ArdentLibertine

Here is the truth...I am here for the sex. For the exciting, suprising, uncommon sex. Regular predictable boring sex makes me long for a lamp and a good book or magazine, if only to read while my man is busy. In that situation, the words that go through my mind over and over are, "are you done yet?" A horrible fantasy. Much better is the inventive lover who will control my breath, grab my hair, tie me to something, spank my ass...basically someone who will hold my attention and keep me interested.

BDSM, whatever words you put in the letters, is only as interesting as the chemistry of the two of us. I am not looking for blind submission, however, I like to be dominated in the bedroom. I am interested in testing what my current limits are.

Okay, I guess I have to clarify. I am not just looking for sex. Sex is my primary interest in BDSM. The submission, for me, should be fun and interesting and not derisive and mocking. BDSM is an interest for me, not an all encompasing life. Not right now. For those of you who are married, looking for a second/third/whatever, or overall in this only to find your now before your next~I appreciate what you are looking for. Just do me a favor, keep looking. In the bigger picture of a solid relationship, I am open to playing with others. In the smaller picture of right now, I want a partner: a friend, partner in crime, in passion and in play. Someone who can laugh with me, that finds this stuff fun, and finds that those of us that live this life to the detriment of others are missing out on what else is in life to live.

I have been looking for "the one" for a long time, perhaps it is time to look for "the other".

I look forward to hearing from You. I am not interested in relocating. I am not interested in long distance or online only relationships.