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Hetero Male Dominant, 42,  Denver, Colorado
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I am a divorced male / single parent. 5'11, 210 in weight, (I have a pic to exchange) a bit above athletic build (just got some love handles) with a bit of a two sided personality. I am a man of many contradictions... I am gentle... yet savage... Patient yet restless... Copacetic yet aggressive... I am adventurous but reserved. Exhibitionist yet cautious. Simplistic in nature yet complex in methods. A gentleman and a lustful savage. Boy scout and bad boy. I am highly educated at the Masters level education from an accredited University. Currently my interest include philosophy, people watching (since true life is often times more fascinating and inspiring than fiction), spirituality and erotica (both blatant porn and nudity with a plot). I LOVE all kinds of music and currently working on restocking my cd collection. In addition I love law. At one point in my life I wanted to be lawyer. Then I quickly came to the conclusion most of it would be research and opted out before I was stuck.
I prioritize my daughters (the best thing that came out of my 13 year marriage), my family, and work first. I play just as hard as I work. I am honest, observant, considerate, and patient. With the right person I can be just as cuddly as I am uncouth and rough. I have varied sexual interests and fantasies and I am almost ALWAYS open to try new things. Though I am looking primarily for fun a long term relationship, right now my focus is friends first, benefits later.

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 Dominant Male



 5' 11"

 210 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

 Lives For:

 Breast Play


 Massage (Getting)


 Amusement Parks (Expert)

 Beachcombing (Expert)

 Fine Dining (Expert)

 Movies (Expert)

 Anal Play



 Hair Pulling

 Massage (Giving)

 Orgasm Denial

 Spanking (Expert)


 Art Galleries

 Clubbing (Expert)

 Coffee Shops  (Expert)

 Fishing (Expert)

 Gambling (Expert)

 Renaissance Faires (Expert)

 Travel (Expert)

 Volunteerism (Expert)


 Body Worship


 Canes and Crops

 Corner Time

 Electrical Play


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Local BDSM Community


 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play

 Role Playing



 Bar Hopping


 Musical Theater


 Curious About:

 Antique Shows (Beginner)

 Flea Markets (Expert)

 Shopping (Expert)


 Going to the Opera (Beginner)

 Hard Limits:


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Journal Entries:
10/28/2014 12:25:55 PM
Hi all, I want to post a general message to females. In my time on here, which is more than a year I have been "blocked" by three females. The first time I was blocked it was an accident. The reason I know that it was accident is that I also had the females contact information and asked if she meant to block me. She responded "NO, that this was an accident because of where the block button is located. We still touch base from time and are not involved and never were. I do not mind be blocked, it would however be nice to know why if that person meant to block me. I do not need to have the last word. 

The reason I am posting this message is I have now been blocked by the following: "KinkyKitty6161" & "redhead1975". Again, I have no idea why I was blocked. In both situations the conversation were pretty vanilla and they flowed. I enjoyed talking with both. In the case of "redhead1975" she said she was going to continue her search. My exact response was "good luck". I do not find that offensive or a reason to block someone. If either of these people did mean to block me, please let me know. If you did mean to block please let me know what was said that was offensive to you that you felt the need to block me. After sending the message, please block me. Again, I do not need to have the last word, I am just wondering what happened. Anyone who reads this message, please pass along to "KinkyKitty6161 & "redhead1975", it would be greatly appreciated. I wish both women happiness in what ever it is they are searching for whether I hear from them or not. 


3/25/2013 1:17:32 PM

Just thought I would post that pokbra33874 is another one of those people who come on here to get your email address to send you crap you do not want via email. Here is the actual email:

"Hey.. How would you like to grab some coffee this week with me? I am always up for a night out, so get back to me whenever.. lustfulmeg85 at) h o t m ' a i l .c o m and i can get in touch with you from there. Talk soon.. Maya xx"

2/12/2013 7:40:55 PM

Happy Fat Tuesday!

11/21/2012 8:44:23 PM

Happy Thanksgiving!

10/23/2012 4:48:41 PM

I was reading a profile of a sub today and thought it was pretty typical of what a person normally finds in a profile. However, it really stuck out how many females here and in the vanilla world focus a lot of attention on being monogamous. First, I am not saying there is anything wrong with being monogamous I think for two people that 100% agree to those terms it is great. However, our divorce rate in the US is over 50% (so I suspect someone did not agree 100% or definetly changed there mind at some point along the way) with what I am willing to bet are two people who said they are going to be monogamous.


This brings up the question of why being monogamous is so important to a relationship? I also wonder if the majority of men and women would agree to how important being monogamous is to a relationship? I suspect that women (vanilla or otherwise) put a much higher premium on being monogamous. I know I personally put a lower value on that one trait as opposed to how that woman treats me. I also would actually say to horror of many I am sure, as long as it does interfere with our relationship then let us continue to enjoy each other. To be clear I am not suggesting a poly relationship. I am just saying that to meet and mate for life has a low probability of being successful for at least half the population so maybe we should start looking at the issue differently. Just something to think about............

10/9/2012 9:33:53 PM

subF5280 see previous entry.

10/9/2012 9:32:15 PM

Blocking..........I have been blocked by 3 people in all the time I have been on CM. One blocked me because it was 100% accident and I had her email and asked why. We continue to be friends to the this day after she explained that she had no idea why? The other two I have no idea why I am blocked. If you are going to block someone please give them the curoisty of telling them why you are blocking them. If I did something to offend someone and you block me, I have no recourse to fix it for you. However, if you tell me I offend you I can go back and see what was written and either change my actions in the future or decide that you are just freaking crazy.

8/17/2012 6:41:11 PM

Jet Skiing tomorrow. Sun, water and BBQ should be a lot of fun.

7/23/2012 6:22:40 PM

I am so excited about the Olympics. GO USA!

7/4/2012 9:53:52 AM

Happy 4th of July to all. Laughing

6/3/2012 5:15:49 PM

Hmmm, I never been blocked by someone until recently by Kinkykitty6161. I honestly have no idea why?

5/28/2012 9:32:52 AM

Good morning all. Happy Memorial Day. Thanks to all who have served we greatly appreciate the sacrifice for our country.

3/3/2012 8:23:51 AM

Happy Saturday Morning too all. Coffee and sunshine, what combination. {#}

2/29/2012 5:40:21 PM

Is there anyone who wants to have a drink tonight?

2/16/2012 5:40:30 PM

When 3 people have sex they call it a three some.

When 2 people have sex they call it a two some.

When a person has sex they call him Hansome.

1/29/2012 2:43:03 PM

Why do people put on there profile only looking for long term relationship? We have not even meet, yet you want me to commit to a long term relationship?

12/31/2011 8:36:13 AM

Happy New Years Eve to all. Have a safe and fun last day of the year. {#}{#}{#}

12/9/2011 7:21:56 PM

This is definetly fantasy land for most of the people on here.

11/28/2011 5:54:34 PM

Is it just me or do the Female Dom's seem to be proportaintely on the hot side of the equation? Why is that?

11/21/2011 5:38:25 PM

I hate Monday's and today was no different!

11/20/2011 4:13:06 PM

I was right, it has been an awesome day.

11/20/2011 11:26:41 AM

It is going to be a great day!

6/21/2011 6:12:26 PM

Does any one ever meet off CM or is this just fantasy land? I have meet one person who I have had a relationship with for several months, but other than that.................Nada. Hmm, maybe it is me. Do women enjoy sane people, who have a good career, in decent shape (I could lose a couple of pounds but for the love of god have you seen most of the others), own home............... Just wondering.............I have a pic.............LMAO 

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