Well after a semi succesful stint with a gal who joined us. We have discovered something important. Pot, Cigs, or vaporized either are massive turn offs for both of us. We can still taste it on your breath. shrugs. Still was a good time for all.

This isn't original and probably isn't the first time I have posted it either, but enjoy.

People want leadership, and in the absence of genuine leadership, they'll listen to anyone who steps up to the microphone. They want leadership. They're so thirsty for it they'll crawl through the desert toward a mirage, and when they discover there's no water, they'll drink the sand.

People don't drink the sand because they're thirsty. They drink the sand because they don't know the difference.

Quoted from the movie "The American President" but its still true even in BDSM.

There are lots of flavours and styles of Masters and Dominants in this world.

My style flows from a caring for slaves as if they were people. People I expect and care for and make sure are successes in this world. If you want no rights, and to be kept in a cage as a money sucking sex parasite who never gets to leave the house. Don't except me to be the right fit.

I exist in the normal world with a normal life and normal job. I enjoy and am thrilled by controlling people behind closed doors with minimal public play if any.

My goal is to build a functional poly relationship with a female alpha slave or switch and a beta slave or two. It would take honesty, care, patience, and trust for it to work. It isn't something that you can magically desire and get.

Swimming is probably the best exercise short of aggressively using a slave. A more complete work out too usually. However, no where near as much fun.

The hardest part of deciding the build a poly relationship is choosing to do it. Everything flows from there , it then becomes an opportunity to think to match personalities to choose styles, think of ways to manage a rules system. Its not something done on a whim like a vegas shotgun wedding.

I had a serious work accident in recovery for awhile now. Take care all.