About Angelica
I seek only purely platonic Gone With the Wind style slaves. Read/Obey entire ad or be ignored....
A clear litmus test, for those who are considering responding to my ad:
If you think my profile photo is sexual, erotic or perverted in any way...
...do not respond.
Read entire profile and all journal entries before responding also. Any email received that does not completely adhere to all instructions and boundaries described herein will be simply ignored.
TARA is moving...
{Update April 24, 2010: This profile will be checked only on very rare occasion after May 1, 2010. Though it will remain up in part to set a rare wholesome example and continue to encourage non abusive, wholesome interaction only here just as Christians are to leaven the whole world.
We have created our own private, christian website without any sexual or unwholesome aspects to it at all. Though this and fellow SlavHERs ads have always held to genuine christian wholesomeness, we do get weary of seeing the other things here.
Owning slaves and servants is actually biblical, but it needn't be abusive or unwholesome in any way. And I for one, wouldn't bother at all if it weren't completely voluntary, platonic and wholesome.}
(This profile will no longer be checked regularly. The backlog of wonderful applicants to TARA members has become too much for us. And we no longer have time to monitor our profiles. If you have not yet been selected by a TARA member and wish to serve under the guidelines described here or in other TARA member profiles, please feel free to apply. However, we cannot know when another new member may require a slavHer. At a recent member meeting, we collectively decided to leave our profiles up to maintain a presence of dignity and wholesomeness on the site and to help cultivate the ever growing non-sexual, non-abusive, wholesome environment and presence of other like minded SlavHERY advocates. We want to thank everyone who has been supportive and respectful of this new, completely wholesome wave in the BDSM world. )
I seek only those slavHers whose minds are not corrupted.
The photo posted is an entirely innocent photo of warming up excercises in ballet.
My slave/servant will become like a member of the family or other traditional maid, chauffeur, butler, groundskeeper and caretaker types.
Do not reply to me before reading my entire ad. I realize it is long, but if it is too much for you to respect me in that, understand that you are not the one I seek.
Do not expect a reply unless your email is very complete, detailed and interesting regarding all that you offer to do and be as my slave within the limits of my ad...and if you include photos of yourself and your house and grounds to show how well you already keep things up.
Sorry, no inexperienced slaves. No apartment dwellers. Only genuinely experienced house and groundskeepsers or those experienced with delegating/paying for such duties to be completed. I'm not interested in teaching someone these things.
Please be sure you notice my Hard Limits list... Hard Limits means I NEVER do these things, and will NEVER consider them. <--- (period)
According to some who have written me, at times collarme.com has added interests to my list that I've never approved. Whether it is a system glitch or a sick intentional joke by editors... Frankly, it is more likely that those who claimed this, were lying.
Please know that I am entirely uninterested in ANY "scene", sexual or erotic or provocative or bizarre involvements with slaves. And if any such interests ever appear in my lists, it is an error or deception on the part of Collarme.com.
I am quite literally, purely, a very gentle, tenderhearted Owner...who seeks only a true prince for a husband...and slave/servants only to make life more beautiful...
As a simple christian, my profile is a wholesome option to those with a strong internal desire to be a slave, without any desire for perversion, abuse or association with people who live that way.
I am not here as a wholesome Owner for a perverted slave to feel "safer". And I could never consider involvement with any kind of abuse, perversion, sexual immorality or other unethical or immoral behavior, because it is just not in my make-up. So please do not waste your time hoping I might relent in some "small" area even....
I place an ad here only because it is the only "slave" forum I know of that isn't far more perverted...and the wholesome slaves I seek, are here as well...if only as a small but healthy subset. If anyone knows of a completely platonic, wholesome slave site, do let me know.
I am a very gentle and kind person...who genuinely has always and only loved purity...
I am not this way to judge others... But simply because it is who I am, and who I have always been.
But I have come to love owning slaves as much as anyone...on my terms.
I believe each individual has a right to choose their own life. But not to inflict their choices on others who do not agree. (Unless a slave gives that right to me by Ownership, of course.)
