me being DOM husband
and you being my wife, in spirit and body
So many more days
you will spend serving and yes
Being of service to me,
of us being together
You knelt before me cari is a love thats true,
 Arduous

9/17/2009 1:43:32 PM

As our hands clasp as i begin to feast

I am seared by Her touch

(I need Her nectar so much)

as She taunts

with feathered kisses

My heart skips

and misses

when She rakes Her perfect nails

(in contrast)

 

down my arms

As i plunge my tongue deeper reaching further below

 

She moans huskily and quiver

beneath Her loving caress

and my moistness

adulates Her every touch.

She reaches for the pillow,

 

still as if to muffle her sighs

 

as one breast tantalises

mere breaths

from my face

I cannot contain

the excitement building

behind her dam, so ready to break

as this belle continues to entice

 

Her eyes are mirrored pools of a rich deep hazel

so lustrous and sensual

they capture me;

for such beauty I have never seen

Smiling,

Sighing...

waiting..to...yes too...

 

Master can I..

Can....as if the sentence is complete..and i can feel

 

the sweet coolness fills my mouth

while She slides south

and drips vintage nectar from her lotus

across my pulsing lips.

Dear One,

my senses are awry

as coolness gathers at my glistening slit

and I proceed to ravish her , as No man has been allowed to do

(with finesse)

......ever so slowly,

..............................dry until there is no more.

 

The scent of sex arouses my senses further

as I writhe and squirm beneath

Her demanding touch

and gasp at the harshness

of Her teeth.

Her fingertips are gentle

as She eases one firm strawberry

inside my velvet cavern,

......I arch

..........I buck

(such eagerness!)

Oh, how I yearn

when She sucks hard at my lips

and moistness to taste my prize on my lips

(so delicious our kiss)

saliva smears across Her chin

as she teases with wild flicks

and licks

across My lips.

 

I luxuriate in Her warm breath

as it fans across her wetness,

now dripping from within her

and one hand rubs inexorably

upwards;

grasping me

 

and caressing its fullness

 

I feel Her tongue reach deep

inside me to tale all over me

and one finger follows as her hand clasps to make that silo to slide up and down,

along silken hollows,

to hook

the now warmed milk of mine

from it's nook

and into Her luscious

mouth.

 

Fruit-sweetened juices spill across Her lips

as Her fingers delve deeper

and I raise my hips,

....pushing,

........grinding,

............wanting,

My quivering bud is recaptured

and Her powerful thrusts

fill me........completely,

 

as She takes me by surprise;

I am, enraptured as she swallows

 

 

I cry Her name upon the throes of my passion

as She loves me with verve

and lifts me through the alter of my dream

She shows compassion,

for teasing

as my world is shaken

and I am wholly taken.

Electric shocks course through each nerve

as I lift my legs

wrapping them

.....tightly

around the curve

of Her waist

knowing that I am held

within Her memory  

as it is just a memory of me.

 

9/8/2009 12:56:26 PM

You dream of me, I know who you are
only known you a few months
and yet you are never far
We have and shared face to face
but I know when you think of me my sub wife

Your hands start to shake
As you sleep, closing your eyes you feel me there every night
I cannot love yourself without talking to me for permission
My sweet love, I know you don't dare
And in the morning you see my words

In your In box
As my words stroke your heart gently
aching, every curve
Never thought your heart would jump again
never expected butterflies to come again
but when you think of me that’s what it does
You crave our next visit, you ache for my touch
your heart, still vulnerable and frayed
but I give you hope that all will be ok

And it will be

In all ways

9/2/2009 8:13:04 AM

At the end of the day you come to me,

Then as you do with your emotions and your inner spirit

you thank You and praise me,As I do as well

For the wondrous things You do, to and for me

 

As my sub, as my woman, as my lover

As my cari

You comfort me,

You keep me safe within your heart,

You give me peace.

 

I get pleasure when you kneel at my feet.

As I can see your cares and worries cease.

 

In my arms you sleep in my embrace until the break of day,

When you awake you feel strong enough to face whatever comes your way.

And know there is no mountain you cannot climb,

Because you know that I can and have given you the courage,

When we share our special time.

9/1/2009 12:19:53 PM

For every post that I read
those e mails carefully placed
Into my waiting in box
Magically turned into
Four more...

