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I am a very intelligent (and street smart), over-educated, engaging and fun, successful professional man. I am seeking an intelligent, curious, fun submissive, female partner. I consider myself well-read, well-traveled, creative and artistic. I am seeking a submissive woman with similar attributes to mine. I am very picky. You should be, too. For me intelligence (plus trust) is the highest priority in a D/s or BDSM relationship. I believe this unique kind of relationship demands more smarts, understanding and communication than any other relationship. I do not mean that I expect my submissive partner to possess a PhD, or any sort of higher formal education. Street smarts and common sense often are just as important (if not more so) than a formal education. However, I just know for me that I need to be with a highly intelligent woman. She needs to "get it" when it comes to dominance and submission and TPE, and she needs be able to carry on an intelligent conversation about many topics and issues and have some wider ranges of life experiences. I consider myself eclectic, with undergraduate degrees in History of Art, Studio Art, and Pre-Architecture and a graduate degree in Economics. I can also be disarmingly, charming, and lasciviously clever in all the right ways.......Oh, and don't be fooled by appearances. The "straight arrow" Boy Scout look is just how the "rest of the world" knows me. I have a very dark and taboo side that is the alter ego to my external, seemingly proper, day time identity and appearance. I live and work in Annapolis, MD. I am seeking a relationship with a submissive. We all lead busy and complicated lives. I recognize that we often have to make allowances for the other demands in our lives, so I understand if sometimes I cannot have as much time with a submissive as I would like. I am also open to the possibility of someone who just wants to learn more and explore new territory or a newbie that wants to be trained. As for my own wishes, I want to become skilled at rope play and edge play. I am also looking forward to experimenting with my new suspension bar and wrist suspension cuffs....It would be a helluva lot of fun to explore their use with the right woman.... I think all of us here on CM certainly understand the complicated needs those of us in this "lifestyle" (or whatever you want to call this) and realize it is an integral part of us. And that it is often difficult to satisfy our myriad of physical, emotional and mental desires and needs, and that for some people it is impossible to find everything in one single relationship. So I remain open-minded to the possibility a woman may seek a secondary relationship with me while maintaining a primary conventional relationship. I am also open to either an experienced or inexperienced submissive. I do very much enjoy breaking in and training a newbie sub. The process of learning each other's desires and needs and pushing her limits can be exhilarating. I have been in Dom/sub relationships on and off for about 10 years. I am by no means an expert nor the perfect Dom. (I would rarely claim to be that for many things in life, except certain things related to art or sports) But I know my way around D/s... (and around the inside of your head). My favorite expression is: "A mind fuck is a terrible thing to waste" ;-) For me a sense of humor is also an absolute prerequisite. Curiosity and adventurousness are huge bonuses. Having a proclivity for, or an interest in, exploring or increasing your knowledge or at least curiosity about discipline and bondage including mental bondage, humiliation, objectification, ropes, restraints, spanking, whipping, flogging, eye contact restrictions, orgasm control, and role play are highly desirable. A great smile (when not experiencing pain) is another desirable trait. I took the time to answer most of the likes and dislikes questions even though it seemed endless! And in some cases the questions were really ambiguous and painstaking. And it is waaaaayyyyy too long a list! But between my likes and dislikes and my journal entries, I think you will get a good sense of who I am and what I am looking for.
6/15/2011 4:11:10 AM

PART 1 - Something I would like to do with a woman sometime.....

you had gone to the Shenandoah Valley with two girl friends and you were staying in a little cabin you had rented far back in the woods, right on the shore of the Shenandoah River. I was camping just under a mile away. On Friday afternoon, I was taking a walk through the woods when I spied you for the first time. you and your two friends were sitting on the deck by the shore of the river. you were reclined on a chez lounge, your lithe body stretched out on the chez. Each soft delicate curve of your body clearly defined in the glistening and bright sunlight. you were reading a fashion magazine and sunbathing. I silently watched you from the cover of the woods focusing on the rise and fall of the swells of your scrumptious breasts, accentuated by the cut of your swimsuit, as you breathed slowly in and out, over and over. I couldn't take My eyes off your breasts. My mind raced. My cock became erect while watching you. I knew at that moment I had to have you as Mine.

I began planning.

