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AdisiWaya

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AdisiWaya - Female Switch, Riverside California | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About AdisiWaya

This profile is under construction.

I'm rewording some things since people think I'm fake either because of what I put, or because of what I'm seeking. What is truly wrong with exploring every venue that has a chance for a dom(me) to teach me? It's not like I'm seeking submissive men/women as well.

I've changed my orientation to "switch" because it seems that there are those out there that love to call me fake because I had "slave" and I wasn't wholly submissive to them. Why should I be when I get insulted in the first meeting?

A master would move on to a profile that is interesting instead of wasting his time with one that isn't. A master also wouldn't waste his time to childishly belittle. We are all adults here, please act like it.

Nevertheless, I'm seeking a trainer. Mind you, I can obey with the best of them, and I can be considered highly trained, but what I want is to feel submissive. To feel like a woman.

For now I'll leave you with these notes until I can get up a proper profile:


Unless you are a female, there will be no sexual intercourse between us.

Forgive the bolding, but some seem to ignore that detail. Now for the other notes:

--I am married, yes my husband knows what I'm looking for.
--If you like scat/fisting/watersports/stretching to a point where you MUST have it, move on.
--I cannot relocate.
--I AM NOT a sex slave.
--I WILL NOT be a sex slave. I am looking for mental domination, not sexual. Out of respect to my husband and our marriage, I'm sexually reserved to ONE man and females only.
--I am not into BDSM. But Gorean. If you get off on giving loads of pain (some to moderate pain is perfectly fine with me), I'm not the slave for you.
--I cannot pay to bring you here, my funds are very limited.
--Looking for a male or female trainer, or female owner.
--Couples are okay, just as long as there is an understanding that there will be NO sexual intercourse between the man and I.
Good lord it's been a while...

Finally moved and settled in. The main reason why I came back was to find out how someone is doing.

It's been a while, but no I didn't forget about you. I don't see you in my admirers any more, so I'm hoping you're still here. Unfortunately I can't remember your collarme name but I knew I'd remember your face when I saw it.

If you're the lovely intersexed lady that used to mail me often, please contact me again to at least let me know you're doing well.
Thank you to those that's mailed me and said that my old profile was perfect.  If you're curious about what it said, here it is while I work on the new one:

I've come to find that people just don't read my profile all the way. So I'm putting the quick notes at the top instead of the bottom. First, the most important one:

Unless you are a female, there will be no sexual intercourse between us.

Forgive the bolding, but some seem to ignore that detail. Now for the other notes:

--I am married, yes my husband knows what I'm looking for.
--If you like scat/fisting/watersports/stretching to a point where you MUST have it, move on.
--I cannot relocate.
--I AM NOT a sex slave.
--I WILL NOT be a sex slave. I am looking for mental domination, not sexual. Out of respect to my husband and our marriage, I'm sexually reserved to ONE man and females only.
--Only female short-term roommates can be accepted due to rent issues.
--I am not into BDSM. But Gorean. If you get off on giving loads of pain (some to moderate pain is perfectly fine with me), I'm not the slave for you.
--I cannot pay to bring you here, my funds are very limited.
--Looking for a male or female trainer, or female owner.
--Couples are okay, just as long as there is an understanding that there will be NO sexual intercourse between the man and I.
--Looking for discreteness. My husband is in the military.

Now, onto the more indepth profile.


I'm looking to be trained, to know if I am truly a slave, or a switch. I want a place, and while I might not end up as a slave for my husband, I think that in being taught, I can have a better understanding of myself. By taking care of others, I can take better care of myself and things around me.
 
For a long time now I've been wanting to explore this more submissive side of my personality. It's not easy when you're mostly surrounded by submissive people, which only has me take advantage of it. I suppose that would make me a bit of a switch, eh? Whatever you want to call it, this is the side of me I want to focus on.

I do have a stubborn streak. I am strongwilled, brazen, haughty, and I enjoy challenges. Which is one reason I have been told I'm a switch, though it's been pointed out to me that I could be considered more of a spirited wench. I enjoy and feel more comfortable with the Gorean "lifestyle." Mastering mind and spirit before body.

The one who commanded me to do this seems to be the only I can be a "natural" slave to. He told me to open up my horizons, try getting trained. And that is the point of this whole post. I want to be trained by someone I don't know, instead of someone I've been around for several years.

A little bit about me:

I don't smoke (cigarettes make me sneeze). Drink very little socially. Don't do drugs. I'm German, Tsalagi  (or "Cherokee." My Cherokee name is Waya Adisi which means "Running Wolf"  It was already taken soo.. had to compromise.) and African American.  I have several tattoos, and piercings in my ears and tongue. My hair is below shoulder length, dark auburn, but I tend to wear waist length extensions.

I'm not looking to be a pain slut, or sex slave -- I'm very willing to explore my attraction to females. I'm not looking to be owned by men, that is my husband's spot. If a female seeks to own me, I hope they understand that my husband comes first. 

Well.. that's all I can think of to put. Safe to say I don't do this often. Or at all, really.

Thank you, toska, and be well. 



Sometimes I wonder if people get off with mailing random strangers, telling them that they're "wanna be fakes". Those that do this? Have no life, honestly.

If you want to waste your time defaming someone because you don't like what you read, go ahead. Show them how pathetic and immature you are. If you don't like what I have in my profile, stop reading and move on. I'm not forcing you to read it.
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