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Transgender Switch, 40, NYC, New York
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Male Switch, 51, Holiday, Florida
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Male Switch, 41, Johannesburg
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About Xanthippi
I'm from Denver originally, got my BA in English Literature from Cornell College in Iowa. I moved to NY because I want to do publishing. I am super nerdy. I was president of the Science Fiction Club and the Gaming Club in college. I play games on my PC, love puzzles, and, even though it's more difficult now, I still enjoy role-playing games and board games. Used to watch anime a lot more than I do now but I still like it a lot. I read fantasy and sci-fi books and I listen to musicals but not much else.
I am looking for many different things one or more will be necessary if you wish to have some sort of relationship with me:
1. Someone to spoil me. Now that I am on my own for the first time, it won't be easy to spoil me. I'm used to having nice things and I expect you to meet my expectations. Even if you fail, it's still fun for me to watch you try.
2. Someone to serve me. If you are my submissive, I will own you. I don't want people who can't commit. I can deal with it if you have other things going in your life, but I will need to be a priority. Don't worry, I take care of my things. You will get commitment out of me as well, although we would have to discuss monogamy.
3. Someone to hurt. When Sadistic-Xani comes out, she will prowl around the house restlessly until she has someone to dig her nails into. I am very much into giving pain. Blood and knives are my favorite and do all sorts of wonderful things to me both mentally and physically. I have experience doing quite a bit of different sorts of impact play.
4. A mind I can manipulate. Aside from pain, simply being in control is the next best thing for turning me on. I've tried a lot of things and I'm willing and eager to explore further. I've been doing BDSM for almost 4 years and I'm not sure if that's generally considered a long time or a short time because I've always been the most experienced person I know doing these things but if it's short, I can tell you that I had quite a crash course in it. I lived 24/7 with my girlfriend for 1.5 years and we were quite active.
I am a lifestyle Domme and spend most of my life controlling those around me but I love the thrill of profiting off what I do. As a pro-Domme, I am looking for clients to fill some or all of the roles listed above.
I am currently seeking a slave for domestic service. Anyone interested in serving me in that way, please mention it first so I'll actually read your message. It wouldn't be an every day or a live in position but I would need to have a commitment of having you come to my place at least once a week.
To make things easy for you, I have some simple questions that I would like answered in as much detail as you feel comfortable giving.
*Why are you interested in me?
*What experience do you have?
*What do you want from a relationship?
*What are your fantasies?
*What are your vanilla interests?
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