Every few hours I would walk around scouting your cabin and make note of the number of people and the number of cars, as well as their comings and goings. There were only 2 cars but there were three of you, so I knew 2 of you had come in the same car and one of you had driven alone. I hoped and prayed the one who'd driven alone was you.

The thought crossed My mind to try to take all three of you at night while you were all sleeping. your friends were gorgeous and nearly as desirable as you, but it was you I wanted, and I didn't want to be greedy and risk I'd lose My chance at you. If your friends left before you, I'd have My chance. And if I tried to overpower all three of you at night and failed, then I'd lose My chance at you.

I researched the rental propery management company that rented the cabin, and learned who owned it and when it would be available next. I deduced all I needed to know from the two phone calls I made.

 I noticed you seemed to be the alpha female and were behaving in ways that hinted at you being the hostess, so My instincts were you'd leave last, making sure the place was left as it needed to be for the cabin owners.

So I waited. And watched. And hoped. I even masturbated several times while watching you from afar, way back under the cover of darkness of the woods, and also back at My campsite. Once or twice I was lucky enough to catch glimpses of you completely naked walking to and from the hot tub late at night after the three of you had drunk a lot of wine and were feeling loose and relaxed and immodest. Once even I'd caught a glimpse of you standing in front of the dressing mirror in your bedroom after a shower, just admiring your own body in the mirror. And it was certainly worthy of admiration. My cock immediately became hard and remained so until you disappeared into the interior quarters to rejoin your friends.

I knew what I wanted to do to you once I captured you and had you for two full days at My mercy. My mouth watered. I perspired out of excitement. My breathing hastened.

Sunday afternoon came around, and I figured you would be driving back to the city soon. I knew all three of you were city girls by how well you took carried yourselves, by the obviousness of how well you took care of yourselves, the clothes you wore, the way you put on makeup every day no matter that you were in the country for several days, the cars you drove, the activities you engaged in.

I waited and watched. And waited.

Then I saw your friends begin loading one car together, while you loaded the other one by yourself. My heart skipped a beat. My instincts had been right. Now I just had to hope beyond hope I had calculated correctly that you would linger after your friends had departed. Then I could isolate you.....

I watched as you gave each other hugs and kisses in the driveway and said your goodbyes. your smile was vibrant, the sunlight glistened off your hair. When each of you embraced each other, I became turned on. My mind drifted again to the idea of capturing all three of you. But I restrained my enthusiasm and ambition.

As they pulled out of the driveway, you watched them drive off until they vanished beyond the curve in the road, and then you disappeared back into the house.

When you reappeared on the deck, you were wearing a swimsuit again and holding a glass of wine. You reclined on the chez again. I watched you lying out, your body fully extended, sipping your wine, enjoying a few moments alone with nature and the silence before heading back to the city. you were relaxing, unwinding, clearing your head, taking in the views and the quiet solitude.

Little did you know I was lurking just yards away in the woods, watching you, ready to make My move. your life was about to change. It would never be the same. The next two days would be the most terrifying, and possibly the most exciting and thrilling, you'd ever known. If you only knew what lay ahead for you for the next 48 hours, My captive.

