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	I'm really uncertain as to whether this profile should be a statement of who I am as a person in general, or a list of my kinks in specific, so let me say this: The details of whatever type of relationship I might have with someone are open for interpretation, but I consider myself a daddy dom. I definitely want whatever experience I share with someone else in a D/s manner to be enjoyable for both parties, though very likely not in the same way (if I hurt you a lot, I don't know if "enjoyable" is the right word, but you know what I mean). But on the flip side, I very much enjoy things like buying clothes for a sub, as well as building up their self-esteem. Something that I guess is pretty important to point out is that I'm polyamorous. I've listed this on the side, but I guess it's kind of a big sticking point, which is weird to me. This doesn't mean I'm a swinger. This doesn't mean I'll constantly be discussing other women. This doesn't mean you aren't special to me. What this means is I allow my friendships that doorway, which can or cannot open at any time with the full express consent of both parties. The relationship I have with a sub is special and specific to its own rules, and might or might not involve the rest of my world. Yes, I have a (vanilla) girlfriend. No, we're not a couple looking for a slave or lover or threesome or whatever. We both lead our own lives. I'm not looking for play on the side; I'm looking for something deep and meaningful. I want someone I can spank and spoil, degrade and dote upon. In general, in my life I'm a pretty laid back, easygoing sort. I'm a bit of an elitist (though I try to stay nonjudgmental) and a bit of a geek (I put together my own computer, many of the books on my shelves are graphic novels, and many of those on my Kindle are sci-fi/fantasy, etc. etc.). I have other hobbies and/or interests on the side that I consider far more the focus of my life than my job. If you have any interest in starting a conversation and hopefully something more, feel free to write. The sidebar will tell you pretty quickly what sort of stuff I'm into. Also as a general sidenote: If you're JUST interested in chat/text/phone sort of play, then don't bother. Sorry, but that sort of stuff is only interesting on a rare occasion. I'm not saying we have to meet in person IMMEDIATELY, I'm just saying don't expect much beyond basic pleasantries and a slight bit of flirting until we've met.

7/25/2011 8:11:12 PM

oh, Christ, AGAIN with this bullshit! ANOTHER fake person on here for what reason? For what reason do you people taunt us who are here to actually make a connection with someone? The only real people I've found on here, I knew before I joined. Grrr. Driving me a bit crazy. Does anyone else have this problem/get annoyed w/dealing with this sort of bullshit?