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	About Hisdollbaby First things First: Let's get this out of the way (right up front) ....I am a plus size girl / BBW..." (Big Beautiful Woman) *** if this is not to your liking, please continue your search elsewhere. Thank you, Thick thighs, green eyes,intelligent mind, best believe I am a female that is hard to find! I / i do not cyber !!! HARD LIMIT searching for ...RT ( real time) Only ! Me, myself, and I : No! NO !! and NO WAY!!! :Hard Limits: NO kids, NO animals, NO scat or water sports, NO blood play, NOthing that will cause permanent damage to anyone... (mental or physical) If you have read this far Thank you, * and No i/I will not pay for your glasses.(Grins) If by this point you are still interested :** Please read My journal entries ... the (Submissive's Creed.) It is what I use as a guide not only for what I seek in a sub but, also a guide for what i believe in as a submissive... and the entry "What I am into"... will tell you, just that, what I am into ... Remember it is only a small sample and there is the list Collarme has provided on under likes .. Even if we do not suite as play -partners, we can still learn from O/oneanother... I/i am here to help those who still search and those wish to learn... FYI : In BDSM all my adult life (started my journey at the age of 18) ... still here and still learning after 27 years. beautifullyfierceGoddess , ( aka :Hisdollbaby ) To the world you may be one ... but to one You may be the World. WARNING:Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.

The right words whispered in the ear can do soooo much... but, of course I own a full toy box just in case ;)

SSC =
Safe? This is BDSM. It's not safe. Yes you can take the risk out but it is not safe. Things happen. Accidents happen.
Sane? Nothing sane about it. Look at the things we do. Are you gonna tell me that's sane?
Consensual? You better know him/ her before he/ she ties you up.

Up to 50% of the Population
BDSM is a sexual orientation found in a good percentage of the population. Recent reports calculate 7 to 14% practice BDSM, with up to 50% of the population BDSM-curious. These people come from all walks of life; Professionals, celebrities, office workers, etc.

Sapiosexual :
One who finds intelligence the most sexually attractive feature.

The attraction to the same or oposite sex based on the attraction of wisdom.

Liking any person, with out being sexually discriminative, because of their wisdom, smarts, and your shared learnings.

I have an incisive, inquisitive, insightful, irreverent mind.

I want someone for whom intelligent discussion is foreplay.

I want someone who I can make go ouch due to My wit and evil sense of humor.

WORDS WOMAN USE:

Fine:
This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

Five Minutes:
Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

Nothing:
This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.

Go Ahead:
This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!

Loud Sigh:
This is actually not a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.)

That's Okay:
This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

Thanks:
A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you're welcome.This is true, unless she says 'Thanks a lot' - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say 'you're welcome'. that will bring on a 'whatever').

Whatever:
*Is a woman's way of saying F--** YOU!*

Don't worry about it, I got it :
Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to # 3.

Confidence is sexy--arrogance is not.

Experience is not what happens to you; it is what you do with what happens to you." - Aldous Huxley

"I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if u cant handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best."

- Marilyn Monroe

SAFE.
That all parties to the activity have considered the potential risks involved, and have decided that the risk is ACCEPTABLE TO THEM.

SANE.
That all parties are engaging in this activity by direct intention and can judge the effects of their actions.

CONSENSUAL.
That all parties have consented to being involved in the activity. Consent might be given for every scene, or in more long-running relationships this consent might be given just once, at the beginning of the relationship, to cover all subsequent activity.

Written by : dollbaby

Don't think me weak because i kneel.For i am strong !
my strength comes from giving and to my One i will gladly give my all.

Don't think me weak because i kneel.For i am strong !
my bonds you think they tie me down , but tethered to my One frees me from the ground.

Don't think me weak because i kneel.For i am strong !
At my weakest i am strong enough to touch the sky and fly free.

Don't think me weak because i kneel.For i am strong !

dollbaby

Some days are good days and some days are not so good...

W/we have to remember that the search for the "right" one for U/us takes time.

A lot of time !!!

Sometimes W/we get so close but yet so far...

