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Male Switch, 31, Beaverton, Oregon
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About XOpheliaRose
Pain is freedom for me, it quiets my mind, and frees my soul to live without fear.
I'm Ophelia, as in the lilting mistress of Hamlet. It represents a fragment of my personality, and I find her sorrow to commiserate with my own in many ways. I tend to swing from fluffy happy, to brooding and dark quite seamlessly. So if you can't appreciate the beauty and macabre of things like Pan's Laberynth, Tim Burton or the works of Brom, you probably won't get me.
I'm not really looking for love, but I'm also not looking for a buffet of casual encounters. The cornerstone of my world at the moment is stability, and self reliance, Not a lot of room left for promiscuity.
My identity in the lifestyle has fluctuated greatly over time. When I first emerged into the public community I was a half scared little girl looking at this dark wondrous thing with awe in her eyes. I can say that now I'm more of a brimstone breathing dark little fireball.
I play primal. Everything from hard animal aggression, to sensual. I work with my hands. Shaping things, creating things, or rending things all bring me joy. I have a deep respect for the tooling of leather, and other crafts, but the restrictive qualities of an outright leather lifestyle are just not for me.
I respect others and their titles, choices or cultural formalities, but don't expect me to participate. I will not Sir, Ma'am, Miss or Master you. I call hundreds of folks by sir and ma'am everyday at work! If I choose to call you something, it will have meaning to me, and not be some blanket title that I place on random strangers. I too, do not expect to receive those titles, but prefer a respectful, and individually based name if anything.
I am proud, and vain, and stubborn. I am also sweet, and kind, and giving if I'm motivated to be so. My interpersonal relationships are mine to determine though, so please, don't assume that because I treat someone a certain way that you are entitled to that same perspective of me.
I write, A LOT. It's a part of how I cope with my inner daemon. I find it the closest thing to cathartic that I can achieve on my own. Yes, on my own. I don't cry. But it's critical to me that I not be dependent on anyone right now.
I love fire, and rope, and a few other things. I'm into the spiritual experience of pain, and the pursuit of understanding my own body, spirit and mind. There are things I don't like, but if I play with you I'm sure I'll let you know what the limits are.
Want to know more? Hit that little message button and give me a holler. Maybe I'll write you back... |
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