And even tho’ the
Thank you’s,
Turned into yes
More please... When you read what I have replied
You can still
Feel the creases
In the smallness
Of my palm

And so what
If sometimes, I
Still...
Press that
origami napkin, that nectar
To your lips

I am still
....... still.....here awaiting

8/27/2009 11:28:44 AM

In the great divide, She is but a petal tumbling down the mountain,
that makes its way to the valley
it is at its final stop where it will decompose and feed the earth
this is a fact of nature
that makes all a constant continuum of events
that rejuvenates the earth
so to do the moments of her submission
build and build to reseed his needs and heart.

In time she will believe in him trusts him completely
and live to serve him
this is her continuum
this is her reseeding the energy
that will bind them both
for her deepest desire is to feed his need
satisfy his body
console his soul
To allow herself that inner release
and therein she is rejuvenated
and is reborn yet again to serve at his feet
knelt in a never ending cycle
for her happiness is to please him
to honor him
with her lips
in all she does and in doing so it makes her stronger
and in time will see that she lives to surrender to him over and over to whatever his will
like the bloom of the rose and its blossom
that grows and dies
yet forever returns to bloom again
There is where he will find her
no matter where he goes
her submission his ownership his sub is there for him
in the good and the bad wherever the journey goes
the rose will follow for his beckoning.
8/25/2009 12:01:52 PM

...After all these years

...searching

...hoping

...trying to find Her

...the woman i will love me as her Dom for all time

...in my service

...as the submissive she was destined to be

...Mine

...and Mine alone

...hoping one day

...to kneel at my feet

...head bowed

...showing her respect

...Her love and devotion

...needing to belong to one man

...body and soul

...protected and sheltered

...from life's stormy seas

...opening her heart

...sharing all that she is

...wanting only to please me

...collared

...bound

...and marked

...at My pleasure

...vulnerable, in body, soul and heart

...with a deep desire to be

...so much more than you already are!

...Question is Can you, would you allow yourself to be that ONE woman??? 

8/13/2009 9:53:41 AM
Learning to enjoy the sensual arousal of a man, as his body responds, to the movement of her body, makes his body move, when aroused,by being fascinated by him sensing, one with her the body, is an incredible thing. As the peaks and valleys shakes and shivers and moans and groans each of these things she learns of her man. As it rumbles in her person each sound, is remembered in detail and she replays them in her head,again and again when she is alone, so amorous, so wanton for a release, She is in tune to him and wants more and more to understand pleasure and please his mind as well as his spirit.

Can you?
8/12/2009 8:10:05 AM

Learning to enjoy the sensual arousal of a man
how he ticks
how he moves what his body does when aroused fascinates
the sense he is one with her

the body is an incredible thing it has peaks and valleys
shakes and shivers
moans and groans
each of these things she learns of her man

it rumbles in her person each sound is remembered in detail and she replays them
when she is alone, so amorous, so wanton for a release

She is in tune to him
and wants more and more
to understand pleasure and please of his mind as well as his spirit

Can you?

7/29/2009 7:24:18 AM

During the night she wakes to the sound of thunder

Daddy has gone to sleep

the sounds scare her

and the storm moves closer

she pulls the covers up over her head

trying to hide

but it no use

lightning cracks just outside of her window

she leaps out of bed

and turns over to her side

and finds the closest spot next to her Daddy

what is it little one?

Daddy I'm scared

come here baby

right next to Me

He pulls her in closer

holding her tightly

her cute little bottom

nuzzled next to Me

I stroke her hair

wanting her to feel safe

wanting her to feel protected

wanting her to feel

LOVED

7/28/2009 8:48:45 AM

Sigh upon Sigh
Each their own completion
Eyes closed hearing the silence

I hear you, but can also feel you as well!
come closer
Closer still
Avoid this
Fight this
Attraction
Needing satisfaction
Only in you
growing still
IN this relationship
Grow with me as my sub
Learn my needs
My distinctions
Let's be what we always could have been
Without distractions

Without drama

But with Utter Desire

 