Don't let that get you down...when it is right it is well worth the wait.

beautifullyfiearceGoddess

* Please note that this is are here as guideline only *

You may have Your own way of doing things that is vastly different and to that I reply "good for You" ..To each their own...Smiles

NEGOTIATION LONG FORM

(Recommended for novices)

1. PEOPLE:

Who (only) will take part?________________________________________________

Who (only) will watch?___________________________________________________

Will any permanent record (photographs, audiotapes, videotapes, etc.) be made of the session? Yes_____ No_____

Explanation__________________________________________________________

2. ROLES:

Who will be dominant?_________________________________________________

Who will be submissive?_________________________________________________

Type of scene: master/slave mistress/slave captive age play servant/butler/etc. cross-dressing/gender play animal play other_________________________

Any chance of switching roles? Yes_____ No_____

Explanation:___________________________________________________________

Will the submissive promptly obey? Yes_____ No_____ Explanation:___________________________________________________________

May the dominant "overpower" or "force" the submissive? Yes_____ No____ Explanation:___________________________________________________________

May the submissive verbally resist? Yes_____ No_____ Explanation:___________________________________________________________

May the submissive physically resist? Yes_____ No_____ Explanation:___________________________________________________________

Does resistance equal a "strong yellow"? Yes_____ No_____ Explanation:___________________________________________________________

May the submissive try to "turn the tables:? Yes_____ No_____

Does the submissive agree to wear a collar? Yes_____ No_____

Explanation:___________________________________________________________

The submissive agrees to address the dominant by the following title(s): ____________________________________________________________________

3. PLACE:

Location:_____________________________________________________________

Who will ensure privacy?_________________________________________________

4. TIME:

Begin at:__________ Length:________________________

Beginning signal:_______________________________________________________

Ending signal:_________________________________________________________

Who will keep track of time?______________________________________________

5. OOPS:

Does everybody involved understand that there is some risk of accident, miscommunication, misperception, and/or unintentional injury? Yes___ No___

Does everybody involved agree to discuss any mishaps in a constructive and non-blaming manner? Yes_____ No_____

6. LIMITS:

Submissive's limits: Any problems with the submissive's... heart: yes/no lungs: yes/no neck/back/bones/joints: yes/no kidneys: yes/no liver: yes/no nervous system/mental: yes/no

Explanation:__________________________________________________________

Is the submissive wearing contact lenses? Yes_____ No_____

Does the submissive suffer from carpal tunnel syndrome or any related problems?

Yes_____ No_____

Does the submissive have a history of... seizures: yes/no dizzy spells: yes/no diabetes: yes/no high or low blood pressure: yes/no fainting: yes/no asthma: yes/no hyperventilation attacks: yes/no

Explanation:_________________________________________________________

Describe any phobias:__________________________________________________

Submissive's other medical conditions:_____________________________________

Any surgical implants (breast, face, etc.)? Yes_____ No_____

Explanation:__________________________________________________________

Is the submissive taking aspirin? Yes_____ No_____

Is the submissive taking ibuprofin, Aleve, or other non-steroidal, anti-inflammatory drugs? Yes_____ No_____

Is the submissive taking antihistamines? Yes_____ No_____

Other medications the submissive is taking:_________________________________

Is the submissive allergic to... bandage tape: yes/no nonoxynol-9: yes/no Other allergies:_________________________________________________________

In case of emergency notify:______________________________________________

Dominant's Limits: Any problems with the dominant's... heart: yes/no lungs: yes/no neck/back/bones/joints: yes/no kidneys: yes/no liver: yes/no nervous system/mental: yes/no

Explanation:___________________________________________________________

Dominant's other medical conditions:______________________________________

Medications the dominant is taking:_______________________________________

In case of emergency notify:______________________________________________

Is the dominant currently certified in First Aid and CPR: yes/no Safety gear on hand... paramedic scissors: yes/no flashlight: yes/no first aid kit: yes/no blackout light: yes/no fire extinguisher: yes/no

Will the play be in an isolated area such as a farmhouse? Yes_____ No_____

If yes, what will ensure the submissive's safety if the dominant becomes unconscious? no bondage to chair/bed/etc.: yes/no no gag: yes/no silent alarm: yes/no third person present: yes/no telephone/radio/panic button within submissive's reach: yes/no

Other:________________________________________________________________

7. SEX

Does any participant believe they might have a sexually transmitted disease?

