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*i don't usually email people first, maybe it's just a girl thing, so if i check out your profile and don't contact you, please don't be offended :-) *
i don't have a set goal in mind for what i'm looking for here. Friends for sure, maybe more with the right person. i don't want to be anyone's "play partner" or "dirty little secret." So, if you're commitment-phobic, looking for a quick lay/spank, married, seeing someone or anything like that, keep browsing, i'm NOT your gal.
Now that we've gotten that out of the way...
i've been part of the scene/lifestyle/community/whatever you want to call it for several years now. Had a few D/s relationships of different flavors, and there's not one that i necessarily prefer. It's all about the connection with the other person. Some people make ya feel like a little girl, others like a pet and so on and so forth. i can categorically state i am NOT a slave, i will never be a slave, and if that's what you want i would be a huge disappointment to you.
On the 'nilla side of things, i'm a mom, a vegetarian, a liberal and an athiest. Best to put all those things out there right off the bat i think.
So, if you're interested, or i just seem entertaining, hit me up and we'll see where things go. :-)
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"It’s not about pain. It’s about being open, being completely
vulnerable to another person. If you can learn to be that deeply
trusting… it changes you"
~Annette Raines (House, Season 1, Love Hurts)
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Alas, i have been neglecting my journal again. i don't have anything particularly important to put here, i just thought it was time to put something up that's less than a year old. Toodles!
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Well i made it to my first Folsom Street Fair this year, certainly something to experience! Had a fantastic time!
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Someone recently pointed out to me that most of my journal entries are rather....... negative. It's not that i'm this super angry bitch or anything (although i'll admit, i have my moments), i'm just bein' honest. Partly, i'm just tired of people wasting my time. Yes, it may only be the 32 seconds it took me to read the email that says "Kneel down slut and this is what i'm going to do to you... blah blah blah" but that's 32 seconds of my life that i'll NEVER get back. The same person also encouraged me to put some of the qualities i DO find attractive in instead. The thing with that is, you tell someone what you want... there's a very good chance they'll tell you that's what they are, whether or not it's true. i'm just lookin for people who will be honest with me. Don't tell me something just because you think it's what i want to hear. It's not gonna get you laid, and it's certainly not conducive to building any sort of a relationship, even a friendship. And you might as well be honest to begin with, the truth will come out eventually anyway.
**This completes our broadcast, we will now return to our regularly scheduled programming***
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No, i do not want to be trained online.
No, i do not want to play online.
No, i am not interested in an online relationship.
No, i will not have phone sex with you.
No, i will not take naked photos of myself to send you.
No, i will not drive, fly, ride on a train/bus/donkey halfway across the country to meet you.
No, i do not want to top you, beat you, humiliate you or dominate you in any way, shape or form.
No, i will not refer to you as "The Mighty Goddess" or whatever such nonsense term of adoration you seem to think you deserve from a complete stranger.
Whew! Glad we got that cleared up.
Have a nice day....
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Something i've noticed, and find rather amusing. Sooo many profiles say things like, no fakes, no time-wasters, no players, no phoneys, yadda yadda yadda. Does this actually stop the phoneys/fakes/players etc from contacting them? i mean, it's not like someone's gonna come right out and say, "hey, i'm a fake and a flake and i'll get you interested and then disappear in order to stroke my own ego." No. So i'm just curious, what's the point?
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Ok, i don't understand something... if anyone has the answer, please share...
Why email someone JUST to say that you think there's something wrong with them? i don't get it. You don't know the person beyond the blurb on their profile, and yet you feel qualified to make judgement calls about them as a person. Don't clog my inbox with your desperate attempts to make yourself feel superior. i don't give a flying rat's ass.
Insulting people online is like competing in the special olympics, even if you win, you're still retarded. (yes, politically incorrect, but accurate and pretty damn funny, if you ask me.) |
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OK, some basic info...
If you invite me to chat and i don't know you, i'm going to decline, every time. Don't take it personal, and don't get pissy about it. Stomping your feet and whining is not an attractive trait.
If you send me an email that's basically porn with a "Hi i'm Bob/Jane/Sue, and this is what i'd like to do to you" at the beginning, is not gonna serve you well. A simple "hello" is much more appealing, and makes you look much less like a horny geek boy, another unattractive quality. |
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yes, there are typos in my profile. no, i don't feel like changing them. |
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I have been asked to leave my job, drop everything and move in order to serve Masters in distant locations. Please understand that I have a small child I am responsible for and I cannot relocate without considerable planning and financial assurances for my child’s sake, as well as my own well being. |
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