Comments I welcome them

7/23/2009 10:40:40 AM

She lie on the bed

hands shackled

blindfolded

legs spread wide

white stockings

heels

white satin panties

her breasts were full

and her nipples were hard

I stood and admired her beauty

I had missed her today

and wanted nothing more

than to plunge My throbbing cock

deep in her hot wet pussy

 

but I restrained myself

enough to take in all of her

she had taken time to plan something

her imagination was so alluring

and very erotic

 

she had heard Him come in

His footsteps

the strength in His presence

His scent of seduction

she needed Him

to consume her

asphyxiate her with His power

she needed to belong to Him

 

the room was candlelit

and she lay on a sheet of plastic

 

near the end of the bed

was a small glass top table

 

on the table was a small crock pot

I lifted the lid to find it filled with hot liquid wax

 

without a sound

I went to Her side

and whispered in her ear

"you belong to Me"

then took each nipple in My mouth

biting them

then marked the soft flesh underneath

 

I followed her curves with my fingers

until I reached her very wet and swollen pussy

she lifted her hips to try and meet my fingers

but I made her wait

I wanted to hear her beg

I wanted her to say

fuck me Daddy!!

PLEASE!!

Daddy...I've been such a good girl

please Daddy??

 

is this what you want baby?

as I slid my gorgeous black throbbing cock into her cunt

oh yes Daddy!!!

god she felt so fucking good!

and I needed her

almost as much

as she needed Me

I fucked her sooooo good!!

her screams ran through Me

Daddy?? may i cum Daddy?

no baby....not yet!

but Daddy!  she pleaded

I reached over

picked up the ladle

filling it with the hot wax

and as I emptied it over her shaved mound

and over each nipple

I fucked her even harder....deeper

sending her over the edge

her juices squirting everywhere

 

on all fours I commanded

and quickly her beautiful ass was up in the air

right in front of me

THIS was her favorite part!

and I wanted the release for her

she had been such a good girl

all week long

 

I took her by the hips

and pulled her down hard

over and over

right in that one spot

that makes her surrender to Me

every time

and just as she was going to cum

before she even had a chance to ask Me

I covered her ass with hot wax

and filled her cunt with my hot cum

 

Daddy....I'm cumming Daddy!!!

 

and she DID!

SHE DID!!!

7/23/2009 7:52:46 AM
 

My choices are due to the sum of my fundamental convictions… To me the man who is proudly certain of his own value will want the highest type of woman( be her submissive - a plus) he can find( weather on Collar me or another venue it waits to be seen),yet  the woman I will admire, the strongest… because only the erotic possession of that woman will give me not only a sense of achievement, not the possession of a woman. I do not seek to gain her value, but to express it. In time she will see there is no conflict between the standards of my mind and the desires of my body to fulfill.”

 

Thoughts?

 

I welcome responses

7/22/2009 12:26:35 PM

My D/S choices are due to the sum of my fundamental convictions… To me the man who is proudly certain of his own value will want the highest type of woman he can find( weather on Cm or another venue it waits to be seen),yet  the woman I will admire, the strongest… because only the possession of that woman will give me not only a sense of achievement, not the possession of a brainless slut.( as do most pseudos here) I do not seek to gain her value, but to express it. In time she will see there is no conflict between the standards of my mind and the desires of my body to fulfill.”

Thoughts?

I welcome them

7/22/2009 7:37:02 AM

Get on your knees’

‘Stroke your pussy (my pussy)’

‘Under your panties’

‘Slower’

‘Faster now’

‘Place your hand and caress your left nipple’

‘Stroke my clit gently’

‘More, softly, softly’

You are vocal, saying FUCK which I adore.

My instructions punctuated by your freedom to speak so dirty.

Your moist-mouthed and laboured breathing makes me want to come.

I am hard, of course.

I bring my fingers to my cock and touch myself while you do what I say.

I feed you my arousal and you reflect it back to me magnified.
 
‘Take your fingers one at a time, middle then ring one at a time baby..
 
Yes now insert BOTH of them deep inside, with your index and pinky opening my pussy
 
Your voice changes at the pain of it, whimpers, a sobbing.

Our breathing and moans float desperate in the air.

I can’t tell which are yours and which are mine.

When you ask me Sir may i CUM , you make a strangled sound.
 
I say yes baby, let me see you squirt on the towel below

You are allowed to come.
 
