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Male Dominant, 30, Gelen
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Submissive Couple, 26
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Female Submissive, 27, Tulsa, Oklahoma
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About xandice
Greetings and Salutations!?
What is it that I am looking for? Well, in short, a slave; however I realize that that is in fact quite vague-at best. ?A slave to me is just as it is defined-a slave. ?Meaning, you do not have any limits and want to be trained and treated without limits as well. ?It is simple really, it's my way or now way and if you don't do as you are told u get whatever punishment I deem necessary. ?Perhaps a flogging, bound and gagged; really the possibilities are limitless and I have quite the imagination.
Now to be blunt! ?If your a poser, fake, full of shit. Fuck yourself! ?I really hate the people that see this as HOBBY, some type of FAD thing to add spice to his/her boring mundane lives. ?It is much like being a Shao-lin, believing in 6 sigma, or anything less. ?A WAY OF LIFE ?Not, OH I feel like spanking my GF tonight....OOOOO
Okay, rant over. ?MORE TO COME Peace out Master Xandice
I first started thinking about BD/SM when I was about 12. I was in my room play like I had a woman in shackles suspended from the ceiling. Of course, I was heard and deemed a nut and many other things coming from a religious old world home.
Once I reached my majority, a cousin of mine, who came out of the closet as being gay herself, helped me realize that I am what I am. She is also the one that explained bd/sm to me as she is a Domme herself.
Needless to say, I have been involved in Master/slave relationships over the years. Many good years of self exploration.
.........more to come..........
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It has occurred to me that it would, perhaps, be advantageous to elaborate on how I view the Master/slave dynamic and why I feel that a "slave" is vastly different than being a sub. By vary definition of the word slave, as well as it's connotation, says and implies that he/she is with out anything unless it is given to them by the master. This entails anything from the right to speak, what to wear, how to act, punishment, etc. There is an implied "A" type categorical statement being made by action and definition of one being a slave.
So in a sense, no limit slave and slave, are the same side of a coin- redundant. Now of course many perspective slaves seem to think the worst when they hear "no limit" where as I think they should embrace it. No limit to me means that you will be pushed to a limits that the master has set for you. To me it is all about trusting your master to know what is best-as he/she should.
Well I am going to state being verbose, so I will be going for now.
Lastly, if you are a slave that is interested. You are welcome to send me a message. |
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