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Shakespeare...once said "to thine own self be true". So i am writing here exactly whats on my heart and mind and i am being true to myself.

Just to inform anyone reading this i am a sub with an independant streak and i do value myself which means i am a person first.....and a sub second, i do value myself and you should too. I am not one is....and I am not a doormat...i have been independant, self supporting and able to take care of myself all my adult life. I want to find a relationship that complements all that with mutual interests, desires and needs, and where i can express my submission, talents, abilities, experience, intelligence and physical self in a way that is fulfilling and exciting.

Before I was able to enter into this lifestyle or a D/s relationship, I had to know myself very, very well. I have spent a lot of time over the past couple years trying to be honest with myself about myself (this is still a work in progress). Reflecting on what kind of person I am, what kind of things I can truly handle and do. I looked at what my true needs were versus the things I wanted. And I examined the type and level of dominance I wanted/needed in my life. I believe when i find the right D/s relationship all these things will come together, I will know myself well enough to know that what He wants will work well for me. That is such an important part of this whole deal. Know yourself, feel good about yourself. Only then will you be able to find a partner who will truly be a good and healthy match for you.

I am a caring, warmhearted, giving, down to earth, affectionate, intelligent and loving person that enjoys serving and pleasing. Having said that I am not able to jump into a D/s relationship immediately and become your sub/slave without some thought, negotiation, discussion and of course eventually meeting you.

I am a non smoker and i have a hard time being around smokers......i have allergies!

I am not interested in married men as a potential Dom or Master.....Life is just too darn complicated in that type scenario.

If you just want friendship/play partners and or occasional getogethers...i am not opposed to that since i am a funloving, adventurous woman who loves people, no matter what the gender or orientation, and i enjoy having new friendships...however there has to be some connection and chemistry present to catch my interest...and ultimately i seek a LTR just to let you know!! I am interested in playing within a switch or Domme role on occasion in the right situation.

I am submissive and i would submit with my heart and mind but like anyone else my needs/desires do matter. I do like pain with my pleasure but i have to have both to truly put myself in your hands. Trust me when i say i am a very sexual, erotic female who enjoys the physical part of this.

If you have read this far...thank you for doing that and if you can identify with any of this then please contact me...we have nothing to lose!
I hope i have not come across as too demanding or opinionated to anyone but i think its best to state upfront how i feel and what i seek

Good luck to all.

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6/25/2010 4:38:30 PM
well its summer and time for some fun. Maybe another trip somewhere cooler to hike and play!!
Now that i said that i am gonna have to think about that one for sure.

And the foot surgery is over and i am back on my feet so to speak i am ready for some action and time allows.

Sure wish there was a willing play partner in the area who might enjoy a new partner to do things with...both vanilla and lifestyle!

4/21/2010 6:38:31 PM

Well after having foot surgery recently i have slowed down temporarily....but not for long...!
I cant seem to get fired up about being in this lifestyle lately and not sure what to do about it? Any ideas?

12/27/2009 5:15:15 PM
12/27/09 Hope everyone had a great Xmas and Happy new year to all.

Oh and the trip to Big Bend went well...Hiked almost 21 miles altogether and loved the nature and outdoors...but was too tired for any outdoors play...Oh well maybe next time...smiles!

11/1/2009 4:21:49 PM
Getting ready to go hiking in Big Bend for several days.....i love the outdoors, nature and , sometimes even think about what it would be like to do some BDSM play in that type setting.....smiles!

6/14/2009 5:31:01 PM
"Mans mind stretched to a new idea, never goes back to its original dimensions" by Oliver Wendall Holmes

5/18/2009 7:14:33 PM

Food for thought:
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, but an entire life to forget them.

5/16/2009 4:00:09 PM
Ok here goes...if anyone wants to comment on this feel free to do so.

Why is it that when i talk to people on this website and ask how they like this site, they always say its full of fakes, game players and phonies....with maybe a very few "true lifestylers" on here. But then they turn around and act like a fake and phony game player themselves. Is there anyone on this site who might be for real, say what they really want and do what they say they will do. I mean hello.....just tell it like it is and go on with your life...but be who you really are who you say you are.....

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