6/15/2011 3:49:25 AM

After her first spanking by me, we took off all our clothes and lay down together in my bed. She needed to feel more comfortable and relaxed with me so she would be able to let herself go and orgasm for me while I spanked her. We lay side by side completely naked and just talked. The mounds of her luscious 36DD breasts laying fully exposed as she lay on her back excited and aroused me. My erection grew to full size just gazing at her body and talking with her. I knew she was feeling a similar state of arousal by the sight of her very hard and erect nipples. So I rolled over toward her and lying on my side I whispered in her ear, "Are you wet, sub?" And she replied, "oh, yes, Sir, I most certainly am." To which I replied, "How wet? Shall I inspect you?" To which she replied, "Oh,  very wet, Sir. Yes, please, inspect me." So I slowly slid my hand down to her smoothly recently waxed pussy to inspect how wet she was and I was extremely pleased to feel that she was indeed completely drenched and dripping wet to my touch. I began fingering her pussy and clit, to which her body and mind immediately reacted. I instructed her to lie p[perfectly still and keep her hands where they were and not to cum until I gave her permission.  I continued fingering her clit and pussy as she moaned and yelled and screamed my name and begged for permission to cum. Meanwhile, I took my hard cock in my own hand and stroked it while I fingered her clit. She begged more and more insistently that she had to cum but only when I was ready to cum did I tell her, "OK, sub, I want you to cum right now!" And she immediately complied and her juices gushed from her as waves of orgasms flowed through her entire body and I could feel the contractions of her pussy with my fingers. But I did not stop just because she had cum once and it hurt her to cum more. I kept fingering her and told her over and over, "Cum again for me now!" Which she did repeatedly over and over and over again and again and again each time begging me to stop but then begging me to allow her to cum. This continued throughout the night each time I felt like making her cum for me. IN the morning, she asked for another spanking. With her over my knee and using only my bare hand, I gradually built up from a slow gentle spanking to one that was so hard both her bottom and my hand hurt and turned red and she cried and begged me to stop but never invoked her safe word, meaning she wanted me to continue despite her mock protestations. And so I did until she both cried and came simultaneously. After she was done shaking and after the aftershocks of multiple orgasms, she looked at me and asked, "may I please you now, Master?" Nodding my head and smiling, I said, "Would you like to please me with your ass or your mouth, sub?" To which she replied, "I would like to have my mouth and throat used for your pleasure and I would like you to give me your cum in my mouth, Master. And I want to learn to be able to swallow all of your cum." And so once on her knees, I stood and presented her with my hard cock, already the tip wet with pre-cum. She sucked and stroked my cock simultaneously, and then I joined her in stroking it with my hand while holding the back of her head with my other hand, first allowing her to softly and slowly suck my cock, and then throatfucking her and making her deepthroat my entire cock until she gagged and her eyes watered. When I was nearly ready to cum, as my orgasm approached, and as we stroked my shaft together while she sucked on the head of my cock, I slowly withdrew my cock from her mouth until it was only a few inches away from her open, waiting mouth and while we both continued to stroke my hard thick shaft I shot load after load of my hot cum through the air between the tip of my cock and her mouth and into her mouth filing it and covering her tongue with my cum, only some of it dribbling down her chin. Explosion after explosion of cum erupted from my cock, 5, 6 then 7 ejaculations, more than I had ever cum before, and once I was finished shooting my cum into her mouth I told her, "You may swallow now my lovely slutty little sub." And she obliged and then took my cock into her mouth one more time to finish sucking it completely drain it of every drop of my cum. As she smiled up at me directly into my eyes as I had instructed her to do, I smiled down at her and said, "Good girl. You have pleased me very much." And she licked the last of my cum from her lips and chin. Shortly thereafter, we made coffee and relaxed in bed for a while, soon to begin all over again. And thus went our first encounter....

2/21/2011 10:49:00 AM

 

A past real life experience-- We met in person for the first time at a coffee shop near my place. She had driven quite a distance to meet me. I was flattered and very pleased. The anticipation had been building up for a long while during our phone conversations, emails and IM chatting. Would we both be equally attracted to one another, as much as we felt we would be after weeks of correspondence? Would the chemistry be as strong as it had been through our correspondence? It was early afternoon when she knocked on my front door. As soon as I opened the door, and we both made eye contact for the first time, we knew "it" was there. We walked a few blocks to my favorite coffee shop, where we sipped coffee and chatted for a while, listening to the sound of each other's voices, enjoying the physical presence, looking into one another's eyes, and of course discussing her deep-seated craving for spankings and bottom beatings. I was a novice and she wanted to make certain I was willing, able and interested in providing what she needed. She explained her needs and experiences in great detail. I became turned on just hearing what she needed and visualizing how it would play out. She explained all the ways she would want to please her dominant after he administered a good bottom spanking, and these excited me further. After coffee, we walked back to my place and I invited her in to continue our conversation. We sat in the livingroom for a while longer just looking at each other and trying to talk, but clearly our minds were elsewhere. So I asked her if she would like me to spank her just to see how it would feel, and she immediately accepted. We walked up the stairs to my bedroom, whereupon I instructed her to slip off her skirt and panties and bend over the bed. She did as instructed and lay bare her lovely ass for me to spank. We began with just a bare-handed spanking, accelerating and rapidly increasing in firmness until she was ready to orgasm from the spanking. She yelled and cried and said she was about to cum. I had never made a submissive cry and orgasm from a spanking alone. This was a phenomenal sensation and revelation. I was ready to make this happen for her. But she was not ready to do this with me yet, so she invoked her safe word and I stopped. Her bottom was a lovely shade of red. Her face was flushed. And much to my surprise and delight, I was fully aroused and erect. We took a break and talked and recovered and relaxed, fully expecting that she would leave and go to her friend's house nearby and that would be all for our first encounter......But she changed her mind, called her friend to offer regrets, and she stayed the entire night.....And everything dramatically progressed throughout the evening and all night long....More and more spankings and beatings, orgasm control, begging, and superior oral submission and service. She did indeed like to please her Dom if he gave her the kind of spanking she craved and brought her to extreme pain and orgasm simultaneously. And in the process, I began my training as a hard impact spanking aficionado and she began her training to become the perfect oral submissive and to pursue her desire to please me anally, each of us seeking better and better ways to perfect our respective abilities....to our mutual pleasure and satisfaction....

