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AlabasterFemme

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AlabasterFemme - Female Dominant, DC Metro Maryland | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About AlabasterFemme


"Step into my parlor," said the Spider to the fly. Are you genuine? Intelligent? Polished?

I've been consciously dominating men for a long time. A special moment was when I forced an upper classman to beg to suck my toes when I had a broken ankle. I was in the car with my cast propped up on the open window, my father was inside the hardware store, and this boy had to beg on his knees before I allowed him the privilege of toe worship. I was 15.

Off the cuff, I'm not easily defined. I'm smart, act and appear very conventional, am skillful in the use of restraint....errrr, conversational details. Conversational details, yes, that's it. *S* Those that know me well find my creativity helplessly magnetic. Some things are beyond conscious control...I love erotic teasing, watching that blush creep into his cheeks, making him beg for something he wants so much, and then, beg some more. Enjoying the companionship of someone to escort me while I
shop for rope to add to my impressive collection, watching his reaction as I pick up this or that, and whispering in his ear to tease him a little more about what I might do--it all makes for an incredible day!

It's the gray matter that catches my attention and the wavier, the better. I'm attracted to articulate, expressive, talented men. Entice me, attract my eye and hold my interest.....
The following is a strict point. I don't want to be remotely involved with a married, separated, in the process of divorcing, or un/happily married man. Don't approach me in the midst of a midlife crisis. Clearly, I am seeking a well balanced, emotionally healthy individual.
I insist on unstinting honesty. I understand the difference between a response and an answer and will pin you to the wall to get the answers to my questions. Now, if I haven't made you run for your reasons or mine, feel free to continue reading.
Sexual identity is important, and, BDSM isn't the sum total of my life. I have a lifelong interest in Classical Art, the Renaissance and Baroque periods being my favorite. I've been known to drift into Bonwit's to try on furs just for the fun of it (only Blackglama will do). An entertaining afternoon might be browsing the stacks at Borders, taking in the Baltimore waterfront, exploring Embassy Row, or driving through ritzy neighborhoods and comparing different architectural styles... Daytrips for crabbing, whitewater rafting, and the occasional live hockey game are but the tip of the iceberg.
I am competitive, very skilled in my occupation and I temper that with compassion and an ability to cut straight to the bottom line. I like being able to solve a problem while maintaining diplomacy and keeping the lines of communication open.
I'm a very strong extrovert, intuitive, perceptive, analytical and have a sharp wit. At the moment, this is feeling more like a resume than an introduction....*smiling* If you have the interest, take the time to connect. I'm looking for someone with whom sharing laughter is a natural high because the chemistry is terrific! Ciao.

If you're local to the DC Metro area, you may be interested in ClubFEM, an organized grouping of like-minded adults who are either dominant women or submissive men.  If you are curious, write me and I'll be happy to share the information with you.   I invite you to check it out.  If you're interested, do take the time to follow the application instructions.  Best wishes!

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