amirage

It never ceases to amaze me how men behave the same no matter where they are.

Just because a man says he Dominant and a woman thinks/knows she is submissive ..does not mean that she will shed her shields of caution aside. Why would any woman after just a night of emails or a few days of conversation be willing to meet a man in a bar or for a coffee...do you think as a DOM you can will us to do what our gut says take your time get to know this person first.  PLEASE...I have lately noticed more woman having the similiar opinion ...Dont be a DUM dom woman will feel you out and need to get a sense of you. at least I will and if you expcet me to meet in anything under a month or three forget it im not that anxious to make a mistake, (unless you look like Adrian Paul)
 
I realize I yet again come off sounding very bitter and negative  but seriously  you expect us to give you of ourselves and our true deep fantasy's in a time period it take me to decide what detergent to buy.  My future  Dom or man of desire ...you had better learn how to EARN that right ..Submission should be seen as a gift to men. 

Some day maybe I can enter a more light hearted entry but sheesh fellows ....think about it at least will ya ....OR you may force all woman to take a Domme role just to get you all on right track then where will we all be ? ( that was a joke...or was it?)

Well it has been an interesting start in learning what things are all about.   I appreciate all the offers and help given to start my journey.  I have learned that no matter what community  you are in some things never change.

So let me clarify a few things.

I am not interested in an online experience  it would do nothing for me.  So if you are from another country, Thanks for considering me but I am not interested.

If you are bi male, or are a dom male that has several slaves /subs I am not interested.  I love the one on one and all it means. Other wise I couldn't give all of myself to you in a meaningful way. If your profile reads you are a sadist I will run!

If your hello reads like a blog that is sent to every name you see...I will not be impressed.  I believe in a personal touch. And frankly its a bit insulting!

If you say  "you sound like a great f*** or I will love to **** you."  Sorry I don't know you and you have no business talking to me like that without even a hello or an established  interest.

Lastly if you write me  a long poem that is obviously used on all woman I might find it unique enough to answer you however ..Sometimes my answers are brief because I am still nervous or on my way out, but if I respond no matter how brief and you acuse me of being stuck up or to boring then there is no need to reply back to me in a cruel way (you may know who you are) very uncool.

I have no desire to be insulted as part of my experience and I  have enough smarts to not fall for the typical lines. If you want me to  seriously consider you as a real dom be real, be respectful and alittle humor can go along way in easing ones nerves..

I do love attention, I do love passion and I do think there are aspects I could be very addicted to and willing to try...but I can't reveal all that to you after one hello I need to establish a trust  and a sense of your being to enter that type of conversation.

I am my own person and I get to decide who I give my experience to. I won't be told that you are the one.

Sorry if this has been a bit negative but as I said  I have realized no matter what community you go to some things never change. No matter where you are I feel everyone deserves respect in their  conversations.

Thanks again to the Men who have said hello and given me a chance to pace myself ..sometimes with fewer words and less pressure, one makes a larger gesture to one  searching.