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Sakura

catsage

Female Dominant, 39, Brentwood, Tennessee
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About catsage

Submissive looking for creative, intelligent, thoughtful dom for whom integrity and honesty are not foreign concepts. Please don't contact me if you are married, unless you are in an open and/or poly relationship or you are looking for a sub to play with together. Relationships are very important to me; I am longing for a meaningful relationship that will help me fulfill my potential and really understand who and what I am as a submissive. That relationship must be polyamorous: I have a life partner, and am open to other loving relationships.

I don't play games, and I don't do drama. I am a competent, confident professional, and I keep my kink life separate from my vanilla life...no plans to change that. I do participate in the bdsm community through parties, classes, clubs, events, etc., and would expect a partner to be at least that "out." Did I mention intelligent? You don't have to have a PhD, but be well-read and interested in the life of the mind. Call me picky, but spelling and grammar do count for something. I possess, and greatly appreciate, a wicked and agile sense of humor. I am very curvy -- an hourglass figure of generous proportion. Please live within a reasonable distance--I am not interested in cyber or long-distance; I find the whole idea of a cyber relationship oxymoronic.

Given the limited choices, I selected 'straight' as my sexual orientation; I am, however, heteroflexible--I just lean towards the straight side of the spectrum. I have been in the lifestyle for five years, so consider myself to be of limited experience--bdsm is surely one of the steeper learning curves! I am a terrific bottom; patient and enthusiastic, collaborative and responsive; but I have never been in a d/s relationship of any depth or duration. I enjoy new experiences, but as stated above I am interested in experiencing them within the context of a d/s relationship--not just play. I look forward to making your acquaintance and seeing what the potential might be...

p.s. - Just a note to let those of you who are writing to me know that I may not respond to your email right away.  I'm not being rude (many of you seem terribly traumatized by your lack of replies), but the volume is pretty ridiculous.  Also, you can be sure that I will know whether or not you actually read my profile; if your email is full of misspellings and is so poorly written that it is painful for me to read it, you can expect a quick "no thanks."  I'm sounding very toppy, aren't I? Let's think of it as having high expectations for the man to whom I may pledge my submission--I take that pretty seriously, so if I need to be a toppy, demanding bitch sometimes, so be it. 

 

p.p.s. -  I am NOT interested in relocating.  Spontaneity and lots of contact are very important to me, so I am very unlikely to be interested in a long distance relationship. 

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