Yes_____ No_____

Explanation:___________________________________________________________

Does any participant believe they might have herpes? Yes_____ No_____

Explanation:___________________________________________________________

Have participants been tested for HIV? Yes_____ No_____

Has any participant tested positive? Yes_____ No_____

Explanation:___________________________________________________________

Circle which of the following sexual acts are acceptable:

Masturbation: dominant to submissive submissive to dominant self-masturbation by submissive self-masturbation by dominant

Fellatio: dominant to submissive submissive to dominant

Cunnilingus: dominant to submissive submissive to dominant

Analingus: dominant to submissive submissive to dominant

Vaginal fisting: dominant to submissive submissive to dominant

Anal fisting: dominant to submissive submissive to dominant

Vaginal intercourse: dominant to submissive submissive to dominant

Anal intercourse: dominant to submissive submissive to dominant

Is swallowing semen acceptable? Yes_____ No_____

Is any participant menstruating? Yes_____ No_____

Will sex toys such as vibrators, dildoes, butt plugs, etc. be used? Yes/No

If yes, describe:_______________________________________________________

Which of the above activities will involve birth control pills, diaphragms, spermicidal suppositories, lubricants containing nonoxynol-9, or contraceptive foams/suppositories/gels?__________________________________

Which of the above activities will involve condoms, gloves, dental dams, and/or other barriers?____________________________________________________

8. INTOXICANTS

No O/one can use intoxicants during the session:

Acceptable quantity: NONE

9. BONDAGE

The submissive agrees to allow (only) the following types of bondage...
hands in front: yes/no
hands behind back: yes/no
ankles: yes/no
knees: yes/no
elbows: yes/no
wrists to ankles (hog-tie): yes/no
spreader bars: yes/no
tied to chair: yes/no
tied to bed: yes/no
use of blindfold: yes/no
use of gag: yes/no
use of hood: yes/no
use of rope: yes/no
use of tape: yes/no
use of leather cuffs: yes/no
use of handcuffs/metal restraints: yes/no
suspension: yes/no
mummification with plastic wrap, body bag, or similar technique: yes/no

Any past bad experiences by either person with bondage, gags, blindfolds, and/or hoods? Yes_____ No_____

Explanation:___________________________________________________________

10. PAIN

Submissive's general attitude toward receiving pain:

_____likes _____accepts _____neutral _____dislikes _____will not accept

Quantity of pain the submissive wants to receive:

_____none _____small _____average _____large

Explanation:___________________________________________________________

Dominant's general attitude toward giving pain:

____likes ____will give ____neutral ____dislikes ____will not give

Quantity of pain the dominant wants to give:

_____none _____small _____average _____large

Explanation:___________________________________________________________

Will the "now" technique be used? Yes_____ No_____

Explanation:___________________________________________________________

Will the "nod" technique be used? Yes_____ No_____

Explanation:___________________________________________________________

Will the "one to ten" technique be used? Yes_____ No_____

Explanation:___________________________________________________________

The following types of pain are acceptable... spanking: yes/no paddling: yes/no flogging: yes/no caning: yes/no face slaps: yes/no biting: yes/no nipple clamps: yes/no genital clamps: yes/no clamps elsewhere: yes/no locations:_________________ hot creams: yes/no ice: yes/no hot wax: yes/no tickling: yes/no

Other types/methods of pain:_____________________________________________

Additional remarks:_____________________________________________________

11. MARKS

Is it acceptable to the submissive if the play leaves marks? Yes___ No___

Visible while wearing street clothes? Yes____ No____

Visible while wearing a bathing suit? Yes____ No____

Is it acceptable to the submissive if the play draws small amounts of blood? Yes____ No____

Explanation:___________________________________________________________

How easy or difficult has it been to mark the submissive in the past? _____________________________________________________________________

12. EROTIC HUMILIATION

The submissive agrees to accept being referred to by the following terms: _____________________________________________________________________

The submissive agrees to the following forms of erotic humiliation...
"verbal abuse": yes/no
enemas: yes/no
forced exhibitionism: yes/no
spitting: yes/no
water sports: yes/no
scat games: yes/no
face slapping: yes/no

Other:______________________________________________________________

Any prior really good or really bad experiences in these areas?_____________ ___________________________________________________________________

13. SAFEWORDS

Safeword # 1 and its meaning:____________________________________________

Safeword # 2 and its meaning:____________________________________________

Non-verbal safewords and their meaning:____________________________________

Will the "two squeezes" technique be used? Yes____ No____

Will the "extended hand" technique be used? Yes____ No____

14. OPPORTUNITIES/SPECIAL SKILLS

Anything either party would especially like to try or explore? Yes____ No___

Explanation:___________________________________________________________

15. FOLLOW-UP

(Please include a note about who will initiate contacts.)