As I see you close your eyes, and drift into orgasmic bliss
Sealing my happiness, in viewing your surrender

A4U

7/21/2009 7:57:07 AM

When I heard you say “Yes Sir”

a liquid breath of thought:
serenity composed
of bittersweet memory
and pulsing-heart love
finally surrendered onto

you as the taciturn child
inspired by my ethereal presence
put pen to paper and wrote:
"I surrender to you Sir", for the very first time...

With retrospect, I suppose
such phrases must have seemed trite
and commonplace to beauty such as yours:
Were there not whole legions of women
who wrote that to other man before?
and more effusively than myself
with my romantic yet sensually assertive prose and tone
You would never understand
what courage that required
of you: your heart
on a sacrificial slate,
your soul balanced between
madness and epiphany

With the progress of time now encouraged
to greater volubility I ask:
Is not the rare word
more precious than abundant
overused declarations of love?

From  submissive to her Dom?

I for one
Am seeking that One Woman to say

It to me again


7/20/2009 8:03:21 AM

She Is the one

She is the sunlight that kisses my skin, and warms me on a cool day

As I see her knelt in font of me
She is the food that nourishes my body, and gives me strength

As she surrenders her passions to me unconditionally
She is the blood that courses through my veins, giving life to my soul

As she closes her eyes and sighs” Yes Sir”


She is the beat of my heart, which quickens with a word from her

As she feels the release of her loins nectar

She is My One Submissive

 

Can you be?

7/17/2009 8:54:04 AM
Still On my Quest

Passion upon Passion
Each their own completion
Sigh upon sigh

The breath of Surrender

I hear you, and yet you desire more of me!
Come toward me,
come closer
Closer still
Do not avoid this
Fight this
Attraction
Needing satisfaction
Only in you
growing still
IN this relationship
Grow with me
Learn my needs
My distinctions
My inner wants
Let's be what we always could have been

Lovers
Without distractions

Lovers
Without boundaries

7/2/2009 8:18:07 AM
She is more
Than the
beauty of
Her word and prose

Swivel behind
Each syllable
And feel the
Moving segments
As she feels my energy?

Is she soundless?
In her desire for me
Or simply as I say Lex
“along with,”
“among,”
“after,”
“behind,”
“beyond,”

She is mine... not mine
She is my sub to her Dom
In each split-second
I wrestle with her between

Sharing the veins
Of Pure Submission
And of relief
7/1/2009 12:49:56 PM

I will be as her Dom

The sunlight that kisses her skin, and warms her on a cool day
The food that nourishes her body, feeds her soul and energy gives her strength
The nectar that courses through her lotus, giving life to my soul
I will be the beat of her heart, which quickens with a word from my deep commanding voice
She is Mine

And She knows it…

 

 

6/29/2009 9:10:23 AM
Seeking brainy beauty who is extremely smart, cool, creative, aware and truly ready to explore her sexuality with naturally Dominant smart educated and very real man

A true connection is my goal so flexibility and reality and a real connection matter most. If this seems like you then lets see what we can see....Shall we begin..lets chat 1st?
6/25/2009 9:48:15 AM

Your Masters Embrace

Now
As you slip into your masters embrace
as easily as into those jeans-
threadbare and faded
that you alone know how simple it is yet

So satisfying
in some mad idea about
recapturing that little girl found deep inside

Then – in your submission
you tensed in my embrace
all too aware of just how easily
you could slip into my arms forever
fingers running down your back
lips finding your lips
instead of just the allowed hug

Now
My lips still seduce you
even when we are together
in public places and you long to whisper

Yes ~R
to be free to give what is yours to freely give

Your mind

Your spirit
It can be anywhere

behind the bookstore shelves
or across a restaurant table

Then
one of the places we’d found
to just be together and talk
letting me see your legs brush as I have directed
unaware that you were giving onto me
out of control and beyond your reach

Now
you are always within my reach
and my desire is still just to
lay kisses on your lips
run fingers along your back
listen to your ideas and dreams
and slip have you kneel

as you allow yourself into Your Masters Embrace

6/22/2009 11:11:41 AM

You try not to trouble me, As you can sense things are busy. Yet you are trying hard today to

surrender to me, but there is an ache in your gut, sorrow in your heart as you

yearn to hear MY voice. With all these feelings, somehow you do put your daddy

first, at times more successfully then others. You hear a little voice

say surrender to him, and you do, and you do feel comfort and calm, knowing you

have done it. Maybe you can say it is a hopeful surrender.

