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AlanTES1

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About AlanTES1

Attorney and long-time member of the S/M leather community and sexual freedom activist. Part of a poly couple. I'm 31. She's 42.

We both enjoy switching. This means we both enjoy playing either top or bottom, depending on who we're playing with. It opens up many different experiences.

We're always looking to meet new play partners; both novice and experienced. We play together or separately; but always with each other's knowledge and consent. We've been into s/m and the swing lifestyle for nearly a decade. Hence if you're someone new into the scene or been around the block, we're interested in getting to know you.

So, if you're looking for a relaxed and laid-back play partner, drop me a line and let's see what happens.

Ok, if you describe yourself as "ultra hot", "super intelligent" and "unbelievably sexy", and you're still looking for a "worthy enough" partner, this may explain why after all these years, you just cant seem to find anyone. You may want to reconsider your description of yourself.  You may also want to try adding a little bit of modesty to your self-image and profile. 

I understand that many of the Pro-Dommes haveto put up an image to sell to portential clients, but there comes a point when the egocentric, fantasy self-important bullshit profiles are just too much.  You might want to consider a reality check.

Ran into someone from my past on this list who has a long history of trouble with relationships.  Of course, it's always the other person's fault or some problem with them that makes them unacceptable.   It NEVER has anything to do with her.
While I understand that its very difficult to find intelligent and sincere people on this site and in the s/m community; if you have impossible standards, you're always going to be looking.  Relationships are about compromise, not fitting into cookie cutters.

Ok... I must remember the rule... When a supposedly 19 year-old girl contacts you and claims they are looking for guidance from someone in the S/M scene; It's a guy wh is wasting your time. Ah well... 1 hour of my life lost.
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