I am looking for someone that does NOT see all of this as an exclusive way of investing in clothes and toys, but values it as a precious component of creating elevated spiritual awakenings in one's life. No one nighters...only serious players need write. I identify as mostly domme, but crave for someone of the cognoscente that has the intuition and balls to just TAKE ME during play when there is need. Some may think I'm asking for too much in this venture here, but I do believe in that kind of intense fire existing between two. I seek smart, well-educated (not the same as smart!!!), quirky, kind and tall men that love to dance. A want a swanky man that can kick back, brood, watch porn with me, and then talk about the extremes of Victorian Gothic Architecture to the most powerful of the X-men is my ideal (heh...yes, I said swanky). Needy/toxic men need not write! Shake shy men don't write. If you're not comfortable in your skin by now and don't give a damn about what others think of your lack of finesse...we wouldn't get along.