Funny, surrender isn't a static thing. It changes. It is not achieved all at

once. There is an ebb and flow to it. It needs to be worked at, sometimes

harder then others.

 

Are you one for me?

 

That I ask………….

6/18/2009 10:40:19 AM

My warm arms..breath. the steady pulse of your unwavering desire...
Cold lips..closed eyes..turned away..where did you go?
The pain...no farewell...how could you?
Yet you do miss the absence of A man in Control

Your tears are hot..pillow is wet..so very lonely...are you lost my pet?
Softness presses upon your heart, wanting, needing, in hunger
sighs escape you...yet you utter “Yes Sir’
I hear you..in my mind...is that my ear?
Whispers..yes Sir
The fragrance of my cologne surrounds all that your are.....in the recesses of your mind
yet you are wanting..waiting......wanting more
Exquisite love..how could you miss?
Who was lost..but that which you so desire..eve here...dreams are yours....always there....

Make them real

 

I am real

 

If you seek that Loving Dominant …write me

 

6/15/2009 1:13:16 PM
My thought for today

El verdadero amor supone un acto de entrega total”, which translated means “True love involves an act of total surrender.”
6/12/2009 12:56:30 PM



It is so ironic…that after all is said and done even when they say they NOT, when they ARE.

After chatting with a member who was going to finally meet me..sees my photo and says..

Quote..

no sorry, just didn't realize the race difference...not into Spanish/Latin men

Best,

N
HUH?

6/11/2009 7:48:42 AM

I known you cannot stay away too long
You hear my soul call you...

call you in the quiet
when your soul is sure to hear

The longing, the butterflies, the swelling of your lotus
As your mind hears my deep voice whisper gently in your ear
and your longing brings you back to me…your Master

Your daddy

Your Dom

Your Master.

I know you cannot survive long
without that breath of life....
That I breathe in you
when your sure you cannot go on
and you needing my hand, My sting

My commands brings you back to me.

I'm comforted to know
you have never been alone
although the human need is great
for sameness and the like
Yet beyond this
I've always felt and known you're close to me
deep inside
even when you try so hard to hide your submissive nature.
Yet I see you.
And though  as you kneel in homage

you hang your head at times
afraid you cannot live up... yet you feel my outstretched hand
You feel me lift you
You feel me raise you
You stand up straight
and set you on that path of Totally Letting go
You know you cannot stay away too long
because you know hat deep inside

YOU NEED THIS
and in that call I know
that love, submission, surrender no matter what
no matter how
no matter why
I Will provide.

What you need

What you desire

And what your soul Longs for..

Villmar

 

 

Are you seeking for that dominant gentleman both in professional as well as private life.

I take pleasure in talking about a wide variety of topics, whether it is at a great restaurant or in a coffee house.

I'm looking for an ongoing relationship with a  cute, submissively spirited woman.
Someone very down to earth: takes care of herself, social, loves to talk.

If you are ready to give in on your inhibitions, then by all means respond. You will not be disappointed.

 

6/9/2009 8:55:34 AM

I am

That Dominant in Mind, Soul, Spirit
I am but a desire deep within your Mind
Yet you know me
I am that Life you desire to pursue
because you know me.

Because you WANT to know OF me

That Dominant in Mind, Soul, Spirit
To the world I am an intelligent

Professional

Well dressed

Well versed in art, food and music
Yet you know me
I am that Light you are drawn to
And you know me.

That Dominant in Mind, Soul, Spirit
I am but a profile on CM
Yet you know me
I am that Dominant in Mind, Soul, Spirit
because you know me.

Because you WANT to know me

Because you WANT to DESIRE me

 

6/8/2009 9:03:57 AM

New York Sensual Dom seeks passion and romance with a Committed Submissive.

I am very experienced and I am seeking a woman who is intellectual, creative , sociable and has a greater capacity for intimacy.
Besides d/s and DD I'm interested in The Arts, Music, Cinema , Sports, Writing, Reading, Socializing primarily in but not limited to the scene in NY.

6/4/2009 7:30:47 AM

Its ironic, that in new York ( the city that never sleeps) It so so difficult to find that ONE true

Submissive woman that I can know and nurture.

