Hello, thank you for wanting to know more about me. I am a big guy if this is a problem for you then it is. Like many people I am always watching what I eat,but that mainly consists of watching food go into my mouth. I enjoy getting to know the people I play with. I do take the time to know you, to know your hopes and fears. To talk to you about what it is that makes you hot and what made you want to contact me. I am Married and intend to stay that way, I play with her permission and so you will need to be secure enough to meet my wife and have her approve you. If this is a problem then I am not for you. I am looking for a playmate, so let me tell you what that is for me. Someone with whom I can practice with, what did I just say? That's right I am a Dom that thinks he still needs to practice. We would meet as often as both of our schedules allow. I would love to be able to play everyday but that is just not practical for me or most I would imagine. I am looking for someone fairly close with whom I can play with, mentor, befriend, or just get to know in the way that is unique within this lifestyle. I am open to anything anyone has to offer. Within my personal limits of course. How does that song go? I'm always willing to learn if you have something to teach. 100pts if you know who sings it.;) I am open and honest and know how to play within limits. We will make the rules together and both become better people for having experienced good, fun, hot, sexy, playful times together. But now the choice is up to you. If you are interested in me then now is the time that you have all of the control. Will you write me? I guess I will find out soon enough. Signing off with one of my favorite saying. "If he doesn't spank me then how will I know it's wrong?" Alan