I personally enjoy molding my slaves into great servants of God, and especially love finding those who already are...
My ad will be firm at times, only because I've had several incompatibles contact me and I want to weed them out.
If you feel you are my slave after having read this entire profile, including noting my interests and hard limits, then email me a detailed letter of application describing and listing everything that you can and will be to fulfill my ad while clearly respecting the boundaries it sets.
I can only ignore all other contacts now, and cannot talk to anyone even in chat who does not first obey this simple instruction.
Please do not contact me for romance, sex, erotica or scene things of any kind.
I am only interested in those who know for certain that they truly are wholesome, platonic lifelong slaves, and nothing else. That such a life makes them very happy and content.
Slavery such as I seek is very easy for a true slave, and is simply common sense...frankly, anything and everything that needs done around the house and grounds, etc.
If you need to ask me what your chores and day to day life will be like, then you are not a real slave. If you need me to teach you how to do these most basic tasks of living, then you are not a real slave. You should be able to tell me clearly what you know your life will be.
Please know also that I am entirely uninterested in newbie/experimenting slaves, switches, doms or anyone who needs training, silly role playing or other nonsensical or trivial "control" methods that weakminded or mentally ill women and prostitutes use to pretend "dominance". If that is your idea of dominance, please simply go to the next ad and I truly hope you find a fulfilling life....
If you expect your Owner to act crassly, vulgarly, mean, degrading, humiliating or in anyway like a man to "prove" they are dominant...please move on.
I love being utterly feminine and gentle. My slave submits easily, happily and even adoringly... and never requires force, harsh words, abuse or any other silly trapping to know they are a slave, and to serve with great happiness and inner motivation to please.
I absolutely do not seek my husband in a slave, though he may be masquerading as a wholesome one I suppose, for fun...and may look forward to submitting completely to his very own lifetime Princess. However even he should not approach me in this regard here, and should not apply for that reason. Slaves should only apply if they truly want to be platonic slaves only. Only in the rare (unlikely) chance that I am attracted to a slave with potential marital interest, and if I indicate that, should any slave ever think of such a thing.
Type A men keep trying to convince me to let them be my slave/husband...and perhaps one will finally convince me. If so, that is fine. As I do not have a picture of what my husband will be, other than gorgeous, young, very creative and successful. I will know him when I meet him.
In truth, for my own personal life, I seek a strong, gentle, wise, young and exquisitely loving true Prince in every way... for a lifetime of blissful, wholesome marriage in which to raise many, many little goodwill ambassadors to send out into the world...
I am not attracted to older men at all romantically, never have been, and never will be... so would such men please stop responding to me offering marriage?
I will almost assuredly marry a "Vanilla" husband...whatever that means...but after more than 7 years comfort in wholesome, platonic slaveOwning, I would never marry a man too insecure to accept my slaves with me. He will be a man of complete integrity and faithfulness to me and our marriage. Yet he will embrace having wholesome, voluntary slaves to help around the house and grounds. He will likely be used to having servants and slaves already...those often affectionately called "employees" in the modern world. *wink* He will be a very secure man, and therefore unthreatened by the very close genuine bond of friendship I form with my slaves, as well as my many other platonic friends, male and female alike. He too will come to consider them close friends and part of the family.
My statement of this however, is NOT to seek romantic involvement in anyway on this site. I only state these facets to make it very clear to those who persist in responding with such hopes. And also to reassure slaves of my permanent mindset regarding 21st century voluntary slavery.
Mine is a wholesome, platonic slave searching ad, ONLY.
In slaves...I only ever seek those (with the same kind of integrity described above)...who would never dishonor either myself or my intended Prince and family, now or in the future...with even any hope for inappropriate contact, sexual or otherwise, or low class or otherwise trashy behavior from or around me. But will be a faithful, wholesome and true friend and servant at all times to my entire family, and circles of friends... In fact, at all times they will be instinctively protective of my and my family's reputation and purity, in a world gone mad.
I am not and never will be... a whore or promiscuous person in any way, so of course I am not interested in any sexual, erotic, kinky or other similar interaction or "roleplay" ever with slaves.