Yes I'm an experienced Dom with a long time appreciation of the pleasures associated with BDSM. An artist and a musician with a love of kink, the arts, movies, ethnic food, and jazz, I've also a wry sense of humor, a firm hand and an accommodating lap. I'm an indulgent disciplinarian with a sensual yet romantically sadistic streak.

 

You'll never know what might come to be. I'm an easy going person with a wide range of interests and hobbies that allow me to converse on most topics. I have this knack for acquiring trivia. It's a blessing and a curse. I'm able to laugh at myself and find the humor in almost any situation.

You come onto CM because you are brave....scared....alone....aching, to a place that may be unfamiliar to look for warmth. It has been a long time...or an hour....but here you are again. I look at you and I know...you only feel beautiful when you can truly surrender your inner passions, when you kneel in homage, you can only let go when someone is there to catch you....the pain tears down the walls and breaks through all the hurt and anger and sadness.....it reaches you in a way that nothing else does.....it softens you. Pulling you out of yourself and making you bigger than you are.....more beautiful than you have been. For what is the rose without prick of the thorn?

I need you to be just a bit braver...just this once......Extend your hand to me, and I will lead you… If any of this journal piques your interest drop me a line.

6/3/2009 11:58:49 AM
A little girl
who loves her Daddy
daydreaming
about
dressing up for her Daddy's
As she picks her hose, and heels
wrapped up in His Mental scent
the way he looks at her…like a work of Art
As he admires her
as he looks
speaks, come here to me’
His favorite one..of course
thinking about how to kneel before him
And yet daddy somehow always knew right where your mind is
"I can see you" he said
come here little one"
come and sit on My lap"
so you stand from that spot
excited to be in your Daddy's arms
Your favorite place in the whole world!
6/2/2009 8:26:08 AM

My Embrace

Now
you slip into My embrace
as easily as into those high heeled-
shoes and skirt
that you alone know you bought that way
in some idea about
recapturing my attention

Then – in your surrender
you tensed in the embrace of my deep

Voice softly commanding you
all too aware of just how easily
you could slip into me forever
fingers running down your back
lips finding your lips
instead of just the allowed ‘yes Sir”

Now
my mind still seduces you
even when we are together
in public places and you long
to be free to give lingering kisses
behind the bookstore shelves
or across a restaurant table

Even a small glance at cleavage to express your inner desire

For an OUTWARD gesture of submission

Then
the table was familiar
one of the places we’d found
to just be together and talk
letting your legs cross as you dreamed
unaware that your world was spinning
out of control and beyond my reach

Now
you are always within my reach
and my desire is still just to
lay kisses on your lips

As you look up to me

Knelt
as you feel my fingers along your back

My lips on the nape of your neck
listing to your ideas and dreams
and slip into my embrace

MY MENTAL EMBRACE

6/1/2009 8:42:00 AM
Alas after a few weeks of talking/emails and actually getting to know her...the sub that was to be my trainee has decided that she will go back to the dom this she truly loves.
well as Alfred Alfred Lord Tennyson stated .'TIS BETTER TO HAVE LOVED AND LOST, THAN NEVER TO HAVE LOVED AT ALL.

On a Cm slant

'TIS BETTER TO HAVE A SUB UNDERTRAINING AND LOST, THAN NEVER TO HAVE THE PLEASURE OF TRAINING THAT SUBMISSIVE AT ALL.

My Quest Continues...Any worthy takers?




5/28/2009 10:10:50 AM

Not a day goes by

that i do not dream

That my sub

overcome by her weakness

never knowing if I will

make love to her

when her tears fall like rain

or feeling as I just ravage her body

like a lion with His prey

carnal

filled with lust

and desire

the only ritual

that could satisfy

the deep hunger pangs

needing me as her Master

desperate for MY touch

for the sweet surrender....of her Body

Soul and Mind

5/27/2009 8:34:57 AM

There are a lot of women out here and if a person is truly looking for a "dom" then I wonder if this is really the place to look. Yes, communication is the key here. If you just want to spice things up a bit then either take the initiative or talk to your man. Why can't we just be whatever we are at the moment? Behavior suits the mood, you know…but I wonder if there is an intelligent woman who loves to engage in mental conversation…and just happens to be submissive in mind and spirit.

Is that so hard on CM?