After the session:_______________________________________________________

The next day:__________________________________________________________

A week later:__________________________________________________________

In the event of a crisis:__________________________________________________

16. ANYTHING ELSE?

No____ Yes____

Explanation:__________________________________________

What will become of this form after the session?_________________________

POST-SESSION NOTES AND FEEDBACK

Dominant Overall feeling about the session on a scale of one-to-ten (ten tops)______

Best part of the session and on a scale of one-to-ten how good was it? _____________________________________________________________________

Worst part of the session and on a scale of one-to-ten how bad was it? ____________________________________________________________________

Other comments:_______________________________________________________

Submissive Overall feeling about the session on a scale of one-to-ten (ten tops)_______

Best part of the session and on a scale of one-to-ten how good was it? ____________________________________________________________________

Worst part of the session and on a scale of one-to-ten how bad was it? ____________________________________________________________________

Other comments:______________________

BTW : Once again I would advise that Y/you use this as a guide and create Y\your own list...

beautifullyGoddess
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* Please note that this is here as guideline only * You may have Your own way of doing things that is vastly different and to that I reply ..To each their own...Smiles

NEGOTIATION SHORT FORM

People: Who will take part?

Roles: Who will be dominant? Who will be submissive?

Place: Where will the session occur?

Time: When will the session begin and how long will it last?

Oops: Both parties agree that any accidents, miscommunications, etc. will be handled in a constructive manner.

Limits: Mainly covers the submissive's physical and emotional limits.

Sex: It's crucial to agree clearly and specifically, before beginning the session, about exactly what kind of conventional sexual contact, if any, is mutually acceptable.

Intoxicants: Don't play if either of you is drunk or stoned.

Bondage: Who will be tied up? To what extent?

Pain: How does the submissive feel about receiving pain?

Marks: Will it cause the submissive problems if the session leaves marks?

Humiliation: This can include "verbal abuse," forced exhibitionism.

Safewords: I recommend using at least two safe words: one for "lighten up" and one for "stop completely."

Opportunities: Is there anything either person has wanted to try?

Follow-up: What arrangements can be made for the two people to spend "vanilla time" together after the scene?

Anything else? Is there anything else to discuss or negotiate about before beginning?

PS... To T/those that asked Me ... I hope this helps a little. beautifullyfierceGoddess

BTW : I would recomend that You use this only as a guide and make Your own...list / questions...

* Please note that this is here as a guideline only *

You may have Your own way of doing things that is vastly different and to that I reply"Good for You. ..To each their own...Smiles

Guidelines in the BDSM Scene/Play-Party:

*Avoid making assumptions

*Be honest

*Be self aware: know your own wants, needs, and limitations.

*Don't touch someone Else's property without permission -- whether it is a toy or a person.

*Be tolerant

*Respect other people

*Respect other people's relationships

*Respect other people's sexuality

*Respect other people's gender identification

*Be polite: Say "please" and "thank you"

*Dominant does not mean domineering

*Submissive does not mean doormat

*Be discreet

*Negotiate play and play consensually

* The actions of the submissive or slave reflect on the dominant.

* The choice of dominant reflects on the taste and values of the submissive.

Desirable values

Empathy for others

Desire to learn

Concern for safety

Honesty and integrity

Investment in the community

Sense of humor and an willingness to laugh at oneself

Flexibility

Listening and communication skills

Self knowledge

beautifullyfierceGoddess

I had to post this because if made Me laugh so hard ....

Come of Girls ...you know You gotten this letter before and Men You know You have received the female version.

Too Funny...

What not to write in a letter to ME follows:

Dear Mistress,

Do me, do me, do this to me, do that to me, do this other thing to me, wear these clothes while you are doing it, force me to do these other things, and by the way I expect some kinky sex acts.

Here is a picture of my big hard cock for Your pleasure. I've only sent it to 6,780 women on this site so far, so it should make you feel really special that I'm sending it to you too. I won't pay you money because pros are so selfish and demanding.
You have to do all this stuff to me just because You like it, and if You don't, then obviously you are not a Real Domme.

I didn't actually read your profile and I could care less about what you are looking for or who you are as a person. I just want you to wear sexy clothes and do me. I'm married and sneaking around so discretion is a must.

