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I moved to California a couple of years ago and I love it here. Now I'd like to find someone cool and kinky to get to know it better with and explore all sorts of BDSM activities as well.

I'm originally from Britain but I spent almost a dozen years in Chicago making videogames. I'm a geeky laid-back guy who never fell out of love with a lot of things from my youth - one landlord called my apartment a cross between NASA and Disneyland. One nice thing about living an easy life is it makes the grown-up decisions clearer. I'm a bit of an introvert but there are plenty of things I just enjoy doing a lot more with someone else. Sushi, movies and strolling along under the sky would be three examples. Life is much more fun with a co-pilot. I've been into BDSM as long as I can remember but not had much chance to play. My last girlfriend was into it for a while and we tried some stuff but I'd love to do much more. You have to know each other as people before the trust is there and the play can really work, I think.