Comments ladies……….?

5/26/2009 7:35:03 AM

Cuándo usted piensa en mí

Cuándo usted piensa en mí perder su Dom como que Dos cuerpos enredaron necesitado Todo que desperto en usted. Ese deseo
para servir, ser adorado, para ser abrigado

Cuándo usted piensa en mí Usted piensa de mi voz Mi presencia dominante La manera que lo cubre usted en calor
el corazón golpea con lirismo más rápido.

Cuándo usted piensa en mí los ojos sonríe Como usted sube de arrodillarse Nuestras dos almas conectadas de
nuevo en el tiempo UN lugar donde usted es sólo mío. Sólo MIO

Cuándo usted piensa en mí Usted está agradecido haber sabido qué rendición es Como usted me inspira a ser que
Adorando Dominante Como una mejor persona que fui antes.

Mas es cuando pienso en usted yo sé que es pero un momento Cuando pienso en le tener en mi abrazo Y nuestros
corazones otra vez comenzará a competir.

Cuando usted dice Sí Señor

Deseo todo para usted Señor


Transalted in english

When you think of me

When you think of me
To miss your Dom like that
Two bodies entangled in need
Everything that I awaken in you.

That desire to serve, to be loved, cherished

When you think of me
You think about my voice

My commanding presence
The way it blankets you in warmth
Your heart lyrically beats faster.

When you think of me
Your eyes smile

As you rise from kneeling
Our two souls reconnected in time
A place where you are only mine.

Only MINE

When you think of me
You are grateful to have known what surrender is
As you inspire me to be that Loving Dominant
As a better person than I was before.

Yet It is when I think of you
I know it is but a moment

When I think of holding you in my embrace
And our hearts will again begin to race.

 

As you say

Yes Sir

 

I desire all for you Sir


From a Sensual Dom who is a poet as well...

5/20/2009 10:41:51 AM
As i read the blogs of the mistreatment of some...Saying and doing God awful, nasty, hurtful things -- and those the lonely sometimes insecure ones, who are lucky enough to have one as their Master in my life.  To me a True Master does and will understand and embracing his sub's femininity and sexuality and will be smart enough and skilled enough to harness it and control it  -- to allow her to truly see what a wonderful feeling that is!!!
5/19/2009 8:22:13 AM
Upon thy cheek I lay this zealous kiss, as seal to the indenture of my love."
Shakespeare, from King John Act II Scene I

One day...for the one who I will choose as My submissive
~Villmar
5/13/2009 10:53:14 AM
I Await

I wait for that special one 
On the other side of her inner destiny to fulfill
Understanding you must surrender that inner passions to me 
The settled path I  have chosen for you
When completed
My arms wait for you my love.
5/7/2009 9:20:19 AM


All I have sought for....even from sites like CM and others is For One Submissive woman....Not a POLY

I am a sensual romantic full of passion
Dominant male seeking His partner.

I am ready to settle for ONE woman that is also interested in settling for ONE man….why on EARTH is that so hard?

 

I am the most positive and funny, kind, generous, giving, intuitive, caring, and supportive..I am well balanced, know where I came from, why I am here, and where I am going with that lovely woman , who is REAL and just happens to be submissive. I don't expect You to be like me, just expect you to want to be with me. I am loyal, devoted to the Nth degree, and seek same.

 

I do not feel it bad to say that I am an A Type and a Top...In fact I RELISH IT!!!

Hmmmmmmmm i wonder if women still like their men Tall, Well dressed and Romantic...to take the TIME to trust...way before the session begins?

5/6/2009 11:23:46 AM
It is so funny that as I still seek, it does seem to me that a large degree of the "Submissive Women" here mostly have interest in protracted emails or titillating ims.
Yet i do not... yet emails I assumed that, should we both be interested in pursuing any possibility, that one would meet for coffee or a drink and decide if we should continue getting to know one another have been all but null.  I also have no intentions towards a relationship other than one that respects the constraints of each other's "vanilla" lives.  I have a full and busy life including business obligations, personal relationships and a large family all of which keep me exceptionally occupied and which take priority to my adventure.
Yet I would make it all open for just ONE woman willing to surrender her self...
And they say the Dominant men are the "wanna bees"

That being said, the kind of a relationship that ignores intellectual and emotional sensuality is worthless.  A true Dominant possesses the mind and the body of his submissive and a true submissive needs to please all aspects, mental and physical of her Dom.  Without that, there is no relationship that is worth any.  Both partners must open themselves to each other.  As you can see to me it is impossible to be stimulated physically without being mentally stimulated - the mind is the most erotic organ and unless the mind is intrigued and challenged, the body cannot respond.  In order for you to release all, to give all up and be used as MY object, you need to understand me - How is it possible to please without knowing who i am and respecting who I may be.