I expect you to stay in your dungeon and never talk to me if you happen to see me on the street with my real friends and family. I can't give You my phone number or my real name either.

But I'm really, really submissive. In fact, I am your total sex slave.

To prove it, here is another picture of my big hard cock in bondage.

If you're a Real Domme, you will write back immediately. If you don't write back, you're just a fake, so fuck you, bitch.

Submissively,

Your Slave

Hope You got a laugh out of this one too...

beautifullyfierceGoddess

Something to think about

submissive women are very real! In fact, according to psychologists more than 55% of women have submissive sexual fantasies and half that number are obsessed with submissive sexual desires. submissive men are real !

"Submissive" is not a four letter word. Today's culture would have us believe it is.

Being submissive in no way makes me feel disrespected or unsatisfied.

I haven't turned into a door mat that gets walked all over. Just the opposite!

As a submissive I have a great responsibility and role . Yes, I'm not the one in command but does that make my role less worthy? No.

Think of it in military terms. You have a commanding officer and a soldier.
There is a chain of command. Does that make the soldier's role less important?

Of course it doesn't. If everyone was a commanding officer, there would be chaos! Same thing in your BDSM roles,

Having two heads of authority doesn't work by design. Once a conflict arises, you will both stand on your principles until someone compromises, or worse-- ends the relationship.

I take joy in serving He does not take advantage of me.

I serve because I want to He WANTS He values my opinion, he trusts me, he takes my advice and asks what I think on just about every subject.

This trust has been given because of my attitude when it comes to his decision making.

We talk, we share, he knows what's important to me. He ALWAYS takes that into consideration.

When He believes a decision to be right, I allow him to make that final decision

But, when He believes a different decision to be right, I still allow him to make that final decision.

Ultimately, my Dom is responsible for all the decisions made in our play before God.

He'll stand before God one day to give an account of His actions.

That's a weight lifted from my shoulders and yet such a hefty responsibility for my Dom.

I want to do everything possible to see U/ us succeed together.

dollbaby

FYI : First meetings will be held in a public place to where Y/you and I/ i feel safe to meet.

I am also... 2 for 1 This means W/we will meet twice vanilla before will consider 1 play date ....

beautifullyfierceGoddess / dollbaby

Dominants Creed

As the Dominant to my submissive I know that she gives herself to me in mind, body, soul and spirit and does so of her own volition. In me she has placed confidence, reliance, faith, hope, and dependence.

I will endeavour to ensure my submissive's needs and desires are learned, and her limits are respected at all times. I understand that the gift of submission is priceless and will cherish it always.

Through my actions I will demonstrate that I am in complete control of myself thus allowing me impress upon my submissive the need to relinquish any control she may subconsciously retain in order to facilitate our erotic power exchange.

I accept responsibility for all aspects of my submissives life, ensuring that each decision I make in her regard is the best for her body, spirit and soul. Never will I place my submissive in jeopardy, nor will I compromise the trust she has placed in me.

In order to bring my submissive to new heights and understanding, I will work to achieve a vast knowledge of all aspects of the lifestyle, thus allowing me to be the teacher that she so richly deserves.

I will honor, defend and guard my submissive at all times showing that my love for her will provide a safe harbor in times of adversity.

My Dominant self is rooted both in reality and in fantasy, yet I can easily differentiate the two never allowing the fantasy world to overtake that of the real world.

In times of distress and hardship, I will shed the role of Dominant and provide for my submissive, a supportive partner and confidante.

While often unrelenting and strict, bringing my submissive to tears, I will always kiss away the tears that are shed showing my submissive that while stern, my heart belongs to her.

I vow never to lift a hand to my submissive in anger. When punishment is needed it shall always delivered with a tender and discerning hand and for a valid reason.

I pledge to my submissive patience and understanding, tolerance and steadfastness allowing us to grow and nurture the bond we have established so that it may withstand the test of time.

Above all else, I will wear the title of Dominant with great honor

Remember that :

To the world you may be one... but, to one You may be the World ....

FYI : I am a (self proclaimed ) brat but please understand that I enjoy expressing my submissiveness by wanting to please and be pleasured rather than by misbehaving in order to be punished.

I like the spakings for fun , not for punishment....

It's not like I have done anything wrong so as to warrant getting a spanking.