And I never have been, in more than 7 years of periodic SlaveOwning.
For me, slavery is basically a nice and expected way of enjoying being pampered, safe, taken care of, protected...and frankly, being able to get more done...while I patiently wait for my Prince.
Because of this, I am quite comfortable and happy to keep my slave or slaves forever, long after I marry and have grandchildren.
I would permit slave(s) to marry a fellow slave, if earned. And I love hearing from existing slave couples as well...as long as they are utterly wholesome and compatible to my profile. I love my slave(s) to be happy and fulfilled as well.
I am well aware that I am completely different from most "dommes". Please remember this at all times, and never try to compare me...or speak to me as one...or hope for me to be one in ANY way.
I don't know how many times I can repeat this, but there are still thickheaded souls who continue to contact me asking. I can only delete and block those now, assuming they are very disturbed and mentally ill.
I was introduced to 21st Century slaveowning completely by surprise... by literally thousands of genuine, wholesome slaves suddenly contacting me in a period of a few weeks 7 years ago now, on what I thought was a normal, wholesome, family type dating website (it turned out to be subtly "multi-community") and the clamoring slaves wrote asking to serve in whatever way I wished.
They said they like my tender heart, natural beauty and unaffected genuineness.
I'm told this is sorely lacking in most Dommes and Doms. So it leaves the natural, genuine, top quality slaves few outlets... Which makes it nice for me, because they flock to me without effort.
Why anyone in their right mind would want (or want to be) an abusive, mentally disturbed owner, I'll never understand. But they seem to be the majority, so at least those individuals can be fulfilled as well in life, I supposed...being adults and responsible for their own choices and actions.
Still, shocked at the flood of initial contacts, and not understanding that this was a whole "underground" community spanning the globe... Never having heard of this lifestyle before 7 years ago... The only thing that came to my mind was historical slavery in the Gone With the Wind style...and that of old European and Orient traditions, etc.
The thought that I could have slaves today, by their voluntary choice (and gift)...without any abuse, degradation, etc....is marvelous...
Why would I refuse...?
So I readily accepted dozens of applicants... and remain close with most of them to this day. Almost all are either still in service or wanting to be again. Since I have multiple homes and move around some, and the fact that slaves sometimes have to relocate for work...it is not always possible.
Regardless, I am only able to have genuine and deep forever relationships...whether with a slave or friend. The only reason a friendship or slavery need ever end, would be falseness or lack of integrity, or desire for it to end on the other person's part...
Yes, I do require that my slaves keep an outside job. Primarily because I am not looking to have them dependant on me financially. But also because, true slaves historically contribute to the household as well... Anything less, is only a servant, not a slave.
Feel free to apply as a servant. But do not apply as a slave if you are only a servant. Use the proper terms.
I only occasionally consider servants, and only locally...not for relocation, or live in. Exceptions can possibly be made, for truly exellent and completely trustworthy ones.
Once fully proven and screened, over time...slaves can also be eligible to serve at a very private and beautiful estate/foundation set up to help protect and relaunch very beautiful, single, always wholesome living young women who have been victims of obssessional crimes. This is just one reason why I am so particular about slaves. That and because I am very sensitive and pure living myself.
For these reasons and others, NEVER call me mistress...if you want me to respond. I detest the term, and the type. Marriage is sacred, so I certainly do not want to be confused with that type of mistress... And unfortunately the historical slavery term of a quality mistress has been maligned by the predominance of greedy, abusive and mentally disturbed women that seem predominant in the modern voluntary slave society.
Call me Miss instead...
I am also always open to finding more slaves who will make financial contributions a formal charitable foundation for relaunching the lives of innocent and beautiful women whose lives are shattered by crimes of obsession.
The women helped are NOT former dominatrix nor in any other way were ever previously even promiscuous women. They are beautiful, educated and accomplished and have always lived purely and wholesomely expecting only their own loving husband, a wholesome, secure life contributing positively and lovingly to society and, of course, a family of their own. Unfortunately, often because of the examples set and encouraged by other women... and the men who "love" them... these women found themselves innocent targets because of their beauty and gentleness.
