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About AlyxCT
I'm looking for submissive and masochistic women only. Details below. Please read all of this carefully before writing to me if you want to convince me you are worth my time and effort.
First: no men. I am not looking for men. I will not even answer your mail. Don't waste your time.
No smokers. No drugs.
I'm not looking for a kinky slut and am not seeking a girlfriend. If you're just in it for hot sex, go somewhere else. Sex may or may not be included, but it's not anywhere near the top of the list. My interests are dominance and sadism.
I'm looking for someone younger than me, shorter than me, and
height/weight proportionate but not too skinny. Limited experience is okay, but you should have enough to be certain of your interests. Young is fine; immature is not. And did I mention: NO MEN!
I'm not looking for a 24/7 relationship or anything live-in in the near future. I am also not interested in an online relationship. I am looking for someone geographically close enough to meet in person. That means the NYC area or able to travel there easily. I live outside the city but travel there monthly or more often. I would want to meet in person early on to determine whether the necessary chemistry exists between us.
I am not interested in anyone who can't manage her own life and wants me to do it for her. If you're a student, that's fine, and I would understand being unemployed in this economy, but have a plan for your life that does not involve me financially supporting you.
Still reading? Very good.
I'm looking for either of two things:
(1) The easy: casual dates for public play in NYC involving some combination of pain, bondage, and sensual teasing. If you just want to get tied up and spanked or beaten, and have a high enough pain tolerance to amuse a sadist, I'd enjoy getting together just for a little fun at a club. Sex is not included. Be warned that I play rough; you really need to enjoy pain. If this is all you want, skip down to the "if you're going to write to me" bit at the bottom of this profile.
(2) The difficult: a woman who is interested in undergoing formal training in elegant service and ritual submission. You need to understand submission not simply as passivity or getting "done to" but as a form of active surrender requiring inner strength, discipline, and a degree of initiative. While this would certainly involve all of the classic trappings of BDSM, including intense pain, bondage, and some degree of sensual to sexual interaction, the goal is to make of yourself a work of physical and mental art and beauty as well. This would include movement and position training, voice and eye contact limits, and possibly Victorian dress, corsets, and/or costumes. My aesthetic preference is for a feminine style and long hair, but you need not be drop-dead gorgeous.
Since this requires a great deal of personal interaction and conversation, I'm looking for someone intelligent and articulate, with interests outside the scene, and who has read a book since graduating high school. If I can't get through dinner with you without getting bored, this won't work.
I don't invite people to my home in the short term, and I like to show off my partners, so you need to be willing to play in public in a club context and able to concentrate in that atmosphere.
If you're going to write to me about either of these possibilities:
Don't send me a nude photo of yourself. I don't care how hot your body is. If you're within my general physical parameters, I'm much more curious about your mind at this stage.
Don't call me Mistress or any other title. We haven't got a relationship yet.
Don't mangle the English language or employ cute abbreviations or use a small "i" or the third person to refer to yourself. Letters along the lines of "i want u to beet me hard, lol" will turn me off immediately. Just use normal language and capitalization.
Don't send a one-line email. Tell me about yourself and what you're looking for and why my profile appeals to you. Lengthy is fine.
Don't tell me you'll do anything. That makes you sound either desperate or stupid, and I'm not interested in either.
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