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RedStilettos

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I am a multitude of things to many people. I am strong, independent, educated, and intelligent. I am a woman who finds joy, happiness, and meaning for my life when I am with, and serving, a naturally dominant man. I truly believe it is when a submissive finds the courage to thoroughly and completely submit that natural balance is restored between a man and a woman. I am hopeful I can find a naturally dominant man who is loyal, true, honest, and willing to take on a woman like me. I am drawn to intelligent, naturally dominant men. I am looking for someone who has the potential to care for me, love me, and treat me with the respect that a solid relationship like this is worthy of. Those men that have a string of women following them, friend collectors, men who jump from relationship to relationship or bed to bed, please, please pass me by. I know, based on past experience, I do better with a positive reinforcement and encouragement than one that uses humiliation or harsh physical retaliation as training devices. A Dominant who wants to mesh the vanilla with the kink is ideal. There has to be a way to integrate the vanilla with the lifestyle. I just need to find a man that wants it as well. And hopefully with ME! LOL. In the mean time I am here to reconnect with old friends, meet new friends, and read, learn and grow. Should I ‘only’ find friends, I count myself lucky. Should I find a Dominant that loves me, consider me by far, the luckiest girl out there – someone who has it all. Stay true to yourself, red
7/26/2012 4:15:44 AM

Can I just say, I absolutely LOVE an intelligent man?  *smiles*  I have had some very interesting conversations lately, and it is pleasing to note not EVERY man on here is an ignorant backside. :)

7/23/2012 6:00:17 PM

Thank you ulysses for the redstilettos pic.  ;P

3/29/2009 3:21:46 PM
Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction. -- Antoine de Saint-Exupery
3/11/2009 2:33:48 PM
I thought I would burn some time in a chatroom while unwinding from a long day.  But my GOODNESS the quality of the people is just insane!   The spelling mistakes, grammar issues, and just plain ignorance is completely mind-blowing.   It is obvious from some of the profiles I have read here that there are some really uneducated individuals in this lifestyle.  Problem is?  They don't see themselves in this post.   LOL
3/7/2009 9:49:36 AM
There are moments when, what ever the position of the body, the soul is on its knees.         
Victor Hugo
2/4/2009 1:31:33 PM
*sigh*  Is happiness a journey or a destination?
12/25/2008 5:32:32 PM
I hope everyone had a wonderful holiday ...
9/23/2008 6:07:29 PM
The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing at the
right time, but also to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment.

9/13/2008 4:17:15 PM
I am a firm believer that it is important to make sure the People you have in your life know they are important to you and that noone feels like they are taken for granted.              I came across this poem of sorts and it hits home........................Never take someone for granted.......Hold every person close to your heart....Because you might wake up one day....And realize that you've lost a diamond ....While you were too busy collecting stones.
5/29/2008 1:23:53 PM
Have you ever felt that something, or Someone, was so right that you were willing to take a chance for once in your life and jump in with both feet?
11/21/2007 2:26:50 PM
LAWD!
It kills me to see how vanilla men pose as Dominants on here.  How do I know?  Because many of you have contacted me.  Why are you on here? Because it is one of the few "free" sites.  So what do you do?  You post a "Dom" profile and see if you can find a willing partner here online.  Sheesh.  At least have the decency to say so upfront!  Don't say you aren't reading this and identifying yourself.... You can lie to others, but don't lie to yourself!
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