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WotantheGray

Male Dominant, 42, Rochester, Michigan
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WotantheGray - Male Dominant, Virginia Beach Virginia | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About WotantheGray

Greetings to all!

you may recognize the photo from another account, I have taken a break and deleted that account before due to RL issues. I have returned for now and would love to talk with people. The name WotantheGray is not saying i'm gray haired or old, it is just a nickname.

I am looking for friends more so than a companion at first, eventually I do want to find a companion to be with long term but i believe in friends before long term. I am also poly, meaning I believe in people being able to love more than one person at the same time in a romantic way. I am currently looking for that primary companion in life, I do have one secondary currently. If you do not wish a poly relationship with anyone you have three choices, 1) accept that I am poly and you would be told all you wish to know, 2) accept me as a friend and what ever else you and I decide or 3) tell me it won't work and you don't even wish a friendship. I will not judge you by your opinion or wishes unless you say one thing then mean another which you hide. I do not mind who messages me, submissive, Dominant, or slave as long as the contact is respectful. I also do not mind if I am contacted first, I do not require submissives or slaves to wait for me to contact you first, I may not have seen your profile yet, or been unable to contact you yet.

I am a gentle, kind loving person, I do have a streak in me where I can learn things I am not currently willing to do but I will not cause lasting harm to anyone. I am a very sensual person, so lets talk and go from there.

*** edited 1/30/11 to correct some things that seemed a bit awkardly worded. ***


alright last night's entry was a major rant, i was pissed off about work and a few other things so i did post that.  now i still believe that many (NOT ALL) people here do not practice what they preach in their entries or profiles.  the ones that do I love you for it, the ones that don't well you can enjoy your solitude.

I think it's abhorrent that either a man or woman even in this lifestyle will prey on another (and yes both sexes do it)  that they will tell someone I want X but really not care about X and wants a-w and y and z!  really if you want people to believe you, and someone says hello, just say hi back.  if someone is rude, delete their email and block them continue on with those that actually seem to care. 

I say seem since some will be able to hide their idiocy and rudeness for a time. 

anyways have a great week!
Alright, I got an email from cm and it was something that seems to be new.  i hadn't gotten anything from them for a long while.  I stopped coming here because besides a couple of nice people here, no one wants to even talk to me.  why? no one knows at all since no one even decides to send a mail from someone that obviously reads profiles, looks at things that are listed there and even brings them up in a message.

well does it make someone feel wanted? hell no.  so once again after two days it falls once again to the standard of I send a mail and then blamo nothing back, not even after the mail was "read".  was it really read? I don't know and won't care to know.  it seems that there are many here who will make a profile and say what they want and don't want and then they do what they don't want as well.  let me explain by example.... (made up, but very close to many I see)

Woman X:  .... I can't find a real man here.  I can't get anything but "hi pig" or "bleep my bleep bleep".... I want someone real, someone to respect me....   don't just mail and then ignore me!!!.....

Guy Y:  hmmm this person seems fair, I know the site has a hell of alot of jack offs here.  she has several common interests.  I'll send a message saying hi and show i'm real by making comments about NON sexual likes/loves/curiosities. 

woman X: oh another email!  I'll open it and then ignore it.. there are no real men here.

Guy Y:  it's been days since I sent a message... well apparently she thinks i'm not someone she wants to know.   oh well apparently she can't even follow what peeves her big time. 


well this is what has happened to me.  out of 5 people messaged in the last few days, I have been contacted back by ONE person.  am i a bit bitter? right now sure... i'm tried, work was bad... and well i just needed to vent about something, and i wish that people would look at what they really want, ask for it.  find it and be happy.  but do others some kindness.  if someone OBVIOUSLY doesn't send a form letter and respond.  even if it is:  "thanks for your interest but I am not interested".  now last thing:  if you don't want "stalkers" or "creepy guys following you here"  then think about it. if you ignore them, will they TRULY go away?  sure if they are the nice guys that you want, if not then you just feed them to start stalking you and keeping on mailing you trying to find out why you won't say anything.

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