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zakmagik

Hi, I have just realy started exploring the world of BDSM, I would be defined as a Dom/Master. It seems that every aspect of my life I have to control it. I have some friends that have been in this lifestyle for years and have been having parties for about a year. I have been going to those parties for almost a year and have learned alot about myself. I'm 40yrs old, Blonde hair,Blue eyes, 190lbs. I have a couple of tattoos on my upper arms. I've played guitar since I was 10yrs old. I ride dirt bikes and streetbikes. I love almost every kind of music out there.I read at least 2 books a week. I am a pretty good cook. I can't think of anything else to tell you so if you want to know more just ask.
I'm looking for someone I can be friends with first, with the possiblity of a LTR. I think ppl should talk and have respect for each other in a relationship. I am looking for a woman with a open mind about the world and relationships. I was in a swinger life style relationship for years, so a woman must be ok with that before I date them. I believe that just because you love someone does not mean you are not attracted to other ppl. I believe that ppl can seperate love and sex. I am looking for someone that shares that belief.
I truely do love sex,but what guy don't. I loved to tease and be teased. I have tried almost eveything out there. And found that only have a few things I don't enjoy or will not do. I'm looking for someone that would like a 24/7 arrangement.I tend to be drawn to females that need alot of disciplien and guidance. I also tend to be a Mashocist. Someone that likes the swingerlife style. someone that does not care that I drink and smoke. Or that I gamble and party. That likes sex as much as I do. someone that will have fun,even if she is being punished......I do not know if that person is out there but I am still going to search for her.. Also I'm realy bad at this stuff so if you need me to explain it more,please write and I'll do my best.