2/16/2011 11:08:53 AM
Ok. Now I simply must say something to all the so-called Dom men out there who keep looking at my profile. I can definitely sympathize with the women here on CM. How utterly annoying and ridiculous (not to mention disgusting) it is when a Dom man has a close up photo of his cock as his primary profile photo and "blesses" me with it once he visits my profile and becomes one of the people who recently viewed me. Now I know what the women here on CM have to put up with. Is it really that hard (pun intended) to post a face shot (real or substituted) rather than a close up photo of your dick? Come on guys. Have some class, or at least some imagination! PS- it's really not that attractive or impressive
1/31/2011 6:52:27 PM
She let herself in the door to the hotel suite. There was a tumbler of Makers on the rocks on the side table by the door waiting for her. Next to the tumbler were a pair of black leather wrist restraints with stainless steel buckles, a pair of black leather ankle restraints with stainless steel buckles, a black leather "training" collar with stainless loop, and a set of nipple clamps on a stainless steel chain. Beside them was a note written in His handwriting. "Welcome, my dear. I hope your trip was uneventful. Enjoy the drink, and remove all your clothes except for the corset, garter belt, thigh-highs and heels. And put these items on for me. I'm waiting for you in the bedroom." Through the partially open bedroom door she could see something hanging from the ceiling. She couldn't quite make out the details but she saw enough of the supporting chain and a horizontal bar with steel rings to have a pretty good idea what it was. Her pulse quickened. Her breathing became heavier. She felt herself begin to moisten. She took a long pull on the bourbon to calm her nerves and moderate her excitement. She slowly began to undress following His instructions to the letter. She had worn precisely what he had instructed. The feel on her skin of the warm, soft leather of the wrist and ankle restraints increased her excitement. Her pulse quickened yet more. She needed another pull of the bourbon before continuing. When she placed the leather collar around her own neck, she thought she would orgasm right then and there. She knew what awaited her. When all her clothes were removed, save what he specified she keep on, and the accessories were securely attached and firmly fastened, she took one more pull of the bourbon and began walking slowly toward the bedroom door, which was slightly ajar. She heard Him say, "Hello, kitten. It's been far too long." Her knees quivered and her pussy pulsed as she began pushing the door to the bedroom open....She could already feel her juices begin to flow just at the sound of His voice. "My God, she though to herself, I'm already cumming!"..... She pushed the door all the way open and her heart skipped a beat when she saw what awaited her....
1/26/2011 2:08:11 PM