Well, maybe moments of being such a darn good little girl. A boring, yawn inducing , vanilla (braty) girl who, (during work hours ) has to suppress her kinky side until it almost kills her.

Oh yes this little brat girl really needs a spanking ... among other things like (floggers, bondage, and more) ... giggles.

Please, Please ... may i have a spanking Master / Mistress, Please ? !!!!

Never allow someone to be YOUR priority, while YOU remain their option."

This is a lesson for all of us to remember be submissive or Dom.

Daddy Dom:
A Daddy Dom wants to be the center of your universe.
He wants to be able to provide for your every need and care.

But more than that he wants to be able to shape and mold you to the image he thinks you should become.
He sees in you someone who can achieve a much higher, much greater status.
He believes more in you than you believe in yourself.

What he wants in return is to be able to bask in his image of you, the image he has created. To achieve these goals he relies on a combination of love, respect, and discipline.

His love for his little brat goes without saying. He loves her as much for who she is as for who she will become with his guidance. She is his prized possession. His eyes light up when she walks into the room and he takes great pride in her successes. After all, he helped to create her.

This takes great strength on his part. It takes strength to control her, and to shape her to his needs and desires. It takes strength to be her confidant, her shoulder, her anchor. It takes strength to let her out into the world when all he wants to do is hold her safe in his arms. And it takes strength to do what is necessary when she needs to be disciplined.

A Daddy Dom provides something that is very important to his brat...acceptance. She is safe in his arms because he knows her, everything about her, and he still loves her. When she goes to him she knows that this man knows all of her dirty little secrets and it doesn?t matter. To him she is beautiful.

There is something infinitely magical about a Daddy Dom. Perhaps it is something only a bratty girl can understand...

What I/ i am into .....

*Hard Limits : NO:
Kids, Scat, Animals, Blood, Pain that causes real / lasting physical or emotional damage.

Love: To use the following ...in Domme Role...

Impact toys / Corporal Punishment (floggers, whips, canes, paddles, etc...

Sensation toys ( feathers, wax (candles), wartenberg pinwheel etc....

Bondage,

Orgasm Control,

Blindfolds , Gags ...

Role playing,

As you may know there is more that goes under these headings... (not a complete list)this is a journey that never ends, and what a wonderful trip it is.

Everything that I have put here are also things that i enjoy as a subbie...grins.

beautifullyfierceGoddess,

This pretty much sums up what i feel as a subbie and what I look for as a Switch...

Submissive's Creed

I will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. I realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Master or Mistress and I from from having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and emotional harm.

I will not try to manipulate my Master or Mistress. I will not push to make a scene go the way I feel it should. In other words, I will not top from the bottom.

I will keep an open mind about trying things that I am not comfortable with and expanding my limits. I will continue to grow as a submissive and as a human being.

I will accept the responsibility of discovering what pleases my Master or Mistress, and will do my best to fufill his or her wishes and desires.

I will not allow myself to be harmed or abused. I know that submissive does not equal doormat.

I will be courteous and helpful to my fellow submissives. I will share my knowledge and experience with others in the hope that they will learn and benefit from where I have been. I will take the time to help those new to the scene start out on the correct path.

I will be responsive to my Master or Mistress. I will not try to hide what my mind and body are feeling so that I may assist him in his responsibilities as my authority. I know that Dominants are not telepaths, and will not expect my Master or Mistress to know thoughts or feelings which I do not share.

I will accept in the responsibility of a scene or relationship gone bad. I will not place total blame on my Master or Mistress when it is not warranted simply because he is the Dominant. I realize that things may not work out as they should at times, and will do my best to put it behind me and move on.

I will give my gift of submission only to those that can responsibly accept and desire to receive. I will not place anyone in the position of Topping me non-consensually, nor will I give my respect to someone that has not earned it.

I know that D/s is not a contest, and will never think myself a "better" submissive because I choose to submit on a different level than another. I will not be boastful of the experiences I have had as a bottom.

I will be obedient to my Master or Mistress even if I disagree with what he or she is requesting. I realize he or she has my best interests at heart and often knows better than I what I need in a particular situation.

I know that my actions reflect upon my Master or Mistress, and will do my best to help others see him in a positive way. I will not intentionally embarrass or displease my Dominant.

Above all, I will wear my title of submissive with honor. I will never cause others to think that being submissive means to be weak or sub-human. I will take pride in who and what I am and will never show myself in a negative way.

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