There..Ive vented.

 
2/4/2009 11:03:51 AM
Wanted: A true submissive.
She is very sweet and caring, she is a true sub, born as a sub and lives as a sub as her chosen desires want it so.

I am, on the other hand, very sensual BUT stern and forceful. I have a big heart for my sub, but I rule with an open hand.

Still wanting to find that ONE who knows the inner calling and who is loyal, sweet, caring, and ready to take on a role of submission and YES surrender.

No drama or jealousy

You have a healthy dose of common sense. You are able to express yourself and your desires. You aren't afraid of examining problems to work through them. It is not that you can't make your own decisions but that sometimes you choose not to. You are not helpless or a victim. You are empowered by your total submission to that one person you belong. You take pride in your appearance knowing that you are his reflection to the outside world.

Do I seem to have high standards? Good, I hope your standards are high as well. I am Dominant but fair, in control, but not controlling, persistent, but not obsessive, laid back, but serious, mature, but playful at heart, balanced, but off center, kind, but wild, assertive but not cocky, protective, but not smothering, possessive, but not jealous, adventurous, but not a risk taker, into domestic discipline, but NOT domestic violence. 

So for now just imagine these things done to you (or by you) at the right time, by the right person, for the right reason, in the right mood, and of course, at the very right mix & dose.

Think about...

You are more than all the beautiful women out there
you are more than whatever I could miss in the act for seduction
because you do seduce me
as my sub without sexuality
in every little thing you do
that has more to do with your character than me as your loving dom 

But then you look at me and smile
and reach for me
Oh you reach for me with longing eyes
and I want to cover you
with all the love and respect that I feel for you my pet
and so I do
and I will be here for you
through thick and thin

We have kissed a thousand times
and more
but those kisses
still remain 
On me
as upon you
  

7/6/2006 8:55:21 AM
As of 7/6

Hi:

...I am glad that i am seriously wanting to persue my submissive on collar me but admit to state that most of the posts were either BLANK or from women who "Just don't get it.. Over all..I just wanted to say that here in NYC where the women/and some men seem to be all full of BS as well as themselves...So I'm looking on here again to seek that kindred sprit.... . I hope that my description in my post was quite accurate of what I am and what I want.

May I please share some of my own views in this entry?

As I continue to build an authentic life, I have come to embrace my sensual heart and now finally understand the power that it wields. I am an intelligent, attractive, passionate, successful professional white man who yearns for that One woman to relinquish control within a committed relationship.

I have come, in my brief journey, to understand that The woman that I will choose( rather have her Choose me...) cannot gift herself to anyone, as that presumes I wish nothing in return. Rather, I seek that she offers her friendship to a great man - not just a nice guy, but also a man of great character - receiving in consideration, a minimum of my unassailable respect, abiding affection and absolute protection.


I am worthy of a truly available, mature, attractive woman, emotionally secure, with high integrity and intelligence, ultimately looking to develop a healthy, long-term friendship first/ relationship, in combination with a satisfying romantic one.
I love the erotic about that inner surrender also love exercising, but not a fanatic about it, I like to because it stimulates my whole aura, Body/soul/mind.

I am a very passionate and sexual man, of course with the right person.  I have even been called intense. But few women have captured my imagination. Fewer still have truly touched my mind. So while I have yet to find her, I seek only One. And I would never do so indiscriminately, as I believe she is searching for me on Collar me too.

Having earned my respect, this girl will always strive to know me well, moving comfortably from being an asset on my arm for dinner to a wanton lustful sensual hopeful romantic like me. In return, She is One who wants, One who needs as much as I want, to care for one another and protect her as the man should be within a loving relationship.

Would it be your pleasure to communicate with me?

I hope so.

ajar
 
 Age: 24
 NY, New York