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About XofDallas
I am a Top, which means I am Dominant in the scene, and in the bedroom. This means I am Dominant by nature, but I don't feel a need to parade it around or to wave the leather pride flag for all to see.
My situation is such that I no longer have to work at a job to live. This does not mean I will ever be a sugar daddy (shudder), because sugar girls don't tend to be the types I enjoy being around, but it does mean that I do as I want with my days, and that I can travel.
I do seek a comely, intelligent, attractive and height/weight proportionate submissive, as an occasional companion and play partner. I am not seeking a live-in 24/7 submissive.
As an example of the kind of girl I am seeking and why, I am planning a 10 day trip next fall to enjoy old haunts in the countryside in northern New England, including the Maine coast and Cape Cod, and to finish by attending a dungeon party the following weekend in Boston.
Such a trip is meant to be shared, but only with the right person. That person is female, submissive, intelligent, comely, and a pleasant conversationalist and companion. If the girl also is one who craves bdsm-induced subspace and likes being dominated and used occasionally, so much the better. If she's also an enthusiastic fire bottom, better still.
As to who I am... First and foremost, I am a man like any other, with some virtues and many faults. I enjoy the lifestyle a great deal and I have been active in it. Most in my area know me, and most seem to like and respect me. It seems most who identify as Tops/Dominants/Sadists on these pages say they're experienced. In my case it happens to be true.
As I've said, I am also a Top. That means I'm Dominant in the scene, and in the bedroom. However, I have no real desire to involve myself in a 24/7 Dom/sub relationship with all its implications and trappings.
I also am completely straight, but have no problem with being the Dominant in a cuckold relationship, as long as the female takes her direction from me.
Finally, in a very real sense, I am an artist. My tools are leather and fire, and mind and spirit, and my canvas is the nude, female form, imbued with the female psyche. My work, if it is worthy, evokes intense emotions – catharxis – release – the surge of endorphins and adrenaline – in the only audience I care about, namely, the bottom whose form I am working with.
In terms of what I'm looking for, it's simple. In addition to the travel companion I am seeking, I enjoy play dates (both public and private) where I can both have and provide a good time, and practice my craft on an appreciative canvas. If that's something you'd like to try, don't be shy. Let me know.
I am single, and I am neither seeking nor avoiding any types of relationships. Mainly, I'm enjoying my journey and the people whose lives touch mine (and whose lives I touch) along the way.
One thing, though - I do refuse to become involved in drama, gamesmanship or politics. Please check those things at the door.
Hmmm, I think that's clear enough. :)
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Interesting phenomenon. Apparently, if a person has viewed my profile, and then views it again, I will have no idea who it is unless I completely delete my "Who's Viewing Me" list. So, someone is presenting me with a mystery.
I don't want to delete the local submissives who've viewed me, because I enjoy their pictures and profiles, being the evil pervert that I am. And so, I have a dilemma. Do I delete them all so I can see who the secret admirer is, or do I keep the list as is?
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