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Pan Male Dominant, 46,  United Kingdom
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I believe there is a natural order to the cosmos and all things in it. It is the eternal balancing act, where there is what is generally catagorised as right, and what might be construed as being...wrong. The list of things in the context of CM that I deem to be right:
  1. The urges, cravings, desires that drive submissiveness and the handing of control to another
  2. The assumption of that control to psychologically and physically manipulate and control the submissive or slave
  3. The physical manifestations of that control through restraint
  4. The constant reminders of relative status of a submissive or slave in comparison to its Owner
  5. The mutual satisfaction that needs to be the driving force; one persons satisfaction only is the sound of one hand clapping, it doesn't work.
  6. The wonderful sounds of a submissive or slave when tormented to the edge of reason; a fugue of devestating beauty.
The list of things that I deem wrong are:
  1. The assumption that it is acceptable for a submissive or slave to dictate how the service it provides will be given. The only mutual aspect is the definition of hard limits. After that there is no submissive control.
  2. The assumption that a submissive or slave, once control has been given over to another, may at will determine the levels of sexual satisfaction it may feel like indulging in.
  3. The assumption that once control has been given over to another, the submissive or slave can pick and choose playing with others.
There are other rights and wrongs but these are the most important. I believe the steps we follow in the dance of sub and master are determined by the chemistry that occurs when all aspects gel. We together will make music and I will cage you, your heart, your soul and your private parts. All will be under lock and key. I am looking for Females, Males or Transgendered. Your age, size, ethnicity are all irrelevant. Your total willingness to hand control over to me is all that matters. I will use it wisely and to our mutual benefit. I prefer slaves to submissives, but love both. I will test you to see if you are serious. I will only test you once, and I will not chase you. You will present yourself for consideration. I am sane and sensitive to individual characteristic traits, but I am experienced and I am knowledgeable so don't make the mistake in thinking I can be fooled or messed around. It is an unfortunate aspect of these sites that the cretins spoil it for the serious ones. Photos are available on request but only after passing my tests.








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