She liked to be pushed to the edge and have her limits tested. She needed to push the envelope. She lived for it. But some things just simply made her very nervous. No, actually they terrified her. Among them sharp knives held near her naked exposed body, and anything at all wrapped around her neck--strong hands, a silk necktie, and especially a rope. But the closer T/they became, the more comfortable she felt in HIS hands and the more she trusted HIM without hesitation. She now trusted HIM unequivocally. She knew HE would always protect and cherish her and respect her hard limits when she let HIM know HE was approaching them. She liked, no make that deeply and thoroughly desired, that HE push her to her limits now. HE had introduced her to anal sex. And now she craved it. HE had introduced her to hot wax play. And now she loved it. HE had taught her to be able to swallow all of HIM. And now she considered it a great accomplishment and talent. HE had introduced her to gags. And now she relished them. HE had introduced her to heavy impact spanking and paddling and caning. And now she lived for HIM doing those to her, almost above all else. So, when HE kneeled behind her, blindfolded and gagged her, and thrust deep inside her and slowly slipped the thick, soft, smooth rope around her neck and grabbed a fistful of her long flowing hair, she did not panic. She trusted HIM implicitly and was ready to entrust HIM with this new test of her limits, nay, with EVERYTHING. They had discussed this before now. It had always excited her but made her very nervous and apprehensive. But as HE tightened the rope around her neck, and lifted her up slightly by both the rope and her hair, causing her back to arch up and back toward HIM, and her ass to thrust back toward HIM, the resultant deeper penetration of HIS cock and the thrill of the tightness around her neck, made her dizzy with excitement and arousal, literally and figuratively. HIS penetration was further than ever before, and as HE raised her up and continued tightening HIS grip, and as HE thrust deeply and forcefully, she surrendered to it completely and quickly accelerated toward.....

1/20/2011 8:55:24 AM

I have had several inquiries regarding the women shown in some of my profile photos. No. The ones in public settings are not my subs, past or present. They are just good friends. (and one is a former vanilla GF from a long, long time ago in a far and distant galaxy) The other more explicit photos of women serving me are of past submissives

1/11/2011 2:15:24 PM

Spanking and punishment---She needed a severe spanking. It had been far too long for her. Her craving for it ate at her deepest feelings and needs. We retired to my bedroom. I told her to remove her shoes, socks, pants and panties and after complying I then lay her over the edge of the bed. Using only my hand alone I began a steady hard beating of her ass. She was surprised at how strong and firm my hand was. She asked for it harder and faster and I complied. She soon approached orgasm but used her safe word to make me stop. She was not ready to orgasm with me yet. She did not know me well enough. I became very hard administering her spanking. It was the first time I had administered a spanking to a true spanko. I was pleased to discover how hard it made me. And how much she wanted more....faster, harder, longer and with objects....Later that night she would cum to just my spanking....

 

Orgasm control---Then later lying in bed naked next to each other, she reached down to feel if I was hard. When she discovered that I was, I reached down to see how wet she was and found she was incredibly wet and was quivering. Fingering her slowly but firmly, I instructed her not to cum until I said she was allowed. As I continued fingering her she moaned and begged and pleaded for me to allow her to cum, but I refused to allow her. Then as I began to approach orgasm, I whispered in her ear, "Would you like to cum for me now? Are you ready to cum." And she replied, "Oh God yes please PLEASE, Sir, may I cum now??!! PLEASE, Sir. PLEASE!!!???" But I made her wait yet longer as I continued fingering her harder and faster and deeper.....And then I said, "Cum now!! Cum for me now, sub!" And she did. Over and over and over. But I kept fingering her after despite her appeals that I stop and grabbing my hand in mock resistance. Until I wanted her to orgasm again for me and I said, "Cum again for me NOW!" And she did, again and again and again. Next time I will make her wait longer....

 

And then I was ready for her to please me, so I made her get on her knees on the floor as I sat on the edge of the bed and grabbed the back of her head....And she and I stroked together as she sucked and caressed and took all of me in.....to completion....

9/15/2010 4:27:04 PM

I recently released my sub from service after many great months. Her husband was no longer willing to allow our relationship to continue. At first he was very pleased with what she was learning and their previously sexless marriage became rejuvenated. But eventually the green-eyed jealousy monster reared it's ugly head I guess, and he no longer was comfortable with her being with me. So I had to release her much to our mutual disappointment. I am seeking a new sub, experienced or inexperienced.

6/9/2010 6:20:29 AM
The sub is being trained in perfecting her oral skills. She had very limited experience. She has become excellent at making me hard using her mouth. She no longer gags when taking it all the way down her throat. She can nearly deep throat while being required to never take her eyes off mine. She also learned to swallow cum for the first time. Though she was apprehensive she has become very good at this skill. She knows it pleases me very much. It now verges on a talent of hers. She is also ready to be bound now that total trust has been achieved
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 Age: 32
 Longmont, Colorado