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| I've often suppressed my gender fluidity. I haven't let many know it's a part of me so far in life. I've been thinking about it more as of late. I'm surprised fluid isn't an option here, though. Recently I've been learning more about the concept of a "boi", and although I tend to hear many different answers on it, it's also something I feel I need to learn about.
I don't know if anything will come of this. I've been out of work for a little while now and I've spent some of the spare time introspective while waiting on results for new possibilities.
I still have to learn the way it makes my mind tick, and what would be the optimal way to embrace it, so if you come in with expectations that are too high I probably can't meet them.
Just looking for people to talk with in general. I don't expect anything to result, but I'm not closed off to the idea of whatever may happen. Your own gender situation won't have any baring on if I talk to you or not. It's not what defines a person in the slightest. You can only find that in the mind.
I'll be bluntly honest though, I am not comfortable enough yet to directly attach a picture of me to a profile on a site like this. That's something that is going to take me more time and adjustment.
On a late addendum if you're looking to "ruin my wallet", too bad; I don't have anything I can afford to spend on random online profiles some of which are probably just robots if I even had the desire to. This site does seem to get a fair bit quieter when you hide all the "findommes"...
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So many people making preemptive demands long before they prove they're remotely real... Is this truly the way CM does it's business?
Submission is something that is earned and not demanded... The ones who give in to the demands immediately are just into it to get off and nothing more, it's simply used as a cheap sexual outlet, and that's why nothing comes of it. The more you demand of someone legitimate before they even know you, the less inclined they will ever be to ever give in to those demands.
Has it really gotten so broken that almost no one seems to understand such basic facts anymore? Respect is something to earn, it isn't freely given to people just because they slap a random Dominant title on themselves. You want the respect of someone who's in it for more than just to get off? A good first step is actually treating them like they have a mind of their own. Sure, eventually if things progress they may wish to freely give that willfulness to you, but it is no one's right whatsoever to make such demands from people they have done nothing to earn it from.
Freely acknowledging titles without the necessary respect first just demeans and cheapens everything it's supposed to be about. If one calls everyone they run into by "Master" or "Mistress"... Where is the worth of their words? It becomes hollow and drone-like, and every time it's overused, the meaning is cheapened even further until it's so stale the words lose any shred of sense or value. It's something you see mostly done by... The people who just want to get off. Shocking, isn't it?
It makes me wonder what many supposed Dominants (And this isn't including the "FinDommes") are actually around for, though. So many of them immediately demand so much that few who take their submissiveness with any remote level of seriousness or self-respect will ever comply. Are they trying to draw the textspeakers who can barely put a coherent thought of their own together, as opposed to what they are claiming to want? Sadly in most cases, I think that answer is pretty obvious. How is any actual submissive supposed to know they want to serve someone before they even know them? Hint: It's impossible. |
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| Age: 28 |
| Denver,
Colorado |
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