Please know I have no desire to take unfair advantage of any slave or put anyone in a precarious position for themselves, financially or otherwise. I am clear to all that I cannot accept any funds that would put them in financial jeapardy long term or short term, and that they must make arrangements and maintain their own health care, etc. as well... They cannot expect any financial or other caretaking from me, and must ensure that long term either professionally or otherwise themselves.
This of course requires each slave to be completely mentally competent and financially and otherwise savvy, affluent and wholey and voluntarily wanting to be involved in this kind of situation for all the right reasons.
Obviously this limits who can/should reply, so I have now updated my ad to reflect this.
I particularly seek "philantrhopic" type slaves, who ideally will be hands on worker slaves as well. Though of course, I'm happy to accept "philanthropic" slaves who can only contribute financially. And will when time permits consider the rare excellent servant, who can help locally.
I will consider returning to being more flexible if and when the need arises for more worker bees than financial supporters. But for now, those who have applied who can and want to contribute significantly financially, feel it is unfair for them to do so if others come in without doing the same.
I'm making this up as I go along, taking all of these things in consideration.
Obviously for the sake of the women, I have to make common sense decisions in favor of those who can knowingly and securely contribute best overall.
Again, most importantly...do not contact me at all if you seek any type of sexual, kinky, erotic, sensual, infantile, "alternative lifestyles" or other "play" slavery. And also do not contact me if you need "training" or silly control facets. I can only delete and block such responses without comment, and turn the persistent over to my screeners.
I would think all of this was self explanatory in my ad before...but it seems not. So I have stated it clearly and repetitively now.
I seek only real life, long term or permanent, lifetime slave/servants...again, those who wish to become bonded and devoted lifelong friends.
Please be sure you are squeaky clean legally, morally and ethically also, before replying.
I've had more than one seemingly wholesome, clean cut slave regret ever contacting me when they try to surprise me with kinky and other expectations later. I am always very upfront at all times. Be so yourself, or you will be responsible for any fall out.
Fortunately, I have a team of protectors (consisting of both slaves and "vanilla" friends, legal authorities, etc, even on a federal level) that love to swoop in at such times, and put any troublemaking or deceptive "slaves" through elaborate tests and/or hard lessons, once tagged as deceptive, manipulators trying to take advantage of girls.
(Its sad but hilarious when it takes the silly "slave" or even the ocassional harassing "dom" quite a while to catch on, so intent are they on trying to con what they want out of me...they don't catch on until its too late and they are caught in a trap they set for themselves.)
I also work with the authorities whenever necessary to help patrol the world of modern slavery, for criminal elements.
Naive slaves should be aware that these sites are often used for literal human trafficking, and you could find yourself shipped overseas, over the border or entrapped even here in America by unscrupulous souls quite happy to give you what you think you seek....and force you to staff a brothel as an unpaid, entrapped slave, with no escape unless the authorities are lucky enough to find you from a tip. The courts, jails and television shows are full of such examples... So please be careful. And descretely report any who need to be reported. You never know who they may hurt, even worse... after you, if you do not.
Those who dare to bother me, definately tend not to harm other girls ever again! So its a lesson well earned, and one I feel privileged to offer. The criminals here, would be foolish to do anything but steer a wide berth around me.
That said, I now address only the most genuine, honest, trustworthy and sincere of slaves who have rock solid integrity, morals, ethics and mental health...as I do:
My Motto: A good slave is hard to find...but easy to keep!
And there is no better way on earth to find and make lifelong friends...
Let's have fun, and enjoy a beautiful life and a beautiful world together...
Brownie Points for those who can name the source of this quote:
"The greatest among you, shall be as a servant..."
God bless...
P.S.
I'm sorry, but I cannot consider anyone who uses drugs, drinks more than lightly and occasionally or has even a history of drug or alcohol, temper, or other problematic behavior of any kind. And no one with financial instability or other dependancy or mental health issues.
Thanks!
Additonally:
NO Smokers!
