just a few more things i wish to say ... to elaborate on - humm, what to say, am ....

well me for starters.... a strong woman with a personallity- it is / was my choice to submit - to be a ... brat, pet, bottom, submissive, slave, switch (if required), slutling - a little of all of the above possably.... but feel most comfortable with the label slave - many have very differing views on the subject, though its only ones Owner's view that would really count in my opinion. As i am not owned by anyone but myself right now i shall do my best to make up my own mind in the meantime, chukkles

What am i looking for....

friendships, a Mentor, intelligent conversations .... to provide and have a nice time together with someone (which form that may take is yet  undecided), maybe.... who knows to be a playpartner or possably to be a friend with benefits - i  have been owned before both as live in slave and as so called part time property - and possably will be again over time maybe, if it is wished for - though would possably need to be retrained again first; to get back into the shape / the headspace of feeling and / or being worth to be owned 24/7 again - when that is the case then would be proud and happy to serve again as property.

respectful, yet can and will be a dragon in the defense and to protect those she cares about and loves - not miss twiggy - nor a spring-chicken - hopes that is not an issue and if it is well ..... that is Your loss - is not nor shall be a doormat or robot for anyone - if You wish for that - move on please

still here ?

a little more about me then .. am somewhat of a of a contradiction..

wild, at times selfconscious, a sense of humor exists, has a dirty mind, maybe we better call it a dirt road, - quite shy - yet also outgoing, cheeky, loyal, honest, passionate (in more then one way), a little snuggle-whore, a lil slut (?understatement of the century?) - though NOT really a painslut, bubbly and horny most of the time, sensual, sexual, adventerous, can be also super-shy reserved and in need of a hug to not panic, does love to bring that content and proud smile to His lips, strives to please with all her worth, yet can be a bit "feisty" at times

curvacious with medium length dark hair, big boobs and tush, has tattoos on arms, ankles and back - yes that is my back in the photo and also has piercings (several on the ears, one in the tongue, four on the outer labias) occasionally writes short erotic stories and even sometimes dares show them to others, when writing at times feels inarticulate and uneloquent so does not easyly write journals and prefers to openly and verbaly communicate, ooh and does ride a motorbike

want to know more - get to know me - while i strive to get to know You ...

grins oooh; i do love .... though not necessarily in that order...

Photography, good movies, good books, good music, naked motorbikes, tattoos, intelligent converstaions, short walks on the beach or in the woods, pottering in the garden, but also to be the playball of passion, raw animalistic lust, to snuggle - did i say this allready ? giggles ....to snuggle and talk, to have His hands around my throat while He enjoys what is His - to have Him make use of well .... all of me, in any location He deems fit - if He wishes for it it will serve not only Him - does cum more then once if allowed and squirts at times - will try and do pretty much everything at least once and the list of not having tried that...(or wont do that) has been getting steadyly shorter over time - blushes and giggles - as for nono's well there are very few - would wish them to please be respected and will talk about those when the time comes.

A lot of You took the time to reply for such i am greatfull, i usually answers in english as, in that language i have the feeling i can express myself best.

Even though i am verbally fluent in two other languages, to write back in english makes me feel i  dont come over like a total dumbo.

It at times takes time for me to reply due to rl circumstances, it is not me being deliberately disrespectfull, hopes that this will be accepted as such.

The profile picture was changed to show the tattoo on her back, as she does not wish to hide that she has piercings and tattoos, from a possible future Owner.

To those of You wishing their girl to be a spring chicken or a miss twiggy or a doormat or maybe a robot - this sa forat is not such - is reasonably eloquent beast and yes has a sense of humor and wishes to please her Owner and make Him proud, in many ways, smiles.


Adds a few lines, that may enable You understand this beast better.

A kajira, real sa fora, is not a robot , not a doormat - she  is strong, vibrant, feisty , yet respectfull .....is intelligent, playfull, artisitc, humorous, sensious .... loves life and her place in it, at her Master's boot, needs and craves the strengh of a Master, to foil her own strengh.. how else is she to be herself and lay bare her, body, mind and soul, her sensuallity and sexuallity, if she can not find something stronger, to yield to and be free.


Pls do not ....

bother to message if what you seek is humiliation and total painslut without brains.

or think truly owning a girl is just pleasure and no responsabillity, it requires the willingness to learn on both sides.

if think that this girl is weak because she does her best to be respectfull to all.

if You try to hide Your own insecurity by being short, rude and insulting, such is unbecomming of a Master.

Some wise words written by a friend and Master

The Dominant Man's Standard

In my view, a good dominant man has his girl's best interests in mind, even when that conflicts with his personal desires. That doesn't mean that he gives in to her every whim, of course. There can be a significant difference between a woman's desires and what is truly best for her.  He has to be someone who can confidently make that determination and remain firm.

He helps her to set goals in life, to effectively and systematically work towards them, and ultimately to achieve them.  He helps her to become the vibrant, loving, thriving, incredibly wonderful and effective woman she was created to be. 

He becomes many things in her life; a mentor, a teacher, a protector, a guide, as well as a lover.  He provides what she needs most of all; love and acceptance, support and guidance, leadership and accountability.  He is consistent in his actions so that she knows what to expect from him and knows she can depend on him.

He is honest and forthright, refusing to put himself in bondage to lies and deceit.  After all, he cannot be an effective leader if he is spending time and energy dodging the truth and propping up his own deceptions.

He speaks his mind, so that his girl can know that he means what he says and he says what he means.  She never has to try to figure out how he thinks and feels based upon some subtle subtext.

He is, in short, a man of honesty and integrity, responsibility and strength of character. He is steady and stable, and can always be relied upon to do the right thing, even when its difficult. He is, ultimately, the kind of man that all men should be, if they only had the balls.

The Submissive Woman's Standard

In my view, a good submissive woman makes decisions based upon her beliefs and values, rather than her emotions.  While she is a very emotional creature, she knows that those emotions can change in an instant, and she refuses to permit them to rule her life.

She knows that you can't just say anything you want one moment and apologize for it the next, and still expect to have a healthy relationship.  She thinks before she speaks, and if what she is about to say is not kind, loving, supportive, encouraging or uplifting, she chooses not to say it.

She understands that men are not mind readers and "if he really cared about me, I wouldn't have to tell him how I feel" is utterly ridiculous, and she strives to discuss things in a frank, open, positive and pleasing manner.

She is easy to get along with, fun to be around and a genuine joy to know.  She takes delight in seeing others pleased, and finds fulfillment in doing her part to make life easier, more comfortable, more pleasant and more beautiful for those around her.

She has a view of life that is based upon happiness, smiles, laughter, sensuality, togetherness, faith, family, joy, lightheartedness, and fun.

She is, in short, emotionally responsible, vibrantly alive, a delight to behold and a true joy to be with.