And NO, you cannot serve naked at any time.
Nor will I or any of the girls ever be naked, intentionally provocative, or other than completely wholesome in your presence at anytime.
Now please, only respond if you completely and wholeheartedly agree to all the terms of my ad.
When doing so, state clearly in your first email what you feel you can offer as a slave. Be specific, to show respect for my time.
I wish all on here a happy life, however they choose to live it.
For those who are hurting or confused:
1Corinthians7 17Nevertheless, each one should retain the place in life that the Lord assigned to him and to which God has called him. This is the rule I lay down in all the churches. 18Was a man already circumcised when he was called? He should not become uncircumcised. Was a man uncircumcised when he was called? He should not be circumcised. 19Circumcision is nothing and uncircumcision is nothing. Keeping God's commands is what counts. 20Each one should remain in the situation which he was in when God called him. 21Were you a slave when you were called? Don't let it trouble you—although if you can gain your freedom, do so. 22For he who was a slave when he was called by the Lord is the Lord's freedman; similarly, he who was a free man when he was called is Christ's slave. 23You were bought at a price; do not become slaves of men. 24Brothers, each man, as responsible to God, should remain in the situation God called him to.
Tiny Little Girl Child
by Shannon Spradlin
Tiny little girl child out there all alone. In a great big world where everyone is grown. Tiny little girl child why are you forlorn? Are you wondering why you were ever born? Tiny little girl child you've got the right to be, free from sex perversion, free from misery. Tiny little girl child, your spirit longs to soar. Through enchanted meadows where you will hurt no more. Tiny little girl child, you are not to blame! You are not a sex toy, doormat's not your name! Tiny little girl child, see the butterfly? Grab onto its wings child, and you'll go flying high! Tiny little girl child, let me hold your hand. I'll try to reach your heartache and help you understand. Tiny little girl child you are pure and clean. Innocent and wholesome, not a sex machine! Tiny little girl child, he stole from you today... when he took your trust and innocence away. Tiny little girl child he can't hurt you anymore... I'm standing guard now, at your bedroom door! Tiny little girl child, run along and play... Be a little girl child... we'll talk another day.
(Of course, the above poem is just as fitting for men and boys who have ever been similarly harmed.)
Another anonymous writing sent to me by a woman friend, I think is important for all on this site to read:
A son was talking to his Father... About how he felt: "I feel as if I have two wolves fighting in my heart "One wolf is vengeful, angry, perverted and violent. "The other wolf is loving, compassionate, happy and kind." "Father," the son asked... "Which one will win the fight in my heart? And the Father replied: "The one you feed..."
(Please remember, that every adult is responsible for what they feed in this world... And will surely reap what they sow...)
I also am entirely uninterested in the silly emails I occasionally get from perverts who get their panties all in a twist from my honesty here...
I say none of this to insult or prick you conscious...so if it does...take your anger, pride, and perversion out on someone else. I will only laugh briefly, then delete your email. Any who go to far, I will hand it over to a big burly subbie authorized justice official in your area to put you back in your place and put you under surveillance. A couple have been placed in jail already....its amazing how they can always find something on a pervert eventually to incarcerate them.
The most recent ones under such surveillance now are a pervert who posed as a sincere maidgirl then became vulgar with my servant girl who poses as me and handles and screens all initial email and IM contact, and one who just now wrote to say he thinks my profile is somehow deceptive or criminal. Obviously he thinks everyone is like himself.
I thought I would post this fair warning to anyone foolish enough to try this again. The amusing thing is that while under surveillance for criminal activity, the individual's live is also being toyed with in so many way that the will not be aware of until later.
So know that you are much better off keeping your comments to yourself and not contacting me at all unless you are what I seek.
God protects his princesses...and quality justice officials and other big burly real men also like to have their fun with such responders...
*smile*
Again, a final clear litmus test, for those who are considering responding to my ad:
If you think my profile photo is sexual, erotic or perverted in any way...
...do not respond.
I seek only those slaves whose minds are not corrupted.
It is an entirely innocent photo of warming up excercises in ballet.
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